I not looking for dating service i play the game to.
Just when valentines come you see all these loving cuples cuddling ,you see all these marriages .i love playing this game why i got so many high level chacters i just know alot my friends meet there true love online my friend was 36 meet a 21 they meet in the game got married in real life.
i only 1 year older then him.
It get lonley when half your friends you once knew quit.
if it happned it happneds it dont oh well i just looking for someone who likes same things i do.
There's not a whole lot to be said, that Jyneefur hasn't already said, and said well mind you. But as far as your second post, congratulations to your friend, who met that girl, and then married her in real life, as was already said, that's a rarity.
As far as being lonely, I feel for ya. I quit for 8 months, before coming back, and well over half of my friends have gone, including my "Online Companion" as Vas expertly put it. I was pretty bummed out, and thoroughly lonely for a little while. 90% of my LSs broke, and those that were left, were full of members I never even knew. It was a rough time, but you find more friends, and you don't worry so much about e-love. I think that's where I differ, from a lot of my friends in the game. They think every female they run into in game, who is friendly, is their one and only true love. That every female in-game that offers to go out of their way to help, is coming onto them. Sometimes, they're just a friend, or they're just being nice, and helping. I have several female friends in-game that I've never advanced towards in that way. I'm more than happy to just remain friends with such a wide array of people.
If something should happen between myself and one of those friends mentioned above, so be it, if not, things will be the same as they are now, and that's not really that bad. I guess what I'm trying to say, is not to go looking for something that's not really there. Don't go being one of those horror story guys that these female gamers write here about. Learn to cherish what you have, rather than being sour about what you don't. You seem like a cool guy, I'm sure if there's a girl on XI worth your time, she'll find you. And if not, you still have the friends you do have on there, that haven't left the game, and plenty of opportunities to make many others. I know when I leave the game, if ever I do, I'll have hundreds of awesome memories to look back on.
As far as "Many of your friends meeting their true love" on here. I don't know about that really. I mean it may be true, and the one that got married, obviously it worked out for him. But I see a lot of people, that meet in game, and they think that XXX person is the love of their life. Even if they live 13 hours away, and have a r/l boyfriend who just doesn't play the game. I see a lot of girls, and a few guys, that have r/l partners, some even married, who don't mind if their partner has in-game lovers. Unfortunately, sometimes the lovers, don't know that the person they're falling for, is already taken. I also know people that "fall in love" every other week. That's more like puppy love, like Jyneefur was saying. Again, I feel for ya, because I fall easily too, but not nearly as easily as I see a lot of people here doing.
Chin up man, enjoy the time that you have, and be content with it. Believe me, things could be a lot worse. And by the way, I was alone on Valentine's Day too, honestly, it wasn't that bad =P
Man, this turned into a longer post than I had hoped for. >.>
...here's a /slap for almost making me lonely XD
~Edited for typographical errors. And for...
Vasana's Sig wrote:
Born: November 1st, 2004
That makes you 1 year, 5 months old? That's not just wrong, it's illegal v_v
Hah, couldn't resist, sorry <.< Edited, Thu Apr 20 15:01:30 2006 by Simp