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#552 Mar 23 2013 at 11:02 AM Rating: Default
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Rachel wrote:
That is not at all what i am saying.

That was the question that I asked you. Does your concept of labels apply to every word?

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That's fine, but everywhere else it's known as a gun. So you can continue calling it a toaster, but you can't say it's not a gun. Because it is. Being a "toaster" doesn't prevent it from also being a "gun".


Exactly. Likewise, a man wearing a wig and a dress is known everywhere else as a man wearing a wig and a dress. So, I ask again, what's your beef? What rights?

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This is...not true. For example:
'Tis the truth.

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All i had to do was change my name, and say i'm a woman now, and what do you know, even you will refer to me as "she".


I've been referred to as "she" all of the time on this thread, doesn't mean anything. I also referred to people, such as Eske, by the wrong sex. This is the Internet. All we have to go by is your name and what you say.

In any sense, you said that a label is just a word and it doesn't change the thing or concept. So, you can change your name on this forum to "John totallynotagirl Smith" and everything that makes you who you are will remain constant. To argue otherwise insinuates that labels are more than just words.

By your own philosophy, you are wrong. If we are free to create and use any label as we see fit, then what is your beef?

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Eske's Law. Thread lock plz.


That was intentional.


Edited, Mar 23rd 2013 7:02pm by Almalieque
#553 Mar 23 2013 at 11:23 AM Rating: Decent
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That was the question that I asked you. Does your concept of labels apply to every word?
For the hundredth time, yes.

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'Tis the truth.

I dunno, <15% of the people who know i am trans have ever once called me a man or boy, or referred to me as "he" since they found out. And most of those were accidental, quickly followed by a correction and apology. Everyone else has exclusively used words such as "woman", "lady", "girl", and "she". That doesn't seem very wide spread to me.
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This is the Internet. All we have to go by is your name and what you say.
Yes, and what i've said is that i'm a woman who has a *****. Surely you've read that much? And yet, you clearly still think of me as a woman.

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By your own philosophy, you are wrong. If we are free to create and use any label as we see fit
You are, but until it becomes widespread (let's say, no less than 50% of the people in a community for it to even be considered), don't be surprised when no one accepts it as valid.

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#554 Mar 23 2013 at 12:09 PM Rating: Default
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Rachel wrote:
For the hundredth time, yes.
Don't get agitated at me. You're the one bouncing back at forth. If your concept of labels apply to every word, then why do you care about the word? Only if your concept varies per word, will using "sex/gender" would matter. The word could be rapist. The result would be the same.

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I dunno, <15% of the people who know i am trans have ever once called me a man or boy, or referred to me as "he" since they found out. And most of those were accidental, quickly followed by a correction and apology.


So, that's what this is all about. It has nothing to do with actual definitions or facts, but a personal issue. If what you said were true, then we wouldn't be having this conversation. I did not create this issue. You're confusing personal preference/respect with laws,rules and regulations. I have a friend who's relative is a homosexual man. She and her family refer to him as a girl, even though he doesn't portray one. To me, that is insulting. Rather or not you are homosexual, a man is still a man. HOWEVER, if that's his preference, then so be it.

That logic does not, nor should not, apply to laws, rules and regulations that discriminate based on sex. There are, and should always be, guidelines. Either get rid of the discrimination or support it. I shouldn't be able to put on a wig and be able to compete as a woman in scenarios where there are sex discrimination.

What people call you is not the topic. The topic is how to integrate trans in sex discriminating scenarios. There is absolutely nothing "wrong" with calling a man "she" in the men's locker room. The issue isn't rather or not we call the man a "she", but rather he should be in the woman's locker room, playing on an athletic women's team, etc.

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Yes, and what i've said is that i'm a woman who has a *****. Surely you've read that much? And yet, you clearly still think of me as a woman.
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You are, but until it becomes widespread (let's say, no less than 50% of the people in a community for it to even be considered), don't be surprised when no one accepts it as valid.

