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#702 Oct 14 2011 at 9:48 PM Rating: Good
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I've realized the disconnect in our argument....
I don't think you have.
The right answer would have been "Self reflection is a good thing."
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#703 Oct 14 2011 at 10:16 PM Rating: Good
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lolgaxe wrote:
rdmcandie wrote:
Alma wrote:
I've realized the disconnect in our argument....
I don't think you have.
The right answer would have been "Self reflection is a good thing."


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#704 Oct 14 2011 at 11:17 PM Rating: Excellent
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The bottom line is just like with SSM, the military is very discriminative.


Yup, there just needs to be justification for it. Why was discrimination due to sexual orientation justifiable in the military, then?

Alma wrote:
If your goal is to exclusively end discrimination against homosexuals, then fine. I honestly have no problem with that if it is well thought out and addresses all of the issues in post 206. Simply ending DADT because "it's ok to discriminate against everyone for everything except for sexuality" doesn't cut it.


DADT was ended because discrimination based upon sexual orientation isn't justifiable, dipshit.

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Unfortunately, in our society, logic doesn't matter if you have certain people in offices. People are set in their ways and they will support or not support something in any circumstance. In any situation, that's wrong. When people like you think the military CAN be 24/7 as opposed to being held to the same standard on and "off" duty because you're a Soldier, Marine, Airman and Seaman 24/7 and any NCO can correct anyone in the club just like they can at the office, then you obviously have no idea on how the military functions.


I understand that you can be "off duty" while in the military. I also understand that sometimes, it can be a 24/7 job.
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Because of that, you can't say that you have thought it through, because you don't even understand the scenario.


I understand the scenario perfectly. DADT was repealed because discrimination due to sexual orientation wasn't justifiable. It is similar to racial discrimination due to the fact that in both scenarios, there's nothing that the discriminated minority (blacks/homosexuals) can't do that the discriminating majority (whites/heterosexuals) can.

I'm sorry it makes you uncomfortable, but that's your problem. I'm sure you've had limited exposure to homosexuals, hence your feelings of "ickyness". However, now that DADT has been repealed & gays are free to tell you they're gay without getting kicked out, you'll be exposed to some & realize how silly you are thinking about them how you do.

Or not.
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#705 Oct 15 2011 at 5:45 AM Rating: Excellent
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I understand that you can be "off duty" while in the military. I also understand that sometimes, it can be a 24/7 job.
And gay men could never handle a 24/7 job. After a day or two, they would go crazy and just start sucking random ***** and molesting people in the field. We all know they basically *** vampires who can't control their hunger. The closeted ones are ok for some reason, but once they come out, look out world.

#706Almalieque, Posted: Oct 15 2011 at 1:18 PM, Rating: Sub-Default, (Expand Post) How is that flawed logic?
#707Almalieque, Posted: Oct 15 2011 at 1:30 PM, Rating: Sub-Default, (Expand Post) I was going to respond to each of your points, but after reading ."I understand that you can be "off duty" while in the military. I also understand that sometimes, it can be a 24/7 job.", you are so far confused, there is no point in me arguing with you. THERE IS NO "OFF DUTY". You can get in trouble for the same things in uniform at your office as you can not in uniform on vacation in a foreign country.
#708Almalieque, Posted: Oct 15 2011 at 1:47 PM, Rating: Sub-Default, (Expand Post) No one is cheating the system. Even if that were true, NOT A SINGLE PERSON ACCEPTED THAT WITH SSM. EVERYONE argued that a homosexual being able to marry someone that they don't love "doesn't count", that they should be able to choose who they want to marry. Now, when the shoe is on the other foot with heterosexuals, being able to choose, it's "suck it up, homosexuals are bound by the same rules". Yet, in marriage, homosexuals are also bound by the same rules.
#709 Oct 15 2011 at 2:09 PM Rating: Excellent
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Almalieque wrote:
How is that flawed logic?
I previously wrote:
I've already explained why before but it seems like a gulf too wide for you to cross.
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#710 Oct 15 2011 at 2:48 PM Rating: Excellent
Jophiel wrote:
Almalieque wrote:
How is that flawed logic?
I previously wrote:
I've already explained why before but it seems like a gulf too wide for you to cross.


You could at least give him the post number, Joph.... Geez.
#711 Oct 15 2011 at 3:14 PM Rating: Excellent
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#712 Oct 15 2011 at 4:01 PM Rating: Excellent
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If no one debated with me, then I wouldn't post here anymore.

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#713 Oct 15 2011 at 4:14 PM Rating: Excellent
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By the way, anyone actually take that training or is in the service atm? Would be kind of cool to hear that perspective.


I know of someone who'd be more than happy to share his perspective, but he's been absent for a bit, and I don't want to invoke him...

Edited, Sep 20th 2011 2:02pm by Eske


Eske said this on page one in the second post. I hate Eske.


Edited, Oct 15th 2011 6:15pm by rdmcandie
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If no one debated with me, then I wouldn't post here anymore.


