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#602 Mar 25 2013 at 3:13 PM Rating: Decent
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You can't just switch the terms man and woman to mean sex and/or gender to support your point.
That's correct. The terms refer to gender.
#603 Mar 26 2013 at 1:36 AM Rating: Decent
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Almalieque, Rachel (however incommunicatively) was arguing for pages that gender should not be defined by genitalia. Not that sex should not be determined by genitalia, but that gender should not be be determined by genitalia.

Rachel also stated that sex IS DEFINED biologically. However, he also said that women could have penises. The last time I checked, a ***** is biological, not stereotypical traits as described with gender. So the correct label would be a man with a female gender. You can't just switch the terms man and woman to mean sex and/or gender to support your point.

If sex is biologically defined, then how does a person with zero woman biological traits and all man biological traits be defined as a woman? That person is defined as a man by sex with the freedom to choose to exercise either a male or female gender. Just because a man decides to choose a female's gender, it doesn't biologically change him into a woman.

Because biologically, sex is NOT just a matter of genitalia. Biologically, there is a difference between Male and Female brains, which is largely set when the fetus is in the womb. Most of the time the biologically Male brain develops with biologically Male genitalia. In a small but significant percentage of pregnancies, biologically Female brains develop in fetuses with biologically Male genitalia, and vice versa.

One example of the difference between male and female brains is the thickness of the corpus callosum, which is the cord of nerves that connects the right brain hemisphere with the left brain hemisphere. In Female brains this cord is usually significantly thicker than in Male brains. This doesn't mean that men and women are wildly mentally different creatures from each other. But there are minority differences that are significant enough to push males and females into some statistically different groupings. Females are likely to be a little better at multitasking. Males are somewhat more prone to be unable to vocalise when they are very emotionally upset. Although males can multitask just fine, and females are also prey to being unable to talk when very upset. On intelligence bell curves, Males tend to extend into both the highest and lowest extremes more than females. The males at the extreme highest intelligence levels are speculated to be there because they can single-task to the exclusion of everything else better than females, who tend to spread their thinking more widely. I haven't read anything yet to tell me why women are more protected than men from the very lowest end of the intelligence scale.

Basically, the medical profession doesn't think that men who think they are women actually don't have any female biological traits. It's just that most of their female traits are all in the brain (as opposed to all in the mind). There may or may not be some other hormonal and general nervous system traits going on as well.
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#605 Mar 26 2013 at 9:44 AM Rating: Good
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In light of this, and assuming Rachel is a male-to-female transgender, I'm assuming that Rachel would really appreciate the personal security of being permitted to use facilities that are concurrent with her gender but not her sex. I'm assuming that Rachel, for instance, would feel very uncomfortable walking back into the male sex bathroom that she's used for most of her childhood in a girl's haircut, make-up and feminine clothing. She'd probably feel very out of place doing that, and be aware that the men in the bathroom would probably be uncomfortable with her being there.


So I avoided from mentioning the hypocrisy in this sentiment when the thread was interesting. However, since it's pretty much dead, I'll bring it up. Where were all of these feelings when debating DADT? How come heterosexuals can't execute their same feelings to choose their surroundings when dealing with comfort? How is it "homophobia" for a heterosexual, but "ok" for not only transgenders but often women?


A better way to phrase the spirit of your argument might be why is Rachel concerned about the comfort of the men around her in the male restroom but isn't concerned with the comfort of the women around her in the female restroom?
#606 Mar 26 2013 at 9:46 AM Rating: Good
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Torrence wrote:
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Arip wrote:

In light of this, and assuming Rachel is a male-to-female transgender, I'm assuming that Rachel would really appreciate the personal security of being permitted to use facilities that are concurrent with her gender but not her sex. I'm assuming that Rachel, for instance, would feel very uncomfortable walking back into the male sex bathroom that she's used for most of her childhood in a girl's haircut, make-up and feminine clothing. She'd probably feel very out of place doing that, and be aware that the men in the bathroom would probably be uncomfortable with her being there.


