Hey there Ifrit!
Not sure if this is the best place to look, but it is the only place that springs to mind really. I am currently on the look out for a European LS, mainly for the social aspect but also for things like people to do proper BCNM runs or job leveling with. Standard stuff really! Im not into endgame yet, although Id love to Ive been playing since 2004 and still am only level 64 on Dragoon :P
I enjoy FFXI alot but am always held back by lack of friendly faces in-game. I have a few IRL mates who play on and off and seem to be caught in a perpetual "waiting for them to catch up" game and its getting somewhat frustrating now.
Im not a hugely dedicated player in terms of time, and play as and when I can (I work shifts, so my hours of play are sporadic). I do like to be the best I can be and currently am working on various subs to provide my Dragoon the utility needed to get me by.
So all in all, does any fairly active mostly social based LS need another friend? :)