*Shrug* What else is going on?
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#715 Oct 15 2011 at 5:04 PM Rating: Decent
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I quoted the wrong thing, it makes no sense, @#%^.


nvm it makes perfect sense. I am smoking less weed after today.

Edited, Oct 15th 2011 7:05pm by rdmcandie
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#716 Oct 15 2011 at 6:46 PM Rating: Excellent
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rdmcandie wrote:
I quoted the wrong thing, it makes no sense, @#%^.


nvm it makes perfect sense. I am smoking less weed after today.

Well, if you wanna get rid of your stash...
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#717 Oct 15 2011 at 8:12 PM Rating: Excellent
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Jophiel wrote:
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Alma wrote:
If no one debated with me, then I wouldn't post here anymore.


*Shrug* What else is going on?

Try City of Heroes. It's free for a few more months.
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#718 Oct 15 2011 at 9:06 PM Rating: Excellent
Alma wrote:
This has nothing to do with my fictional "icky feelings", but more of you denying the fact that everything you once supported in sexuality was proven wrong. You have nothing else to say but to project stupid arguments unto me. If you truly and honestly believe that sexuality is the ONLY form of discrimination in life that CAN NOT be EVER justified in ANY scenario, then you are truly and sadly mistaken. Even people who were against DADT don't necessarily support that nonsense.


Cool story. How is it that discrimination due to sexual orientation can be logically justifiable, then? You say it can be, but you haven't made a single point supporting that argument. Instead, you move your goal posts & have said how the military discriminates due to other things, some justifiable, some not.

I don't think racial discrimination can be justified, either. If you were arguing that it could be, wouldn't it be on you to provide a single logical reason why? And if you couldn't, but could prove OTHER forms of discrimination are justifiable...wouldn't that mean jack **** since your argument would be for racial discrimination?

How about instead of referring to post 206, where you provide zero examples to justify discrimination due to sexual orientation, you try & make one? Or are you too worried about coming off as more homophobic?

Coward.
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#719 Oct 15 2011 at 9:13 PM Rating: Excellent
Everyone would understand, man, if they just re-read post 206.
#720 Oct 15 2011 at 9:15 PM Rating: Decent
This is 206, in case anyone wants to read it, since it's his golden post.
Almalieque wrote:
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Almalieque wrote:
Relevant to this case, when you sign up to become a service member of the U.S military, you forfeit many of your "rights". That is part of the foundation of the U.S. military which is part of the "success" of the U.S. Military. Cherry picking certain "rights" due to current popularity only breaks that foundation.

If you want to reorganize the military and it's rules, fine, but do so by looking at the whole "big" picture. Changing some rules, while not addressing other affected and/or related/similar policies breaks down the core of the military. This goes beyond "sexuality". For example, allowing people of certain religions to not shave, while forcing others to shave and not recognizing other religions that may have similar shaving rules.

For the most part, I don't support discrimination of sexuality when hiring job positions, but the military isn't a typical job. Other jobs do not force you to live, sleep and shower with someone. No matter how much people want to deny it, it's the same exact reason why men and women don't share close quarters.

People don't understand how the military operates and then make false comparisons to discrimination of skin color and sex. As discussed numerous times in the past, simply discriminating isn't the problem, it's the wrongful discrimination without justification. That's why the military STILL discriminates against women and not discriminate by regulation on skin color.

I'm personally not affected by this ruling, but it's just another negative chip at the military which will eventually be part of a bigger chip until people start focusing on the "big picture".
This is the only statement of position that I could find from you in this thread, but you're really not saying anything specific. you say it's a negative chip, but provide no specific reason as to why. You make some general statements about the military being so different, and allude to big picture rules, but don't clarify what you mean. I know you've probably stated a bunch of stuff in a bunch of other threads, but frankly if you want to say something in this thread then say it in this thread.

As a general comment, you seem to be flipping back and forth on the shower issue. In one post you state that you're forced to shower together, and in the next statement you state that it's all curtained off and so is a non issue.

I could interpret your comments but I don't really want to deal with you crying about how I've misunderstood you for three pages, so I'm not going to.

Edited, Sep 26th 2011 11:29am by Xsarus


The reason why my post did not have details the way you wanted is because it was a conceptual argument. I was asked what I thought of it and I expressed my opinion. What I realized after finishing this post was that you all expected a different type of response. I responded to the question of how I feel with the conceptual argument of allowing overall ignorance making changes does more harm than good. My post wasn't intended to point fingers at any one thing, but to go over the conceptual errors. The concept of the "big picture" is two fold.

Just as with SSM, you either accept discrimination or you don't. Just like current discrimination practices don't justify other forms of justification, neither does being affected by a form of discrimination justifies its removal.

People act like there doesn't exist a scenario in life to justify discrimination against homosexuality. At the same time, TODAY in our society, we have laws, rules and regulations that openly and blatantly discriminate against sex, skin color, height, weight, age, nationality, national background, family background, religious preference, etc. and yet you all somehow believe that it's IMPOSSIBLE for sexuality to be part of that list? What makes sexuality so special that the aforesaid can be discriminated against in the "Land of the Free", but not sexuality?

