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#177 Apr 03 2013 at 6:44 PM Rating: Default
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Try again.

When gay marriage becomes legal nationwide, I'm not going to divorce my husband so I can get married to another chick instead.

Although if by participating you mean I'll attend a homosexual wedding, sure, why not. I bet their catering and theme is going to be fabulous.


Participating in the sense that you're being required to pay for it. I thought I was pretty clear what I meant. We take part in something when we fund it, even if not directly.
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#178 Apr 03 2013 at 6:52 PM Rating: Excellent
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Not sure why you're facepalming, unless you missed the question.

Not at all. Gay couples aren't doing that because such contracts don't exist. Not much more complicated than that.
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#179gbaji, Posted: Apr 03 2013 at 7:11 PM, Rating: Sub-Default, (Expand Post) They do exist. They just don't exist in standard form that's easy/cheap to obtain. Of course, for an infinitesimal fraction of the money spent on political change to state marriage laws, they could have written such a contract and made it available to any gay couples who wanted one. And in the time they've spent, said contract could have been tested in court and become common enough to be recognized and accepted by all the various parts of society that gay couples want to recognize their marriages.
#180 Apr 03 2013 at 7:14 PM Rating: Excellent
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gbaji wrote:



There is nothing preventing a standard contract from existing defining a marriage without the state being involved in writing that contract or legislating it. And there's nothing preventing hospitals, courts, adoption agencies, etc from recognizing those contracts within the framework of their own operations. If they'd done that 20 years ago instead of embarking on their current course of action, gay couples would today enjoy every single thing they claim they want from marriage.

Edited, Apr 3rd 2013 5:40pm by gbaji

Smiley: lol

So, instead of 'fighting' for equal recognition under the law gays should have been building an equal but separate system identical to the other (or close enough eh)?

Seems way easier to just drop the bigotry.
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#181 Apr 03 2013 at 7:54 PM Rating: Excellent
No, gbaji, it doesn't exist. As it has been explained to you many, many times, the paperwork you are talking about does not address many of the things that a federally recognized marriage addresses, like green cards, hospital visitstions, the estate tax, social security and health benefits, and so on.
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gbaji wrote:
They do exist.

For all the rights/privileges/etc enjoyed by married couples?

Nope. Not a contract out there that will transfer someone's veteran benefits to their non-spouse, for instance.

Edited, Apr 3rd 2013 11:18pm by Jophiel
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#183 Apr 04 2013 at 6:40 AM Rating: Excellent
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They do exist. They just don't exist in standard form that's easy/cheap to obtain. Of course, for an infinitesimal fraction of the money spent on political change to state marriage laws, they could have written such a contract and made it available to any gay couples who wanted one. And in the time they've spent, said contract could have been tested in court and become common enough to be recognized and accepted by all the various parts of society that gay couples want to recognize their marriages.


Not true, but let's pretend it was. It still wouldn't address the issue of equality and removing the societal stigma. Which is as important as the legal benefits. If black people had to go to a separate agency and fill out more complex forms to be granted a license to drive, you can see...sorry wait, let me rephrase, a reasonable person without significant brain damage could see how they might find that unfair even though the end result was identical. For the record, I have literally no interest to any "response" you offer to that.

Are they? I thought conservatives opposed gay marriage because of religious reasons and no one argued that it was about procreation? Which is it? Given the sheer number of times over the years that I've been told that my arguments on this issue aren't the arguments used by other conservatives, it seems strange to now have them labeled as "conservative establishment talking points".

Reasons? Reasons aren't arguments. The reason people oppose is gay marriage is one of the primary tenets of the Republican Party. There are three legs to the foundation of the GOP: 1. Distribute wealth from the poor to the wealthy through various structural means domestically. 2. Protect wealth abroad through military action. 3. Demonize classes of people to provide an opportunity for your base to feel better than someone.

3 is a very strong seller. It's the *only* reason the GOP expresses concern about Affirmative Action, Immigration, Gay Marriage, etc. So that straight white us citizens can feel better than others by virtue of some innate characteristic. I mean, obviously if they could feel superior by means of accomplishment they'd be Democrats, so you have to offer the loser cowards some way to self esteem.

