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#27 Jan 20 2012 at 2:13 PM Rating: Good
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Also, by promoting an institution which is MOSTLY hateful...


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#28 Jan 20 2012 at 2:16 PM Rating: Good
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I dunno, that's just considered basic here. I can't imagine anyone thinking they could try to sneak prayer in by using students as pawns here and get away with it.


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You're free to disagree - but pretty much any time I see anything said or done by a church in the news it is an attack on me and my partner and people like us - or an attack on women's right to control their bodies.

That's what those institutions campaign on. Sorry, but when's the last time you saw a church sponsored ad campaign supporting people's right to love each other and marry the person they care for, regardless of gender?
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I dunno, that's just considered basic here. I can't imagine anyone thinking they could try to sneak prayer in by using students as pawns here and get away with it.


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No, you don't overreact to anything, do you?


It's all a matter of perspective. I don't see it as an overreaction to have a simple rule and apply that simple rule. I consider this to be an overreaction:

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Oakland Elementary School Teaches Pupils That There Are More Than Two Genders

On May 23-24 Redwood Heights Elementary School will be teaching children in grades kindergarten through fifth that there are more than two genders. The two days calendared for this are entitled “Gender Spectrum Diversity Training.” In documents released by the school, students will be taught that “gender is not inherently nor solely connected to one’s physical anatomy.” Further, gender is a “complex interrelationship between [physical traits] and one’s internal sense of self as male, female, both or neither as well as one’s outward presentations and behaviors related to that perception.” Another document from the school advises parents: “When you discuss gender with your child, you may hear them [sic] exploring where they [sic] fit on the gender spectrum and why.”

The activities and reading list include: Grades K-1: “Boy, girl or both? Which Outfit, Which Hairdo? (Reading) My Princess Boy.” Grades 2-3 “What is gender? (Reading) 10,000 Dresses.” Grades 4-5: “Three dimensions of gender. (Reading/Song) All I Want to be is Me.”

“This instruction does not represent the values of the majority of families in Oakland,” said attorney Kevin Snider of the Pacific Justice Institute. PJI has been providing legal counsel to parents in the Oakland Unified School District on this matter. “Though to many this may seem extreme, based upon some of the bills now pending in the Capitol such as SB 48, this will be the new normal in California’s K-12 public schools,” Snider continued.

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Cause teaching children science and about gender diversity.... scary scary stuff, amirite? But all the little atheist kids should have to listen to some kid wail about the blood the the lamb, with no notice to their parents and no opportunity to recuse themselves

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#31 Jan 20 2012 at 2:32 PM Rating: Good
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The problem, however, is that over time it's ceased to be as much about determining whether a given act or law is in violation of the constitution and more about supporting laws which align with a given political agenda and opposing those which don't and using the guise of "interpreting" the constitution to do it. We've seen blatant examples of this where the only logical explanation one can come to is that the judge(s) just figured that even though the constitution doesn't say something, they believe that it should, so they'll rule on that belief instead of the actual law itself. IMO, that's incredibly problematic. Once you start doing that, then everyone has to start doing it, and pretty soon rule of law gives way so political sides.
Those examples would be the ones you disagreed with no doubt. Ur so funny.
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Olorinus wrote:
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You're free to disagree - but pretty much any time I see anything said or done by a church in the news it is an attack on me and my partner and people like us - or an attack on women's right to control their bodies.

That's what those institutions campaign on. Sorry, but when's the last time you saw a church sponsored ad campaign supporting people's right to love each other and marry the person they care for, regardless of gender?


The operative phrase here is "in the news." There's a fair bit more to said organizations than what's newsworthy/outspoken.

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The operative phrase here is "in the news." There's a fair bit more to said organizations than what's newsworthy/outspoken.
That's just crazy talk.
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#34 Jan 20 2012 at 2:47 PM Rating: Good
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Cause teaching children science and about gender diversity.... scary scary stuff, amirite?
Because having a small prayer, a series of words at best, is the same as changing the entire ciriculum, amirite? Not using the wrong example to justify your bigotry, nope.
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If that is all it was, sure - but most prayers don't simply say that...


