Yet another Player Warning: HavoccFollow

Just like the other really STUPID threads about this kind of issue... and yet... it keeps happening..

Are Havocc and Malise friends? If not, Why the HELL would you loan out a Peacock Charm to a complete stranger? I'm not saying I agree with Havocc taking it, But I DEFINITELY don't think Malise should have loaned it to him..

toioz is a big fan of criticizing everything and everyone, you should just ignore him :P

Despite quite a few hurt feelings over it, this just bears out once again my personal policy that I simply never loan any of my gear out. To anyone.

It's sometimes a harsh policy, considering there's lots of people on here I like, and consider friends. But I've seen far, far too many stories just like that - "So-and-so was my best bud on the game, but after I loaned him my <Item>, he loaned it to Whodat and they sold it!"

Or some variation thereof.

It's just not worth the inevitable headache.

I agree Dwyn. Although there are a few people I would lend items too, (3 of them are RL Family members :P), I would probably only trust 1 person that i've only known in game with my items. Other than that, I won't be lending out anything expensive unless there is collateral :P

I have the same policy on lending things out to people who are on my Flist. Only ones who ever get my gear are those in my personal linkshell whose members havent changed in over 2+ years. Everyone in it is completely trustworthy and we always are swaping gear to each other. But, I have people who I've known for a LONG time who ask to borrow this or that and I have to respectfully decline. Most of the time they understand, but this is the exact reason I have made it my personal policy to not loan out anything. Too bad SE doesent have some sort of lease policy on items. Where both parties have to agree on a set time limit on having some piece of gear, which cannot be traded or sold by the receiving party. After the time limit is up, it is automatically sent to the rightful owners mog or something along those lines.

But hey, you snooze, you lose. I dont like Trollie's idea of having anyone elses login password and ID. If this persons account info is given to me, then chances are that person has given to another. I dont want any chance of something coming back on me that I had no part in. Which inevitably it would. So that is completely against my policy.

I know Havocc as an aquaintance(sp?) I do know that he was into gambling a lot a while ago and got into a little bit of trouble by running a casino with AltanasTears pearl on. Hope this is all a big misunderstanding. I say chances are 50/50. Good thing is the charm is more or less much easier to get with seals and having it r/ex drop from Argus now.

Happy Gaming,
Med

Isn't Havocc the Galka DRK who is a girl and supposidly sisters with a Mithra high level RDM? I can't remember the Mithra's name but she was in DeadlySins (like 2 years ago) and AE.