All I know is anyone that thinks marriage is all about children clearly has no children and has never been married.
Actually, my belief is that marriage is for children. That's why we had Thom.
We all have different reasons for getting married. I had both my children when I was single. I married my husband later because I love him and want to be with him. Our son had nothing to do with it. And if things get bad between us, we'll divorce. I won't stay with anyone for a child.