So I avoided from mentioning the hypocrisy in this sentiment when the thread was interesting. However, since it's pretty much dead, I'll bring it up. Where were all of these feelings when debating DADT? How come heterosexuals can't execute their same feelings to choose their surroundings when dealing with comfort? How is it "homophobia" for a heterosexual, but "ok" for not only transgenders but often women?


A better way to phrase the spirit of your argument might be why is Rachel concerned about the comfort of the men around her in the male restroom but isn't concerned with the comfort of the women around her in the female restroom?


You can stand him up, point him towards an argument, and give him a gentle prod in the backside, but he's still going to teeter off to the side and fall down a nearby set of stairs.
#607 Mar 26 2013 at 9:55 AM Rating: Decent
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Torrence wrote:
A better way to phrase the spirit of your argument might be why is Rachel concerned about the comfort of the men around her in the male restroom but isn't concerned with the comfort of the women around her in the female restroom?
Because women aren't nearly as uncomfortable with sharing a restroom with other women as some people here seem to think.

Edited, Mar 26th 2013 11:57am by Rachel9
#608 Mar 26 2013 at 9:56 AM Rating: Excellent
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Almalieque wrote:


Arip wrote:

In light of this, and assuming Rachel is a male-to-female transgender, I'm assuming that Rachel would really appreciate the personal security of being permitted to use facilities that are concurrent with her gender but not her sex. I'm assuming that Rachel, for instance, would feel very uncomfortable walking back into the male sex bathroom that she's used for most of her childhood in a girl's haircut, make-up and feminine clothing. She'd probably feel very out of place doing that, and be aware that the men in the bathroom would probably be uncomfortable with her being there.


So I avoided from mentioning the hypocrisy in this sentiment when the thread was interesting. However, since it's pretty much dead, I'll bring it up. Where were all of these feelings when debating DADT? How come heterosexuals can't execute their same feelings to choose their surroundings when dealing with comfort? How is it "homophobia" for a heterosexual, but "ok" for not only transgenders but often women?


A better way to phrase the spirit of your argument might be why is Rachel concerned about the comfort of the men around her in the male restroom but isn't concerned with the comfort of the women around her in the female restroom?


You can stand him up, point him towards an argument, and give him a gentle prod in the backside, but he's still going to teeter off to the side and fall down a nearby set of stairs.

Of course his point is at the bottom of the stairs, duh. Now he has to wait until you slowly walk down there so he can make it. Smiley: oyvey
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#609 Mar 26 2013 at 10:04 AM Rating: Good
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Eske Esquire wrote:
You can stand him up, point him towards an argument, and give him a gentle prod in the backside, but he's still going to teeter off to the side and fall down a nearby set of stairs.

Of course his point is at the bottom of the stairs, duh. Now he has to wait until you slowly walk down there so he can make it. Smiley: oyvey


When I was a kid, I once sent my brother down the stairs in a laundry basket, with a pillow to hold in front of his face as an airbag.


...Not that I'm recommending doing that to Alma, of course. That'd be crazy.








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#610 Mar 26 2013 at 10:06 AM Rating: Good
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I did that to my older brother. Minus the laundry basket, a pillow, and his wallet.
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Rachel9 wrote:
Torrence wrote:
A better way to phrase the spirit of your argument might be why is Rachel concerned about the comfort of the men around her in the male restroom but isn't concerned with the comfort of the women around her in the female restroom?
Because women aren't nearly as uncomfortable with sharing a restroom with other women as some people here seem to think.


Interpretation: You don't tell them.
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#612 Mar 26 2013 at 11:46 AM Rating: Decent
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I did that to my older brother. Minus the laundry basket, a pillow, and his wallet.