As I stated, when you join the military, you forfeit many rights that a normal citizen has. This has nothing to do with homosexuality, but the foundation of the military.

This brings up the other half of the concept. People that are ignorant of scenarios should not be making decisions on something that they don't understand. From the statements made on this forum, it is blatantly obvious that most of you all do not have the slightest clue of how the military operates. Your entire vision is derived from the media.

The U.S. military is "successful" because it operates off the concept of discipline. This is noticeably done by uniformity. When I look to my left, I see my Logistical Officer, not CPT Jorge Gonzalez, the Mexican Muslim. When everyone is treated relatively the same, you see a Soldier, regardless of sex, nationality, age, etc. This mentality enhances respect, comradery, esprit de corp and overall teamwork. When you start giving people special treatment, that all changes. When that all changes, people are looked at differently with different expectations and that bond of "Soldiers" is gone. We're no longer both Soldiers but PFC Shnuffy and SPC Smith.

Now, I'm the first person to fight against conformity. I have and will in the future be "That Guy" to stand up against something "protocol" that isn't right. So, don't get me wrong about "individualism", but if your intent is to be able to freely express yourself, then the military isn't for you. The list goes on for the rules and unwritten rules of expression while being in the military.

Let's take the living conditions. By allowing homosexuals to freely express themselves, you've created a discrimination in couples. Homosexuals are now authorized to live together in the barracks, but not heterosexual couples. Furthermore, a heterosexual male shouldn't have to live with a homosexual male for the same exact reasons why a woman shouldn't have to live with a heterosexual man. I know many are saying "suck it up, you're in the military", but the same thing can be said in any situation, i.e. to the woman living with the man. What makes your scenario so special and unique?

Next, the infamous showers. There still exist open bays and open showers, but for argument's sake, lets assume that ALL shower facilities are curtained off. Does that make a difference? Would curtains be good enough to convince society to have co-ed showers? Where I'm at, not only do the women use different showers, there's a combination on the lock that only the women know.

Next, basic housing allowances. Most junior enlisted live on post except in cases of dependents. Do you realize how many Soldiers would marry each other for the sake of extra money, nice houses and extra freedom? While there are sham marriages between men and women, it's much more likely to occur with people of the same sex, especially if they are already living together. Totally allowing this to occur with no restrictions would be costly.

Lastly, but not all, the government realizes the previous statement. That is why homosexual couples (at least from my last thread) would not get any additional benefits that a heterosexual couple would receive. Doing this creates yet another discrimination between the couples. Only this time, it's against the homosexuals. Are you willing to say "suck it up" now? Or is that only when it's against heterosexuals?

I gave you some examples, just to satisfy your hunger, but the overall issue is that you are either discriminating or you are not. If you want to end a form of discrimination, then you need to evaluate the entire scenario before making changes. If you're saying stuff like "not a real Soldier" and "middle management", then you obviously have no clue what you're saying and are not knowledgeable enough to be part of the process.

When you evaluate how the military operates, i.e. less rights and freedoms of expression, it's much cheaper and easier just to go with DADTDP. I know that same mentality was used for other forms of discrimination, but just as I said earlier in this thread, if you're accepting discrimination (just as with SSM), one doesn't automatically justify the other. You have to exclusively argue for your argument. If you argue against ALL forms of discrimination, then it does include ALL forms of discrimination, rather you specifically mention them or not.

These examples are not necessarily points to argue against DADTDP, but to demonstrate that there can exist logical reasoning against open homosexuality in an organization that restricts freedom other than fear or hatred. You may not accept it, but you can't deny that they exist. Therefore, something like this shouldn't be changed all willy~nilly, just because you think it should.

If you want it changed, fine, but if your goal is to reduce discrimination, that has to be done after reevaluating everything. It doesn't necessarily have to happen all at once, but there should at least be a plan in place. Else, you're just ADDING more discrimination. If that doesn't bother you, then you can't use "discrimination" or "fairness" in your argument to repeal DADT.

#721 Oct 15 2011 at 9:20 PM Rating: Good
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all i saw was blah blah blah im a huge poof.
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#722 Oct 15 2011 at 9:31 PM Rating: Excellent
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all i saw was blah blah blah im a huge poof.

I didn't read it either, just re-posted it since he keeps referencing it.
#723 Oct 15 2011 at 9:56 PM Rating: Excellent
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If no one debated with me, then I wouldn't post here anymore.
You're implying what he does is considered debate.
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#724 Oct 15 2011 at 10:28 PM Rating: Excellent
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rdmcandie wrote:
all i saw was blah blah blah im a huge poof.

I didn't read it either, just re-posted it since he keeps referencing it.


I think, for the most part, he's saying that if you want to argue that the military can't discriminate against someone because of sexual orientation, then you have to argue that the military can't discriminate against someone for any reason.

Which is one of the stupidest non-arguments I've ever heard, I think.
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All this time I've been reading post 20.6. This changes everything!
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