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#227 Nov 15 2013 at 5:39 AM Rating: Excellent
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The best you can do is be a shining example of the religious life, being open, welcoming, loving and giving. If you are a beautiful enough person yourself, then sinners may be interested in finding out more about the materials that motivate you.


This is something that most religious people that I've seen/know fail to comprehend. When you try to push your beliefs onto others, you actually push people away. When you live your life as an example, people will imitate.


Are you going to start living your life as an example?
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#228 Nov 15 2013 at 5:47 AM Rating: Default
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The best you can do is be a shining example of the religious life, being open, welcoming, loving and giving. If you are a beautiful enough person yourself, then sinners may be interested in finding out more about the materials that motivate you.


This is something that most religious people that I've seen/know fail to comprehend. When you try to push your beliefs onto others, you actually push people away. When you live your life as an example, people will imitate.


Are you going to start living your life as an example?


I'll bite...

I did 29 years ago.
#229 Nov 15 2013 at 7:32 AM Rating: Excellent
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Anyone see the Blind Boys on Colbert last night?

They were kind of spiritually inspirational. I thought for a second while listening that maybe the world could stand to be accountable to some benevolent entity.
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#230 Nov 15 2013 at 8:10 AM Rating: Good
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Anyone see the Blind Boys on Colbert last night?
Nicely done. Brava.
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#231 Nov 15 2013 at 11:26 AM Rating: Good
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If I were to explain it to you now, it would be exactly what I wrote before. What you stated NEVER happened, so you either made that part up or you're confusing that with something else.


Liar. I even created a madlib in that thread so you could clearly state your reasoning as in that thread, many others concluded the same thing; magical post 206 does not clearly state why you are opposed to equal rights for gays and/or disagree with the homosexual lifestyle.
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You stated that disagreeing with black lifestyle = racism. So, please define "black lifestyle" and provide an example of a person who tolerably disagrees with it and is still considered a racist.


Ya know those white people that pass ordinances banning saggy pants? They don't think they themselves are bigots & think they themselves are tolerably disagreeing with black culture. I disagree.

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I've said several times that my reasoning against the appeal was not to prevent homosexuals from serving openly.


Mostly, in that thread, you just made false equivalences to other things the military discriminates against so its ok to do so by sexual orientation.

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There are so many restrictions among sexes, that blindly appealing DADT without adjusting other parts of the military would only create more contradictions and discrimination.


Did it?

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I've always said that I have personal opinions against SSM, but support it.


And you've never clearly conveyed those personal opinions, so here we are again 2 years later, with you ******* up another gay thread without having the balls to come right out & say why gay dudes make you uncomfortable.
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#232 Nov 15 2013 at 11:39 AM Rating: Good
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Ya know those white people that pass ordinances banning saggy pants? They don't think they themselves are bigots & think they themselves are tolerably disagreeing with black culture. I disagree.
Baggy pants can cause problems in the work place. I've seen it.

Secondly, baggy pants are not a black fashion statement. They're a grunge youngster fad.

I try not hard not to formulate an opinion based on how far down the hips someones pants hang, but when they fall off and/or their step distance is limited to 10 inches, it becomes a question of practicality and nuisance for others.
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I did.















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#234 Nov 15 2013 at 2:45 PM Rating: Excellent
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What Torrence said in his big post.


Always makes me giggle.

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I disagree with homosexuality because of the reasons mentioned on page 14. Everything can be explained there.


I think the actual reason that some of the more vocal opponents 'disagree' with homosexuality is because it's really hard for a man to hide arousal. This other crap is just smoke and mirrors.
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How do you disagree with homosexuality?

It's like disagreeing with nighttime.

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It's like disagreeing with nighttime.
Well it disagreed with me first. Smiley: mad

Late night onions on pizza and laying down and such. Where's the tums? Smiley: rolleyes
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#237 Nov 15 2013 at 3:24 PM Rating: Excellent
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I think alma maintains it's a choice.
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#238Almalieque, Posted: Nov 15 2013 at 4:19 PM, Rating: Sub-Default, (Expand Post) Er? Maybe if you're like 12. As many arousals that a man gets through his life time, you fail at manhood if you are unable to hide an arousal.
#239 Nov 15 2013 at 4:27 PM Rating: Excellent
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Er? Maybe if you're like 12. As many arousals that a man gets through his life time, you fail at manhood if you are unable to hide an arousal.
Hey sometimes it kind of shifts funny when you're sitting. Then you suddenly realize it's pinned down between your leg and your pants and getting really uncomfortable. Smiley: um

It happens. Smiley: bah
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Er? Maybe if you're like 12. As many arousals that a man gets through his life time, you fail at manhood if you are unable to hide an arousal.
Hey sometimes it kind of shifts funny when you're sitting. Then you suddenly realize it's pinned down between your leg and your pants and getting really uncomfortable. Smiley: um

It happens. Smiley: bah


Don't get me wrong, there are situations where it becomes more difficult than others, but not enough to label the task in itself as difficult.
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What criteria do we use to make that determination?


Ability, for the most part. Gays can do any jobs straights can.