It's interesting how frequently this sort of thing is said by people who rarely if ever have actually engaged with people praying. I have *never* heard anyone say a prayer which contained hate. Prayers are about positive messages and thanks.

You're confusing some religious people and organizations reactions to outside socio-political issues (and frankly the news coverage of such) with what they actually do when the cameras aren't on and a reporter isn't asking them questions like "What do you think about teaching grade school kids about diverse gender identities?".

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I have *never* heard anyone say a prayer which contained hate.

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If that is all it was, sure - but most prayers don't simply say that...


It's interesting how frequently this sort of thing is said by people who rarely if ever have actually engaged with people praying.


One of my best (and only) friends around here is a minister - my partner went through the discernment process and almost became a minister (and most of her friends are church involved) and I go to church (somewhat irregularly, but still).

Thankfully, all these people are not hateful etc. They're lovely and loving people.

However, when I was younger I belonged to a different denomination - and unfortunately they were hateful and I heard a lot of hateful prayers in my time - made coming out harder than it had to be, honestly. Also pretty much every person I've ever met or spoken to that is a homophobe uses the christian religion as their reason behind it.

I should have been more clear that I was speaking from my experience, I guess. I am perfectly aware that not every church is hateful, but when it comes to what most churches in the world seem to focus on and crusade about - what I see is a lot of homohating.

It's not up to schools to try to figure out which denominations are hateful and promote a hate filled agenda and to vett prayers - it makes more sense to recognize public schools as a secular institution, and apply the rules across the board.
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Olorinus wrote:
However, when I was younger I belonged to a different denomination - and unfortunately they were hateful and I heard a lot of hateful prayers in my time - made coming out harder than it had to be, honestly.


You sure you're not confusing "preach" with "pray"?
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However, when I was younger I belonged to a different denomination - and unfortunately they were hateful and I heard a lot of hateful prayers in my time - made coming out harder than it had to be, honestly.


You sure you're not confusing "preach" with "pray"?


This. I'm sure when a student asks to lead the class in a prayer, the same rules regarding hate speech apply and spending 5 minutes preaching about the evils of homosexuality isn't going to be allowed. Honestly, I almost see this as a non-issue that is way over hyped. Prayers in this setting are likely to be nearly indistinguishable from what you'd normally hear at a pep rally, just with a God or Lord tossed in now and then.
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gbaji wrote:
I have *never* heard anyone say a prayer which contained hate.


Haven't met many catholics, have you. Or more accurately, haven't expressed that you are different around many catholics before, have you. mostly making a joke about the pope.

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However, when I was younger I belonged to a different denomination - and unfortunately they were hateful and I heard a lot of hateful prayers in my time - made coming out harder than it had to be, honestly.


You sure you're not confusing "preach" with "pray"?


This. I'm sure when a student asks to lead the class in a prayer, the same rules regarding hate speech apply and spending 5 minutes preaching about the evils of homosexuality isn't going to be allowed. Honestly, I almost see this as a non-issue that is way over hyped. Prayers in this setting are likely to be nearly indistinguishable from what you'd normally hear at a pep rally, just with a God or Lord tossed in now and then.


Gotta agree with Gbaji here. You're seriously putting way to much thought into it, olo.