I did not read that. I apologize for overlooking that.

I'm not going to insult you if you prefer to be seen as a woman. However, that respect is mutual as you cannot enforce your belief onto me if you believe in your concept of labels. As long as you ask me, you are a man. Men have penises and women have vaginas, along with other biological differences. Of course there are rare exceptions, but those exceptions do not include a "change of heart". You don't have monthly periods, you can't give birth, you don't have all of the other medical/biological differences that come with being a woman. If you're going to spout out that labels are just words, then I'm able to exercise that same right. I'm not going to get in your face and yell "YOU'RE A MAN!", because I couldn't care less how you label yourself. At the same time, don't expect people to deny science because you want to be different either.

So, I ask again, what's your beef? What rights?
#555 Mar 23 2013 at 12:16 PM Rating: Decent
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I have a friend who's relative is a homosexual man. She and her family refer to him as a girl, even though he doesn't portray one. To me, that is insulting. Rather or not you are homosexual, a man is still a man.
Yes, that does indeed sound quite insulting!

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You don't have monthly periods, you can't give birth,
Neither can plenty of other women.
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you don't have all of the other medical/biological differences that come with being a woman.
That usually come with being a woman. No, i do not, and have never claimed to.

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At the same time, don't expect people to deny science because you want to be different either.
How does gender not being based entirely on sex go against science? It's a pretty well documented phenomenon.

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#556 Mar 23 2013 at 1:22 PM Rating: Default
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If your concept of labels apply to every word, then why do you care about the word? Only if your concept varies per word, will using "sex/gender" would matter.

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Neither can plenty of other women.


Which is just one of many biological aspects that make a woman. There's a huge difference between a man and a woman not having a period. A woman not ever having a period is considered abnormal, while a man is not capable of having one.

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How does gender not being based entirely on sex go against science? It's a pretty well documented phenomenon.


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There is absolutely nothing "wrong" with calling a man "she" in the men's locker room.


The topic is over sex discriminating laws, as sex is the primary form of discrimination, not gender. In other words, most people differentiate by sex, not gender. So, as man, I will label you by your sex, which is male. If you prefer the female gender, that's fine, but don't expect others to bypass your biological sex as a man.

So, I ask again, what's your beef? What rights?
#557 Mar 23 2013 at 1:28 PM Rating: Excellent
Not arguing with you does not equal agreement, you moron. I, for one, have absolutely no idea what the **** you're on about. Even if I wanted to argue with you (which I assure you, I do not because of the off the wall insane tangents you go down) I couldn't.
#558 Mar 23 2013 at 1:30 PM Rating: Decent
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If your concept of labels apply to every word, then why do you care about the word?
Because until your definitions become accepted by a large portion of the community, they are not valid. If you want to use the words gender and sex to refer to exactly the same thing, you can go right ahead. And if everyone else goes along with that, then one day they will in fact mean the same thing. Until then though, please clarify what you mean, because I am not familiar with the way you are using those words.

Edited, Mar 23rd 2013 3:32pm by Rachel9
#559 Mar 23 2013 at 1:34 PM Rating: Excellent
Rachel9,

Just ask Alma why he's uncomfortable peeing next to a chick with a **** so he can spend the rest of the thread not answering the question.

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#560 Mar 23 2013 at 1:41 PM Rating: Good
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You mean why he wants to? Because we don't want to pee next to him, but wants to force us to Smiley: rolleyes
#561 Mar 23 2013 at 5:42 PM Rating: Default
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Belkira wrote:
Not arguing with you does not equal agreement, you moron. I, for one, have absolutely no idea what the @#%^ you're on about. Even if I wanted to argue with you (which I assure you, I do not because of the off the wall insane tangents you go down) I couldn't.


Phewww. Good thing I wasn't talking to or about you. That was partially my fault for not clarifying my point. Then again, I deserve more credit in knowing my audience after 10 years of posting here. I am fully aware of your inability to follow a thread. I would be shocked to see a response from you, especially without a quick concession. Years ago you would have been a different story.

