There's no way to win this debate without posting a pic of Nexa.
I'm not in the habit of posting pictures of Nexa without her consent. Because I like having genitals when I wake each morning. Many people on this forum have met or seen images of her, many on teh facebooks. I don't think it's really an arguable thing. I'd feel that way if I'd never met her. The fact that she's also incredibly smart, funny, a great mother and all that other sappy bullsh*t means that even if she looked like Jabba the Hut, I'd still love her. On balance, though, I'll go with the current state of affairs.