This kind of subject just makes me think about the whole "mandatory moment of silence" debacle we had in Illinois's public schools while I was in HS. I don't remember exactly when they started it, but it was some time after I started my freshman year, until it ended the second semester of my senior year, so like, 2.5~3 years. For those of you who don't know about it (I assume most of you, I don't remember how many/if any of you are from IL or if there was a big thread about it at the time), as I recall, Illinois passed a law that required all public schools include a "moment for silent reflection" each day (typically following the pledge of allegiance) that was supposed to be a non-denominational time for "silent reflect" (read: prayer). It was a big issue with schools because, while it did not directly state that it was for prayer, it was heavily implied to be the intended purpose. And by heavily I mean that they laid it on so thick that anyone at the time trying to say it wasn't a moment for prayer was laughed at. It was basically 10~15 seconds of silence each day, assuming that one could say a small prayer to themselves in that time if they were religious, and if not, they could simply use the time as a quiet moment of thought. The problem arose from people whose beliefs require spoken prayer, or people who felt that it was infringing upon the whole separation of church and state issue.

It was a massive public issue when it first started, with teachers and students who were opposed to it doing various things to protest, mostly excessively comedic actions done to prove a point. Some of my favorites included a teacher of a friend at a different HS in town who, during the moment of silence, would spew loud gibberish to "express his beliefs" (and I don't mean he was talking in a different language, like praying in hebrew or arabic, I mean he was literally using silly nonsense words), and one of my teachers who would, randomly during the moment of silence, stand bolt upright and salute the flag, usually scaring the sh*t out of everyone in the class, and the classes next door, because of how the school got pin-drop quiet.

As an adamant atheist and at the time closeted trans individual, living in a fairly religious part of the state, I was excessively against it, and outspoken about that whenever the topic came up in class. Initially. After about six months everyone stopped caring because it really didn't change anything, it just made the morning announcements a little longer. By the next school year no one cared (though I think that teacher still did his random shock-salute, just because of how funny the reaction was). I mean, they still blathered on about it being unfair on the news, but most of the people who were complaining and arguing for or against it weren't students, teachers, or even parents. When they finally repealed the law during my senior year, the response from the students/faculty was a resounding "meh".

This was a mandatory thing. Giving people the option to do something is mostly harmless because honestly, 80~90% of the time it won't impact anything, and even when it does, it doesn't cause any lasting, harmful effects. It's not like they're giving schools permission to hold sermons or disrupting classes specifically to pray. To me, it sounds like they're mostly saying "We're tired of having to waste time dealing with every situation where someone wants to publicly thank God. Sure it's not perfect, but this is mostly just a bureaucracy bypass."

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gbaji wrote:
I have *never* heard anyone say a prayer which contained hate.


Haven't met many catholics, have you.


Uh... Is this where I point out that I am from a Catholic family, and went to Catholic school most of my K-12 education?

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Or more accurately, haven't expressed that you are different around many catholics before, have you. mostly making a joke about the pope.


Are you confusing praying and preaching? Someone telling you that what you're doing is a sin according to their beliefs is not praying. Hell. That's not even preaching. That's just telling you what their opinion/belief is about whatever it is you're doing.

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The moment of silence was. There was no requirement as far as what you do during that moment though. And frankly, that teacher was a jerk/idiot.

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Giving people the option to do something is mostly harmless because honestly, 80~90% of the time it won't impact anything, and even when it does, it doesn't cause any lasting, harmful effects.


Isn't setting aside a moment of silence giving people the option to pray (or do anything they want, as long as it's silent)? By taking that away or deliberately interrupting it, aren't they taking that option away? If there is no time or place on a public school where any student is allowed to pray, even silently, then aren't you doing the opposite of giving people the option to do something? Are atheists really that afraid that someone else might pray? I just don't get it.
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Gotta agree with Gbaji here. You're seriously putting way to much though into it, olo.
Assuming you meant thought, then that's not what I would've said. Too little thought, too much emotion.
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gbaji wrote:
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I have *never* heard anyone say a prayer which contained hate.


Haven't met many catholics, have you.


Uh... Is this where I point out that I am from a Catholic family, and went to Catholic school most of my K-12 education?

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Or more accurately, haven't expressed that you are different around many catholics before, have you. mostly making a joke about the pope.