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Because until your definitions become accepted by a large portion of the community, they are not valid.


Exactly and the definition of sex based on biology and not gender is accepted by a large portion of the community.

Rachel wrote:
If you want to use the words gender and sex to refer to exactly the same thing, you can go right ahead.


I'm not using them as the same word. I've distinctly used them separately throughout this thread. You've gone around in so many circles that you don't even know what you're arguing about. Maybe that's the reason why you can't expound on the "transgender rights" that you are arguing about. You don't actually have a point. Either that or you're simply in denial.

I'm referencing to your concept quoted above. "until your definitions become accepted by a large portion of the community, they are not valid.". You've said for the "hundredth" time that your quoted concept applies to all words.

In other words, if a man labels his sex as a man and society accepts it, then it is valid. If a man labels his gender as a man and society accepts it, then it is valid. Therefore, it doesn't matter if you're arguing for sex and/or gender, because in either instance as long as society accepts it, then it is valid. That's not saying that sex is the same thing as gender.

It's not that freakin' hard to grasp....

So, I ask again, what's your beef? What rights?
#562 Mar 23 2013 at 5:53 PM Rating: Good
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I am fully aware of your inability to follow a thread. I would be shocked to see a response from you, especially without a quick concession. Years ago you would have been a different story.


Yeah, I have learned that talking to you is about as effective as talking to a brick wall. The only real difference is that the brick wall could probably comprehend simple ideas where you seem to fail. Smiley: frown
#563 Mar 23 2013 at 6:11 PM Rating: Good
brick walls are actually incapable of cognition and are . however frustrated we might be with alma, i think it's important to recognise that he's a sentient human being with real thoughts, hopes and dreams.
#564 Mar 23 2013 at 6:13 PM Rating: Excellent
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brick walls are actually incapable of cognition and are . however frustrated we might be with alma, i think it's important to recognise that he's a sentient human being with real thoughts, hopes and dreams.


Nah.
#565 Mar 23 2013 at 6:15 PM Rating: Good
belkira i'm noticing a real disconnect between how you approach alma and how you approach other people and topics on this internet forum. i'm not going to pontficate as to why that may be, i'm no pyschologist, but it's really noticeable and quite jarring.

some food for thought perhaps.
#566 Mar 23 2013 at 6:18 PM Rating: Decent
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Exactly and the definition of sex based on biology and not gender is accepted by a large portion of the community.
As far as i'm aware, no one believes otherwise. As i've said, there is no relation between sex and gender. They are completely different things, and neither determines the other.

Edited, Mar 23rd 2013 8:19pm by Rachel9
#567 Mar 23 2013 at 6:20 PM Rating: Default
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Belkira wrote:

Yeah, I have learned that talking to you is about as effective as talking to a brick wall. The only real difference is that the brick wall could probably comprehend simple ideas where you seem to fail. Smiley: frown


That accusation is often made, but never substantiated. If you believe so, please give me one example of an idea that I cannot comprehend (not to be confused with agreeing to). You confuse "agreeing to" with "understanding". I completely understand your "simple ideas", I just don't agree with them for several reasons.
#568 Mar 23 2013 at 6:33 PM Rating: Excellent
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That accusation is often made, but never substantiated. If you believe so, please give me one example of an idea that I cannot comprehend (not to be confused with agreeing to). You confuse "agreeing to" with "understanding". I completely understand your "simple ideas", I just don't agree with them for several reasons.


No, thanks. It's not worth my time.
#569 Mar 23 2013 at 6:38 PM Rating: Decent
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As far as i'm aware, no one believes otherwise. As i've said, there is no relation between sex and gender. They are completely different things, and neither determines the other.


