gbaji wrote:
Lady Jinte wrote:
gbaji wrote:
I have *never* heard anyone say a prayer which contained hate.
Haven't met many catholics, have you.
Uh... Is this where I point out that I am from a Catholic family, and went to Catholic school most of my K-12 education?
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Or more accurately, haven't expressed that you are different around many catholics before, have you. mostly making a joke about the pope.
Are you confusing praying and preaching? Someone telling you that what you're doing is a sin according to their beliefs is not praying. Hell. That's not even preaching. That's just telling you what their opinion/belief is about whatever it is you're doing.
I was raised catholic too, yo. Catholic school K-8, but went to public HS because the catholic HS near me costs more to attend for one year than most community colleges do for two years. Also, one of the biggest events that lead to me turning atheist was being taught that "while we love gays, because they are still God's children, we ask that they not actively practice their lifestyle choice, and we pray for them to have the strength to resist their sinful urges" as part of my school curriculum. There was, in fact, even a prayer included in the lesson. I don't remember it, I'm pretty sure I burned the paper I was given about it.
Also,
I wrote:
mostly making a joke about the pope.
You really can't deny that Benedict XVI says some pretty outrageously zealotous things, especially when you compare his track record to John Paul II. Being the leader of the catholic church, and how most catholics take the word of the pope as law, I was mostly just making a comment about him being a rather hateful person.
gbaji wrote:
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This was a mandatory thing.
The moment of silence was. There was no requirement as far as what you do during that moment though. And frankly, that teacher was a jerk/idiot.
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Giving people the option to do something is mostly harmless because honestly, 80~90% of the time it won't impact anything, and even when it does, it doesn't cause any lasting, harmful effects.
Isn't setting aside a moment of silence giving people the
option to pray (or do anything they want, as long as it's silent)? By taking that away or deliberately interrupting it, aren't they taking that option away? If there is no time or place on a public school where any student is allowed to pray, even silently, then aren't you doing the opposite of giving people the option to do something? Are atheists really that afraid that someone else might pray? I just don't get it.
Keep in mind that I flat out said that
I agree with you before you read this and respond, please. I was saying that the moment of silence
wasn't a bad thing, and that it was mostly over-hyped and over-dramatized. Yes, I'm an atheist, but I'm also a very spiritual person (Atheism does not mean "I reject the existence of all god-like/deific figures and any possible reason we should or should not worship them". That's one type, yes, but in the truest sense, atheism is exactly what it says: a - theism; ie: a lack of theistic belief. I do not subscribe to any known form of theistic belief. That's it.), and I feel that everyone's welcome to hold their own beliefs, because I understand and respect that many people
need religion to function in their daily life.
The issues involving the implications for the moment of silence, as well as the idea of public prayer in schools, stems from the fact that atheists, in general, do not like having someone else's beliefs forced down their throats. Theists don't like that either, mind you. The main problem most atheists have with stuff like this isn't that people are praying, but that those people are praying in a very showy fashion, very clearly expressing that they are in the right to do so, and heavily implying that anyone who feels offended by their showy method of prayer is a hateful sinner. No, that's not everyone, or every circumstance, and that's why I don't normally have any problem with public prayer. I don't participate, but I don't disrupt it. What pisses me off are the looks of disgust and condescension when people notice that I'm not bowing my head, or folding my hands, or even worse, the people who call me out for not joining in prayer, and try to make me some sort of social pariah because I don't share their beliefs and don't cater to them.
Also, in my case at least, it's not a matter of confusing prayer and preaching; I have on
many occasions been witness to, and a couple of times the subject of, various groups of individuals, including classmates and
teachers, openly including assbackwards hate speech in prayers. Hateful prayers don't sound like this: "OH LORD, THE GAYS ARE SO EVIL AND SINFUL, PLEASE BURN THEM IN HELLFIRE" (though yes, that is a hateful prayer I have heard); normally, they sound more like "Oh lord, we ask that you give our friends the strength to resist the temptation of these sinful urges they feel, and to choose a path towards righteousness" said in a holier-than-thou tone with the person, or friends of that person, present.
Uglysasquatch wrote:
Lady Jinte wrote:
Gotta agree with Gbaji here. You're seriously putting way to much though into it, olo.
Assuming you meant thought, then that's not what I would've said. Too little thought, too much emotion.
stupid 2 am typos...