Aw, alma learned the word "callow."
I've used that word several times. The fact that you felt it worthy to be singled out as if it were some kind of precocious action, only demonstrates your inability to provide a valid point.
Granted, it doesn't mean what he thinks it means. He also seems to misunderstand the definition of "threats." But it's cute that he tried.
Maybe you should look up words before debating their meanings.
And no, the point is that these are gender identities. You don't just wake up one morning and decide you want to dress in women's clothing. That's not an identity, it's a lifestyle choice. Cross dressing is far more common among heterosexual men than any other group, combined. Drag queens, trans peoples, and the subset of lesbians who hold the butch identity are still a minority to them.
How does any of that matter if a man decides to be associated as a woman? You seriously can't be such a hypocritical ignoramus to believe that it's "ok" to label someone's sexuality a "lifestyle CHOICE" when you deem fit.
A boy who wants to wear women's clothes is still going to want to use the men's room, because he identifies as male. A boy who identifies as female may or may not want to wear women's clothes is going to want to use the women's room, because she identifies as female.
Which is perfectly ok as long as there aren't any discriminating laws/rules/practices based on ***. If there are separate bathrooms for men and women, then it has absolutely nothing to do with "what you identify yourself as", but predetermined criteria. If you're going to let anyone define their criteria, then there is no point in having the discrimination. It's really that simple.