Smiley: mad

My bother pushed me headfirst into a fish tank. Also sans pillow or laundry basket. Don't know about the wallet, I was too busy checking to make sure my head wasn't severed on the glass.
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#613 Mar 26 2013 at 11:53 AM Rating: Decent
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Interpretation: You don't tell them.
Do you tell everyone you share a public bathroom with about your genitals? I'm pretty sure that would make most people uncomfortable regardless.

Edited, Mar 26th 2013 1:54pm by Rachel9
#614 Mar 26 2013 at 11:59 AM Rating: Decent
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Rachel9 wrote:
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Interpretation: You don't tell them.
Do you tell everyone you share a public bathroom with about your genitals? I'm pretty sure that would make most people uncomfortable regardless.


No. But then I use the restroom that's set aside for people with my genitals, so I don't have to. As I said earlier, I do this because I acknowledge that in the society we live in, most people are uncomfortable sharing a restroom with someone with a different set of genitals than they have (kinda why we have different restrooms in the first place), and I respect that by using only the restroom that matches my genitals.
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#615 Mar 26 2013 at 12:48 PM Rating: Decent
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I do this because I acknowledge that in the society we live in, most people are uncomfortable sharing a restroom with someone with a different set of genitals than they have
Yeah, this isn't really true. You are in the minority. I know it might seem that way, since some people are really vocal about their hate for trans people, but the majority really don't have a problem with us sharing a bathroom with them. In fact, i can assure you people would be more uncomfortable if i went into a men's bathroom wearing a dress.

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#616 Mar 26 2013 at 2:18 PM Rating: Decent
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I do this because I acknowledge that in the society we live in, most people are uncomfortable sharing a restroom with someone with a different set of genitals than they have
Yeah, this isn't really true. You are in the minority. I know it might seem that way, since some people are really vocal about their hate for trans people, but the majority really don't have a problem with us sharing a bathroom with them. In fact, i can assure you people would be more uncomfortable if i went into a men's bathroom wearing a dress.


Then why not tell them?
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#617 Mar 26 2013 at 2:31 PM Rating: Default
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gbaji wrote:
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I do this because I acknowledge that in the society we live in, most people are uncomfortable sharing a restroom with someone with a different set of genitals than they have
Yeah, this isn't really true. You are in the minority. I know it might seem that way, since some people are really vocal about their hate for trans people, but the majority really don't have a problem with us sharing a bathroom with them. In fact, i can assure you people would be more uncomfortable if i went into a men's bathroom wearing a dress.
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I'm pretty sure that would make most people uncomfortable regardless.
#618 Mar 26 2013 at 2:33 PM Rating: Decent
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Arip wrote:
Because biologically, sex is NOT just a matter of genitalia.


I've only said that several times.

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Biologically, there is a difference between Male and Female brains...

Basically, the medical profession doesn't think that men who think they are women actually don't have any female biological traits. It's just that most of their female traits are all in the brain (as opposed to all in the mind). There may or may not be some other hormonal and general nervous system traits going on as well.


If you want to list the brain's neurology as "biological", that's fine. However, now you're confusing "human biological traits" with "sex defining traits". Many, if not most, gender traits stem from brain activity. Just because you like the color pink (aka positive brain stimulation when presented the color pink, doesn't make you a woman. That is not a sex defining trait. Again, that is the entire purpose of the creation of the word gender, to differentiate common traits among sexes from sex defining traits.

Basically, you can't ignore the entire reproduction system along with other more notable physical differences and call a man a woman because of his intelligence level.
#619 Mar 26 2013 at 2:44 PM Rating: Good
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gbaji wrote:
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I do this because I acknowledge that in the society we live in, most people are uncomfortable sharing a restroom with someone with a different set of genitals than they have
Yeah, this isn't really true. You are in the minority. I know it might seem that way, since some people are really vocal about their hate for trans people, but the majority really don't have a problem with us sharing a bathroom with them. In fact, i can assure you people would be more uncomfortable if i went into a men's bathroom wearing a dress.