That's the *reason*. The arguments are wholly synthetic, obviously. No one really believes that immigrants are criminals or whatever the other ******** merchants are spewing out this week and you're blindly copy pasting. They change (as you should know) constantly. What doesn't change is that you can phrase all of them this way "Straight white citizens are better than these people for absolutely no reason beyond existing in the straight white citizen state" I suppose in some cases you could add "Christian" there, but the GOP has been pretty good about not blaming the Jews for everything in the last couple of decades.
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#184 Apr 04 2013 at 7:43 AM Rating: Excellent
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No. It's a special right you're asking for because you want a same sex partner who we all know isn't the biological parent of a child to automatically be considered as so.


The huge deal being made over kids is kind of comical. Humans have been growing up in weird families and thriving no matter the conditions for centuries upon centuries. Being raised by a non-biological parent isn't the end of the world. If this was REALLY what you were worried about, why not put your time and energy into convincing your fellow heteros to keep their babies and completely outlaw divorce?

Besides that, parental rights aren't automatically granted when straight couples marry anyway. When my mom got remarried after her divorce it didn't suddenly make him my "dad". He didn't have the rights my father did just because he married my mother, and wouldn't have such rights unless he adopted me. Hey, that's kind of the same as what would happen if my mom had married a woman, huh? Interesting how that works out. Same laws would apply, Gbaji. Same ones.

And finally, this is one of the dumbest **** you ******* retarded republicans spew out of your ignorant, neurosyphillis infested heads:

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Catwho wrote:
Try again.

When gay marriage becomes legal nationwide, I'm not going to divorce my husband so I can get married to another chick instead.

Although if by participating you mean I'll attend a homosexual wedding, sure, why not. I bet their catering and theme is going to be fabulous.


Participating in the sense that you're being required to pay for it. I thought I was pretty clear what I meant. We take part in something when we fund it, even if not directly.


Yea, paying taxes sucks, especially when it's for something you don't benefit from. I know. I've been paying for you and your kind to run around rutting in the mud making babies you can't afford to take care of for my entire adult life cause like, you just can't put on a ******* free condom from planned parenthood. I've been paying for your brats to have a public education and free meals while they are bussed all over the county. I've been paying for your tax breaks when you got married and will continue to pay for those for the foreseeable future. And then, and THEN, when I FINALLY say hey - can't I benefit just a LITTLE from all my hard work? You say **** you - you're gay! You don't count! I don't want MY tax dollars funding your perversion or w\e! Ha ha ! As if we don't pay taxes too! You think that somehow I checked a box on my tax return saying "I'm gay" and I suddenly didn't owe any taxes?

**** you Gbaji. **** you right in your ear.
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@#%^ you Gbaji. @#%^ you right in your ear.


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#186 Apr 04 2013 at 9:17 AM Rating: Excellent
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If gbaji believed in any of the points he copies and pastes he'd be more about stopping marriages like Britney Spears' and less about George Takei.
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#187gbaji, Posted: Apr 04 2013 at 5:08 PM, Rating: Sub-Default, (Expand Post) It does not address green cards, estate taxes, social security, tax breaks for health insurance, etc. But it *does* (or can) address hospital visitation and decision making, inheritance, guardianship, joint finances/property, adoption, and an overwhelming number of the things that gay couples argue are the reasons they want to marry. Not a lot of sympathy for the cause of gay marriage is gained by arguing "We have a right to avoid paying the estate tax", is there? Nope, it's always a sob story about a gay spouse being denied visitation in a hospital.
#188gbaji, Posted: Apr 04 2013 at 5:16 PM, Rating: Sub-Default, (Expand Post) False.
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Not a lot of sympathy for the cause of gay marriage is gained by arguing "We have a right to avoid paying the estate tax", is there? Nope, it's always a sob story about a gay spouse being denied visitation in a hospital.