So no employer is allowed to make any hiring decision based on any criteria other than ability? How precisely do we enforce such a thing?

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As I stated earlier, a logical criteria is to examine the broad socio-economic condition of the group in question and determine if some specific discriminatory action(s) is affecting that condition to a sufficient degree to result in a significant and clear disadvantage for that group.


I don't think too many gays are being discriminated against in the work place on the left coasts & in most of those states, its illegal to do so. Its those other states that are the problem.


Are they? Do you have statistics to show that homosexuals as a whole within our society are socioeconomically disadvantaged *and* that discrimination based on sexual orientation by employers is the cause of that socioeconomic disadvantage *and* that this disadvantage is so significant that we must take action to prevent it? That's what I keep asking people to do, and people keep tap dancing around.

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Historically, we have been able to show this for religious affiliation, and for sex, and for race. Thus, over time, we've added each of those to a short list of criteria which cannot be used to discriminate. That's the criteria we use. The problem is that when you try to apply that criteria to sexual orientation, it doesn't work.


If "ability to do the job" is the reason we've decided its not ok to discriminate against one's religion, gender, or race; how does that not work for sexual orientation?


You didn't read my post. I was talking about the reason we added those groups to the short list of groups who are protected from discrimination. And that reason was that there were significant (some would argue overwhelming) data showing that those groups were suffering serious socioeconomic disadvantage as a direct result of employer discrimination. That's why we made it illegal for employers to discriminate on those basis.

I don't believe that discrimination based on sexual orientation is even in the same ballpark in terms of overall effect on the socioeconomic outcomes of any group within our society. You're free to disagree, of course, but the burden is on *you* to prove that there is sufficient negative impact to a defined group so as to justify creating a special protection for them within our laws. If you can't, then we shouldn't be creating that special protection for them. Kinda obvious, but there you have it.

Prove there's a problem that justifies the solution you're proposing.

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There is not very clear and significant differences in socio-economic status that can be tied directly and purely to sexual orientation. Certainly not when compared to other groups for which we allow discrimination (such as short people, as I mentioned earlier). There must be some objective threshold of "harm" at which we decide is sufficient to justify prohibiting discrimination, and sexual orientation doesn't meet it.


I think its pretty harmful for the gay person who is fired once his bigot of a boss finds out he's gay.


Of course it is. Now show that the set of "gay people" is sufficiently disadvantages as a whole to justify creating a special rule disallowing that discrimination. It's harmful for the guy with long hair to be fired (or not hired) by the boss who's bigoted against guys with long hair. Yet, I don't see anyone saying we should pass a special exception to our laws prohibiting employers from discriminating on the basis of someone's hair length.

Do you understand what I'm saying? Obviously, anytime someone is discriminated against, it hurts them. But that's true of all forms of discrimination. And we don't make all forms of discrimination illegal in our system. So you have to show more than that this one guy right here would be hurt by being discriminated against. You need to show that allowing that particular form of discrimination is so overwhelmingly harmful to a group of people within our society that we absolutely must make it illegal.

Can you do that?

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I'm fairly certain anyone whom thinks it should be ok to discriminate based upon sexual orientation dislikes homosexuals, or is pandering for the votes of people that do.


You'd be wrong. Ok. Let's put this another way so as to remove any emotional association with this particular issue. And let me also make clear that "ok to discriminate" in this context simply means that we don't pass a law making it illegal, not that the person personally approves. Those are not the same thing.

Do you believe that anyone who thinks it should be ok to discriminate based on hair length dislikes people with long hair, or is pandering for the votes of people who do? I'll assume your answer is no. Part of living in a free society is allowing others to make their own decisions for their own reasons, even when they differ from the decisions and choice you would make because you recognize that you get the same freedom in return. That means that even if I have no problem with guys with long hair, I respect that someone else might, and when it comes to decisions regarding his own property/money (like hiring people for his business) he has every right to decide not to hire guys with long hair.

I grant him that right, because maybe I don't like people with moles, or long fingernails, or who have mullets. His freedom to choose who works for him in his business is the same freedom I have to choose which brand of soap to buy at the store. It's all discrimination. Every time you make a choice you are discriminating. That is not wrong or bad. It's a necessary component of liberty. The point being that in a free society, the freedom to do something should not be dependent on other people agreeing with what you're doing. Thus, even if I personally disagree with someone who doesn't want to employ homosexuals in his business, I must (and will!) defend his right to do that. Because failing to do that is accepting a system that imposes one set of rules and one set of choices on everyone. And that's not liberty. That's the opposite of liberty.

Only when it becomes a really major problem should we step in and infringe that freedom. And we should be really really really careful about making that choice. Doing so for emotional reasons, or because we like a group, or we're afraid of being labeled as a hater of a group if we don't, are absolutely not good reasons.

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The person who is not hired or fired because their boss dislikes homosexuals is sufficiently disadvantaged, even if the overall rate of disenfranchisement across the country isn't high enough for your standards.


I disagree. It's not about the individual person. It's about the group. That persons right to be employed is less than the employers right to choose how to spend his money employing people. Period. Only if you can show a significant and clearly associated negative impact to an entire definable group as a result of systematic discrimination should we even consider creating an exception to that rule. And, at the risk of repeating myself for the umpteenth time, no one here has come close to doing that.