Then why not tell them?
If I walk into any bathroom, regardless of what gender people are in there, and say something like "hey, just wanted to let you all know that I have a *****," it's going to make most people uncomfortable.
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Rachel9 wrote:
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I do this because I acknowledge that in the society we live in, most people are uncomfortable sharing a restroom with someone with a different set of genitals than they have
Yeah, this isn't really true. You are in the minority. I know it might seem that way, since some people are really vocal about their hate for trans people, but the majority really don't have a problem with us sharing a bathroom with them. In fact, i can assure you people would be more uncomfortable if i went into a men's bathroom wearing a dress.


Then why not tell them?
If I walk into any bathroom, regardless of what gender people are in there, and say something like "hey, just wanted to let you all know that I have a *****," it's going to make most people uncomfortable.
I'm not sure why Gbaji needs this explained to him...
#621 Mar 26 2013 at 4:06 PM Rating: Default
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He doesn't, he just wants people to do that so he can then say "Hah! I told you people would be uncomfortable with you in there!"
#622 Mar 26 2013 at 4:14 PM Rating: Good
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I wouldn't care what gender anyone else in the bathroom is, as long as they don't try to engage me in conversation. If someone came in and said "hey, I have a ******" I'd be more concerned with why they thought they should tell me this and why they're saying anything to me at all if it isn't something pertinent like "hey, you have some toilet paper on your shoe".
#623 Mar 26 2013 at 4:53 PM Rating: Decent
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Rachel9 wrote:
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I do this because I acknowledge that in the society we live in, most people are uncomfortable sharing a restroom with someone with a different set of genitals than they have
Yeah, this isn't really true. You are in the minority. I know it might seem that way, since some people are really vocal about their hate for trans people, but the majority really don't have a problem with us sharing a bathroom with them. In fact, i can assure you people would be more uncomfortable if i went into a men's bathroom wearing a dress.
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I'm pretty sure that would make most people uncomfortable regardless.


Right. But your claim was that the majority of women don't have a problem with you going into the women's restroom even though you have male genitalia. But you can't say that if you conceal this fact from them. Their apparent lack of concern for your presence in the restroom isn't because your appearance as a woman satisfies them that you are a women in terms of gender identity, but that they assume you are a woman in terms of genitalia.

I'm not saying verbally tell them, but that if you "told them" by your outward appearance, the story would be very different. Walk into an occupied womans restroom dressed as a male, and see what happens. Again, it's not how you dress that affects the reaction, but that it's assumed that your appearance indicates your physical sex, and *that's* what they're reacting to.
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#624 Mar 26 2013 at 5:01 PM Rating: Default
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But you can't say that if you conceal this fact from them.
Why not? If they can't even figure it out, then it's obviously not a problem, even if they would care if they knew.

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I'm not saying verbally tell them, but that if you "told them" by your outward appearance, the story would be very different.
lol, yeah, no kidding.
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Rachel9 wrote:
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But you can't say that if you conceal this fact from them.
Why not? If they can't even figure it out, then it's obviously not a problem, even if they would care if they knew.


There's so many things wrong with that statement that I'm not even sure where to begin. So if someone doesn't complain about something they don't know about, then it's really not a problem? And yeah, I think they would care if they knew.

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I'm not saying verbally tell them, but that if you "told them" by your outward appearance, the story would be very different.
lol, yeah, no kidding.


Yup. Which strongly suggests that they would care if they knew. Why would you assume it's because they're all just peachy with your gender identity being female?
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#626 Mar 26 2013 at 5:29 PM Rating: Good
Rachel9, I would have no problem if you (or any other transgender male-to-female individual) used the ladies room and I happen to be in there as well.

I am a woman, and I approve this message.

ETA: gbaji, stop acting like you really care how any woman feels.

Edited, Mar 26th 2013 6:29pm by Belkira
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