Are you confusing praying and preaching? Someone telling you that what you're doing is a sin according to their beliefs is not praying. Hell. That's not even preaching. That's just telling you what their opinion/belief is about whatever it is you're doing.


I was raised catholic too, yo. Catholic school K-8, but went to public HS because the catholic HS near me costs more to attend for one year than most community colleges do for two years. Also, one of the biggest events that lead to me turning atheist was being taught that "while we love gays, because they are still God's children, we ask that they not actively practice their lifestyle choice, and we pray for them to have the strength to resist their sinful urges" as part of my school curriculum. There was, in fact, even a prayer included in the lesson. I don't remember it, I'm pretty sure I burned the paper I was given about it.

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mostly making a joke about the pope.


You really can't deny that Benedict XVI says some pretty outrageously zealotous things, especially when you compare his track record to John Paul II. Being the leader of the catholic church, and how most catholics take the word of the pope as law, I was mostly just making a comment about him being a rather hateful person.

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The moment of silence was. There was no requirement as far as what you do during that moment though. And frankly, that teacher was a jerk/idiot.

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Giving people the option to do something is mostly harmless because honestly, 80~90% of the time it won't impact anything, and even when it does, it doesn't cause any lasting, harmful effects.


Isn't setting aside a moment of silence giving people the option to pray (or do anything they want, as long as it's silent)? By taking that away or deliberately interrupting it, aren't they taking that option away? If there is no time or place on a public school where any student is allowed to pray, even silently, then aren't you doing the opposite of giving people the option to do something? Are atheists really that afraid that someone else might pray? I just don't get it.


Keep in mind that I flat out said that I agree with you before you read this and respond, please. I was saying that the moment of silence wasn't a bad thing, and that it was mostly over-hyped and over-dramatized. Yes, I'm an atheist, but I'm also a very spiritual person (Atheism does not mean "I reject the existence of all god-like/deific figures and any possible reason we should or should not worship them". That's one type, yes, but in the truest sense, atheism is exactly what it says: a - theism; ie: a lack of theistic belief. I do not subscribe to any known form of theistic belief. That's it.), and I feel that everyone's welcome to hold their own beliefs, because I understand and respect that many people need religion to function in their daily life.

The issues involving the implications for the moment of silence, as well as the idea of public prayer in schools, stems from the fact that atheists, in general, do not like having someone else's beliefs forced down their throats. Theists don't like that either, mind you. The main problem most atheists have with stuff like this isn't that people are praying, but that those people are praying in a very showy fashion, very clearly expressing that they are in the right to do so, and heavily implying that anyone who feels offended by their showy method of prayer is a hateful sinner. No, that's not everyone, or every circumstance, and that's why I don't normally have any problem with public prayer. I don't participate, but I don't disrupt it. What pisses me off are the looks of disgust and condescension when people notice that I'm not bowing my head, or folding my hands, or even worse, the people who call me out for not joining in prayer, and try to make me some sort of social pariah because I don't share their beliefs and don't cater to them.

Also, in my case at least, it's not a matter of confusing prayer and preaching; I have on many occasions been witness to, and a couple of times the subject of, various groups of individuals, including classmates and teachers, openly including assbackwards hate speech in prayers. Hateful prayers don't sound like this: "OH LORD, THE GAYS ARE SO EVIL AND SINFUL, PLEASE BURN THEM IN HELLFIRE" (though yes, that is a hateful prayer I have heard); normally, they sound more like "Oh lord, we ask that you give our friends the strength to resist the temptation of these sinful urges they feel, and to choose a path towards righteousness" said in a holier-than-thou tone with the person, or friends of that person, present.

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Gotta agree with Gbaji here. You're seriously putting way to much though into it, olo.
Assuming you meant thought, then that's not what I would've said. Too little thought, too much emotion.

