Lady DSD wrote:
But how does one do themselves in the end if they dont realize what they are doing?
That's not what I mean by mentally ill. A sociopath is mentally ill. They know what they are doing is wrong, they just don't care. The part of them that would care just off and took a sabbatical. This is part of what makes it so terrible.
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Anyone who kills, esp a child is definitely crazy. But not the type of crazy where you should not accept the responsibility for your actions.
The problem with that thinking is that you're not a sociopath, and so it's inherently flawed. Of course it is a heinous, unspeakable thing, and you get that
because you're well. Acknowledging her condition doesn't exonerate her, it just doesn't put her at your level, so trying to argue with her is impossible. It's like what they told you about punching a kid with glasses, except that kid wouldn't hesitate to pull a .45 on you and blow you away and balme you for making them do it, then tell anyone around it was no big deal and get over it.
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She knew what she was doing. she waited until it was the last day of the familys ultimatum. She has enough mental capacity to get back at the people who made the ultimatum. I disagree.
All noted, all true. Like I said, that's not part of her illness.
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While she might be crazy, shes not mentally ill enough to warrant getting off as easy as she is
Well, the fact that her punishment is so light is just dumb luck and lack of foresight on the part of our legal system. That's still 29 years in jail, and unless you have a crystal ball you don't know for sure if she'll survive them, or if she will make other bad decisions in the future that will lead her down this same path, with worse effects.
Working in a hospital I see all kinds of things, and most of the time time I'm able to mentally detach so that I can continue to do my job. Don't let that make you think I don't feel for all involved, but there is a point at which you have to be objective and not project your feelings onto a situation. For every woman like this, there is some person who is innocent sitting on death row, and you can't always play to the extremes, horrible as they may be.
Edited, Wed Apr 12 14:48:13 2006 by Atomicflea