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Protecting a homosexual's right to work isn't a "special" protection, its equal protection. If you really think thats wrong, well, you're an @#%^.


Of course it's a "special protection". If it were equal protection, we'd prohibit discrimination against anything for any reason at all. We don't do that. We don't come close to doing that. We don't protect the right of short people to work, or people with long hair, or short hair, or painted fingernails, or tatoos, or lack of tatoos, or dyed hair, or any of a thousand other random things about a potential employee which an employer might decide to use to make his hiring decision. We don't do that because in order to do that we'd have to create such a ridiculously authoritarian system so as to eliminate pretty much all freedom. You'd have to have some kind of government organization which assessed potential workers based on ability, and then have it decide who employers must hire with the full force of the law behind their mandate. That's the only way to achieve your "only based on ability" standard.

Um... Stop and think about that. That would not be a free society at all. Trust me. You don't want to live in that kind of a dystopia. But that's what would be required for what you are arguing for. We have to allow employers the freedom to hire folks based on whatever criteria they want. It's their money and their choice. Once we understand this, then we understand that this issue isn't as simple as saying "it's discrimination" and declaring it wrong. Discrimination is good and necessary for a free society. Start with that assumption and then assess (objectively) this one case.

And btw, the whole "agree with me or you're an ***" argument is weak as hell.

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Makes me pretty happy to know that you're not in any position that actually matters. Kind of like an old man sitting on his porch and screaming at people walking by, completely removed from reality.

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Makes me pretty happy to know that you're not in any position that actually matters. Kind of like an old man sitting on his porch and screaming at people walking by, completely removed from reality.


It's really not my fault that some combination of mental or educational deficiency has caused you to be completely unable to grasp the basic principles of what is required for a free society to exist. I can only try to explain it to you over and over and hope that it's more the latter than the former that is causing this inability on your behalf.

Seriously. Do people just not think? What do you think freedom is? Because "forced to do what your government says" isn't it. You cannot have a system that assumes we can't discriminate without having a system in which we have no liberty. I know it violates your bumper sticker understanding of politics, but this is a basic truism. Liberty requires discrimination. If you can't grasp that then you are lost.

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Liberty means discrimination.
Look, I've explained you, you don't need to keep giving examples proving me right. You're not complex or deep. Just a simple naysayer. You believe that you can call a couple of words "logic" and it'll take the place of facts and reality. You believe that if you take the opposite side of a topic, and people don't praise you that you can say they're the ones not thinking as an automatic defensive posture for your weak positions. There's better ways to get human contact, maybe you should explore those. Or don't. Keep screaming "LOGIC!" and "LIBERALS!" every sentence, and then feign condescending shock when no one takes your faux-intelligence naysaying serious. It's gotten old and predictable.
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What criteria do we use to make that determination?


Ability, for the most part. Gays can do any jobs straights can.


So no employer is allowed to make any hiring decision based on any criteria other than ability? How precisely do we enforce such a thing?
The same way we enforce the current laws? You have to some evidence they discriminated and prove it in court? Why would it be any different? Smiley: confused
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Liberty requires discrimination.

What a brave, bold stance for a white heterosexual male to take.

Remember when I said your arguments served as a sterling example of why I'm not a conservative. Yeah. That.
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All those people who came to this country over the last 500 years looking for liberty from discrimination are going to be disappointed. Smiley: frown
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All those people who came to this country over the last 500 years looking for liberty from discrimination are going to be disappointed. Smiley: frown
But they got the liberty to discriminate others now!
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Don't get me wrong, there are situations where it becomes more difficult than others, but not enough to label the task in itself as difficult.


Like when you are in the locker room, the bathroom, the shower... all those places that the big 'disagreements' seem to be focused on.

Not being equipped I can't say for certain the level of difficulty such deception presents, but I do know that your signs of arousal are more visible than a woman's and maybe this is the real reason some men just can't stop talking about it.
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Don't get me wrong, there are situations where it becomes more difficult than others, but not enough to label the task in itself as difficult.


Like when you are in the locker room, the bathroom, the shower... all those places that the big 'disagreements' seem to be focused on.

Not being equipped I can't say for certain the level of difficulty such deception presents, but I do know that your signs of arousal are more visible than a woman's and maybe this is the real reason some men just can't stop talking about it.


I've been participating in these threads for some years now and I don't recall that point EVER being made ever at all ever of all time. The *assumption* is that the average gay man who participates in those types of environments are accustomed to them (like nude European beaches) to the point where that isn't an issue. Simply changing or being naked doesn't equate to an instant erection. So, unless you're 12, you have some techniques to *assist* prevent yourself from having an erection openly in front of a group guys. Furthermore, unless you're using an old fashion locker room/shower, each person is given enough privacy that no one would even notice even if you did have one.
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The best part of the "it's okay to discriminate against homosexuals because religion!" is that taking that stance means you have to also take the "it's okay to discriminate against women/dark skin because religion!" package as well.
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