Sounds like you need a linkshell. A linkshell is essentially just a chat room.
Ichiban is a normal social linkshell that has adopted many new players over the last year.
We'll try and find you, but we need to know what your character name is and what times you normally play. (If you can post that here or at:
www.freepowerboards.com/Ichiban we'll keep an eye out for you.)
OR
you can send a /t to:
Shusio
Reddrag
Alaha
Rownin
Ryhaa
Meequwae
Xelltrix
Dinnin
Everclear
Revitzou (sp?)
Denore