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#1 Mar 29 2006 at 4:05 PM Rating: Good
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I've always been against any type of dress code, although I understand that they may be necessary for folks that look inappropriate at work, where they ay have to conduct business, but this? What the heck happened to letting kids have good, clean fun?

Student Pulled from Class Over Hair Color
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MARSHALL, Mo. -- An eighth-grader was taken out of class Tuesday because of her hair coloring, KMBC-TV in Kansas City reported.

An administrator at Bueker Middle School said the girl's red highlights were distracting to other students.

School officials said there is a rule at Bueker that hairstyles that are distracting to the educational process are not allowed.

"Doing this is taking away from people's individuality," student Kristen McCorkle said.

The 14-year-old, who is a straight-A student, said the school's assistant principal told her she had to go to in-school suspension and that she would be there until her hair is fixed.

"I didn't think that any of this would happen," the eighth-grader said.

She said she understands that some hairstyles can be distracting, but she doesn't think hers is.

"Like colors that are totally out of the norm, blue, or green, or purple. But I think red is more normal and I don't think that many people would disagree with me," she said.

"I don't feel that her hair is out of control," said Tim McCorkle, the girl's father. "It's definitely not outside of the boundaries that we have established here in the home."

The district's superintendent, Dr. Robert Gordon, said he was alerted to the situation Tuesday afternoon.

"This, as I understand it, is a matter of interpretation. I believe the assistant principal was doing what he felt was in the best interest of the kids," Gordon said.

Tim McCorkle, who is the Bates City police chief, said the school's policy needs to be reviewed.

"As one who has written policies, some need to be updated or sometimes they're just wrong," he said.

Gordon said he plans to speak with the student's parents about the situation.

Meanwhile, Kristen said the hair coloring was an accident. She didn't expect the highlights to be so strong and she plans to tone it down as soon as possible.
#3 Mar 29 2006 at 4:08 PM Rating: Decent
I got called to the principals office in 5th grade for dying the tips of my spikes blue. If only they could see my hair these days...
#4 Mar 29 2006 at 4:11 PM Rating: Good
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Something similar to that happened at my son's school. It's a very subjective issue. The 8th grader and her family was told that she had to stay out of school until her hair was not distracting others. Apparently, the students couldn't have given to flying fig newtons about it, but the teachers were saying that it was hard for them to teach because her hair kept catching their eyes. Smiley: rolleyes I thought that if it was distracting to the teachers, they should just take some Ritalin and get over it.
#5 Mar 29 2006 at 4:14 PM Rating: Default
I think what's "distracting" to the other students has less to do with hair coloring and more to do with puberty. Let me guess, boys are the most "distracted".
#6 Mar 29 2006 at 4:17 PM Rating: Decent
Does no one find it wierd that at 14 year old, that is supposedly a "Straight A student" is in 8th grade? I was 12 in 8th grade...
#7 Mar 29 2006 at 4:18 PM Rating: Good
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She should shave her head in protest.

#8 Mar 29 2006 at 4:19 PM Rating: Decent
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She should shave her head in protest.
Agreed. I wonder if they would be asinine enough to consider the lack of hair a "distracting hair-do".

People are so fu[Aliceblue][/Aliceblue]cking up-tight these days. It may be time for another revolution.
#9 Mar 29 2006 at 4:19 PM Rating: Good
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Thumbelyna the Hand wrote:
Something similar to that happened at my son's school. It's a very subjective issue. The 8th grader and her family was told that she had to stay out of school until her hair was not distracting others. Apparently, the students couldn't have given to flying fig newtons about it, but the teachers were saying that it was hard for them to teach because her hair kept catching their eyes. Smiley: rolleyes I thought that if it was distracting to the teachers, they should just take some Ritalin and get over it.

Yeah, I think it's just a culture/age gap. A lot of things aren't that distracting to kids nowadays. It may just be that the teacher isn't quite so interesting.
#10 Mar 29 2006 at 4:21 PM Rating: Decent
She should dye it a really vibrant red and purple. Thats what I did. Except I did blue, and then they stopped bothering me.
#11 Mar 29 2006 at 4:21 PM Rating: Good
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Elderon the Wise wrote:
Does no one find it wierd that at 14 year old, that is supposedly a "Straight A student" is in 8th grade? I was 12 in 8th grade...