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#190gbaji, Posted: Apr 04 2013 at 5:18 PM, Rating: Sub-Default, (Expand Post) This statement kinda indicates you either didn't bother to read my points, or you failed to understand my points. Is Takei going to accidentally get his partner pregnant (or accidentally be impregnated)? No? Then that's how you're wrong.
#191gbaji, Posted: Apr 04 2013 at 5:22 PM, Rating: Sub-Default, (Expand Post) Yes. Because that's the case being brought. I just said that it's interesting that the case isn't something that's normally argued for by the gay rights crowd. if I'd asked you to list off 10 reasons why gay couples should be allowed to obtain marriage licenses a year ago, it's a good bet that this reason would not have been on the list. Or, we can go back and look at any of a number of gay marriage threads over the years here and see which arguments are made and which aren't.
#192gbaji, Posted: Apr 04 2013 at 5:29 PM, Rating: Sub-Default, (Expand Post) Wow you missed the point on that one. The reason you aren't considered your step fathers child is because your step father isn't your biological father. Your father was. And if he was married to your mom at the time you were born, you were automatically assumed to be his child by law (barring him challenging it). That's the point. Marriage isn't about raising children after the fact, but about the parents being married at the time the child is born because it ensures we have a father taking responsibility for the child.
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Elinda wrote:
then you should be granted all the same rights as a married couple
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Not at all. Gay couples aren't doing that because such contracts don't exist. Not much more complicated than that.
They do exist.
gbaji wrote:
It does not address green cards, estate taxes, social security, tax breaks for health insurance, etc.

Smiley: laugh

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#194 Apr 04 2013 at 5:54 PM Rating: Excellent
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gbaji wrote:
This statement kinda indicates you either didn't bother to read my points, or you failed to understand my points.
I read them this time and the last several times you made them, and I understood them all those times as well. They're not any more true now than they were then, and manage to get less convincing each time you make them. I really don't believe you're a conservative. It's more like you've got Stockholm Syndrome.
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#195gbaji, Posted: Apr 04 2013 at 7:31 PM, Rating: Sub-Default, (Expand Post) Sigh. Same answer as before:
#196gbaji, Posted: Apr 04 2013 at 7:36 PM, Rating: Sub-Default, (Expand Post) It's an argument dummy. Do you not understand how this works?
#197 Apr 04 2013 at 8:15 PM Rating: Good
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Yes. Because that's the case being brought. I just said that it's interesting that the case isn't something that's normally argued for by the gay rights crowd. if I'd asked you to list off 10 reasons why gay couples should be allowed to obtain marriage licenses a year ago, it's a good bet that this reason would not have been on the list.


Of course not, it's a stupid reason. If you'd asked for a list of good court cases to bring, it'd be near the top of the list. The best plaintiff is almost never the one with the most damages. Not novel or particularly interesting, unless you're a young child, I suppose, or operating under some illusion that court cases are scripted like Lifetime movies.
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#198 Apr 04 2013 at 8:39 PM Rating: Excellent
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I think the right to avoid paying taxes is something, that as a conservative, you should support. The fact that you support it for vanilla marriage & not gay marriage is because...?
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#199 Apr 04 2013 at 8:51 PM Rating: Excellent
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I think the right to avoid paying taxes is something, that as a conservative, you should support. The fact that you support it for vanilla marriage & not gay marriage is because...?
Because straight couples could get accidentally pregnant and it's all for the children but ignore married couples over 60 or where one or both are infertile.
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gbaji wrote:
Sigh. Same answer as before:
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Notice that those things that said contract would not do don't have anything to do with adoption and child rearing

That's not what Elinda said though. She said "granted all the same rights as a married couple". In which access to benefits is the same privilege married couples enjoy and is included. Not just the ones Gbaji deems worthy of same sex marriages or child rearing. So to answer "Yeah, they should totally just make contracts, how come they don't do that, huh?!" is either you being ridiculously stupid or you intentionally skipping the point so you can argue something else entirely.

Or maybe a little from Column A and a little from Column B. After all, you've been foolishly beating the "contracts!" drum for years now.

Edited, Apr 4th 2013 10:27pm by Jophiel
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#201 Apr 04 2013 at 10:46 PM Rating: Excellent
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Omegavegeta wrote:
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I think the right to avoid paying taxes is something, that as a conservative, you should support. The fact that you support it for vanilla marriage & not gay marriage is because...?
Because with gbaji and his ilk, "Separate but Equal" is a-ok.

Edited, Apr 4th 2013 10:46pm by Bijou
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