You have massive run on sentences, no paragraph structure, propositions just hanging there, and you're complaining about another person's intelligence?
Mr Pot, meet Mr Kettle.
Beyond that - so you had some bad parties, big deal. Either suck it up, take the XP from the party and move on OR, leave the party, find a better on and be happy.
I'm still trying to see how a 63 PLD and 71 RDM can be elitist, but well, maybe that's just your term for a shi77y attitude. Did you ever thing to educate the PLD on hate control issues?
Maybe you should grow up a little more, realize it's a game, relax and have fun. Or... maybe you should stick with your first thought and be done with FFXI. It'll make things happier for us anyway.
90 BLU, PUP, DNC, THF, COR & BRD.... yes, I finally finished BRD to 90....
I once ate the soul of a MNK
It tasted like chocolate.