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Hateful prayers don't sound like this: "OH LORD, THE GAYS ARE SO EVIL AND SINFUL, PLEASE BURN THEM IN HELLFIRE" (though yes, that is a hateful prayer I have heard); normally, they sound more like "Oh lord, we ask that you give our friends the strength to resist the temptation of these sinful urges they feel, and to choose a path towards righteousness" said in a holier-than-thou tone with the person, or friends of that person, present.



This. I'm happy that some people have never been subjected to this kind of "prayer" but as someone who has, I'd appreciate if people didn't try to pretend that it never happens.

As for thought/emotion etc.

/shrugs

The point is there is no right, god given or otherwise for people to force others to participate in their religious rituals in our publicly funded (as in, funded by tons of people who may vehemently disagree with the ritual/religion) institutions. And there is enough that needs work in the school system not to waste energy revisiting the issue.

I would say all the people clamoring about how horrific it is that the rules/laws which restrict religion from public school are being enforced are more emotional than I am about the issue.

The rule is there so we don't have to have constant all out war in our schools about the role of religion and whether everyone should be religious or what religion is best. Maybe you all are from less diverse places but round these parts those with christian upbringings and beliefs are just as likely to be a minority as not. Making a bunch of Sikh kids listen to some little proselytizer babble on about Jesus is really not what our school system should be spending energy on.

Nor would the christians like it if a sikh kid was forcing their kids to participate in his religion. Crikes, we had christians complain about yoga in gym class being religious and influencing their kids (even though they were just doing poses, not chants or anything)

Thank god (lol) around here, the issue has been settled, and rather than trying to weasel prayer into public schools, religious folks send their kid to private schools, or they pray amongst themselves, or go to church and pray.

As someone who was a christian in high school it never occurred to me that I needed to make other people listen to me pray. I prayed with my christian friends and there was no problem with that. I haven't heard one person explain why non-relgious/otherly religious individuals would need to participate in christian prayer in public school

So, yeah, you can change the topic by trying to make this about my emotional state or whatever, but there is no good reason to force anyone to participate in specific religious rituals at school - and lots of reasons why it is a bad idea.


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I'm happy that some people have never been subjected to this kind of "prayer" but as someone who has, I'd appreciate if people didn't try to pretend that it never happens.
As someone who's experienced worse, I'd appreciate it if people didn't try to pretend it is worse than it really is. Deal?
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Hateful prayers don't sound like this: "OH LORD, THE GAYS ARE SO EVIL AND SINFUL, PLEASE BURN THEM IN HELLFIRE" (though yes, that is a hateful prayer I have heard); normally, they sound more like "Oh lord, we ask that you give our friends the strength to resist the temptation of these sinful urges they feel, and to choose a path towards righteousness" said in a holier-than-thou tone with the person, or friends of that person, present.


So more or less identical to liberals berating conservatives for their evil positions on health care, welfare, gay marriage, etc? Except that no one actually follows those hateful prayers with legislative changes designed to force those who don't believe properly to comply anyway.

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This. I'm happy that some people have never been subjected to this kind of "prayer" but as someone who has, I'd appreciate if people didn't try to pretend that it never happens.


/shrug It's interesting how frequently those who call that sort of prayer "hateful", or even noticed it are people who've adopted atheistic positions over time. Is it people like me pretending it never happens, or people like you going out of your way to find reasons to be offended by something that is said.

Also: I have serious questions about how we define "hateful speech" in the first place.
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Is it people like me pretending it never happens, or people like you going out of your way to find reasons to be offended by something that is said.

Both.

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I think Olo's beyond over the top in this thread at least, but nobody's questioning your difficulty in understanding basic dictionary definitions.
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Can you explain to me how believing in upholding rules against prayer in public school is over the top? I am honestly baffled. As I said, within my cultural context, I can't imagine this being seriously discussed. It just isn't on.
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Can you explain to me how believing in upholding rules against prayer in public school is over the top? I am honestly baffled. As I said, within my cultural context, I can't imagine this being seriously discussed. It just isn't on.


I think that's already been done quite well in this thread. No need to rehash it.
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