Not according to their definitions. Just because they are two different words doesn't mean they aren't related. To argue that sex and gender aren't related in any way is foolish.

http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/gender wrote:

a : sex <the feminine gender>
b : the behavioral, cultural, or psychological traits typically associated with one sex

Medical Definition of GENDER
1: sex 1
2: the behavioral, cultural, or psychological traits typically associated with one sex



http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/gender?s=t wrote:

1. See also natural gender a set of two or more grammatical categories into which the nouns of certain languages are divided, sometimes but not necessarily corresponding to the sex of the referent when animate
2. any of the categories, such as masculine, feminine, neuter, or common, within such a set
3. informal the state of being male, female, or neuter
4. informal all the members of one sex: the female gender


http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gender wrote:
Gender is a range of physical, mental, and behavioral characteristics distinguishing between masculinity and femininity.[1][2][3] Depending on the context, the term may refer to sex (i.e. the state of being male or female), social roles (as in gender roles), or gender identity

In contrast, for many contexts, including some areas of social sciences, the meaning of gender has expanded to include "sex" or even to replace the latter word.

The popular use of gender simply as an alternative to sex (as a biological category) is also widespread, although attempts are still made to preserve the distinction. The American Heritage Dictionary (2000) uses the following two sentences to illustrate the difference, noting that the distinction "is useful in principle, but it is by no means widely observed, and considerable variation in usage occurs at all levels."[14]



Again, if that were true, we wouldn't be having this conversation. I did not create those scenarios in the main post nor the information in the quoted sources.So, I ask again, what's your beef? What rights?



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#570 Mar 23 2013 at 6:41 PM Rating: Default
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No, thanks. It's not worth my time.


And posting that was? I didn't ask you to argue the point. The amount of effort it took you to reply to that post is equivalent to the amount of time to post ANY idea that I could not comprehend (not to be confused with agreeing to).
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Gender is a range of physical, mental, and behavioral characteristics distinguishing between masculinity and femininity.

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b : the behavioral, cultural, or psychological traits typically associated with one sex
So, yeah...
#572 Mar 23 2013 at 7:13 PM Rating: Good
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I completely understand your "simple ideas", I just don't agree with them for several reasons.


And those reasons remain easily summed up by this

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#573 Mar 23 2013 at 7:23 PM Rating: Default
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Rachel wrote:
So, yeah...

Rachel wrote:
As far as i'm aware, no one believes otherwise. As i've said, there is no relation between sex and gender. They are completely different things, and neither determines the other.


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b : the behavioral, cultural, or psychological traits typically associated with one sex


Do you not know the definition of "relation"? In the very definition that you quoted, it states that gender are traits typically associated with one's sex. That's not saying that they are the same words, but they are indeed related by definition.

The term gender was created during the Women's Right movement to prevent mandates of behavior simply due to a woman's sex. So, the term gender has everything to do with sex. In any case, you said "no one". I just provided to you several definitions that said otherwise. I didn't claim "everyone", but the majority. I even gave you quotes that demonstrated that the term "gender" is now contradicting the initial intent and is often simply replacing the term sex all together.

So, I ask again, what's your beef? What rights?
#574 Mar 23 2013 at 7:27 PM Rating: Decent
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In any case, you said "no one". I just provided to you several definitions that said otherwise
You have done no such thing.
#575 Mar 23 2013 at 7:42 PM Rating: Default
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In any case, you said "no one". I just provided to you several definitions that said otherwise
You have done no such thing.

See post # 569. You may have not read what was listed, but it's there.
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The popular use of gender simply as an alternative to sex (as a biological category) is also widespread, although attempts are still made to preserve the distinction.


How can you possibly misread that. If people didn't discriminate base off sex, then WTF did women differentiate gender from sex? Obviously women were expected to behave certain ways (i.e. secretary jobs) simply based on their sex. The counter was that behaviors that are traditionally associated to one's sex aren't mandated by their sex. A woman can just as easily love football and do construction work as a man. Likewise, a man can stay at home, design homes and take care of children. The movement was made because there was no distinction. Why? Because society discriminates based on sex.

I can +1 you all day as you were already defeated pages ago.

So, I ask again, what's your beef? What rights?
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