Actually my son is 14 and he's in the 8th grade. Started school when he was 6, but his birthday is in December so he's always older than most of the other students.
#13 Mar 29 2006 at 4:22 PM Rating: Decent
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It's easier the 2nd or 3rd time around.
#14 Mar 29 2006 at 4:23 PM Rating: Good
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I remember turning 15 in 9th grade, so that's about right.
#15 Mar 29 2006 at 4:26 PM Rating: Decent
I am in ninth grade and turning 16 so, yeah, seems about right, I'm a little older than most of the people in my grade.

Edited, Wed Mar 29 16:31:02 2006 by Codyy
#16 Mar 29 2006 at 4:28 PM Rating: Decent
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I don't remember 7th or 8th grade. Like it never happened. Complete blank.
#17 Mar 29 2006 at 4:40 PM Rating: Good
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I remember 8th grade. It was a fabulously awkward year. I wore a lot of pink, and I got my first kiss, 75% of which landed on the corner of my mouth and caused such embarrasment to my boyfriend that he sent his best friend to break up with me the next day during lunch.
#18 Mar 29 2006 at 4:44 PM Rating: Decent
I was 14 in the 8th grade. My birthday is October 13 and the year before I started kindergarten I missed the cut off date for birthdays by 2 weeks. I had to wait a year which put me almost a year older than most of the kids in my grade. I turned 6 kindergarten. I had my drivers license 2 months into my Sophmore year at High School. I was 4 months from being 19 when I graduated.
#19 Mar 29 2006 at 4:55 PM Rating: Good
I was 13 when 8th grade. I remember this because it was during that Christmas break when I lost the virginity. Her hair was purple.

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#20 Mar 29 2006 at 4:57 PM Rating: Good
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I was 13 when 8th grade. I remember this because it was during that Christmas break when I lost the virginity. Her hair was purple.

/flex

See? It's not distracting!
#21 Mar 29 2006 at 5:26 PM Rating: Good
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was that picture of the girl in question? Because if it was that's nothing! It looked cute and no where near distracting.


And if I were in 8th grade right now with my hair color(s) I would be expelled if she got suspended for something that minimal
#22 Mar 29 2006 at 5:26 PM Rating: Excellent
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Sophmore year is Driver's Ed so you're looking at 15/16 in 10th grade.

14/15 in 9th grade
13/14 in 8th grade

Nothing too weird there.
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#23 Mar 29 2006 at 5:52 PM Rating: Good
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12 through all of 8th; didn't turn 13 until school let out for the summer (late June birthday plus one skipped grade).

Mandatory schooling performs several functions, among them educating the young and providing cheap babysitting. Another, oft forgotten or ignored (or noticed and hated by those living with it) is that schools are set up to teach you the ins-and-outs of basic human socialization, one part of which is the concept of social conformity. If you wish to rebel, you must do so in a pre-determined and acceptible manner, lest you find yourself with no group of "outcasts" to lament your station with.

Children who fail to heed these rules are punished. The rules are often arbitrary, illogical, and unevenly enforced. In these respects, high school is a perfect mirror of real life.



edit: dropped a word somewhere. Found it later.

Edited, Wed Mar 29 17:53:13 2006 by Wingchild
#24 Mar 29 2006 at 7:03 PM Rating: Decent
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#25 Mar 29 2006 at 7:25 PM Rating: Good
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Elderon wrote:
Does no one find it wierd that at 14 year old, that is supposedly a "Straight A student" is in 8th grade? I was 12 in 8th grade...
Either you skipped a grade, started a year earlier than most of us, or flunked math.

I'm going with option 3. Smiley: wink2
#26 Mar 29 2006 at 9:15 PM Rating: Decent
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Elderon wrote:
Does no one find it wierd that at 14 year old, that is supposedly a "Straight A student" is in 8th grade? I was 12 in 8th grade...
Either you skipped a grade, started a year earlier than most of us, or flunked math.

I'm going with option 3. Smiley: wink2
Smiley: lol I started early I guess. (December baby)
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