Friar Reinman wrote:
Now that she is gone, I think that link actually proves her statistics. I guess she didn't bother.
Sure. If you take the blanket "Condoms are not 100% effective..." statement. Um... *nothing* is 100% effective.
I suppose technically that abstinance is (with a sidenote that you can get AIDS from methods other then sex, but that's off the topic), but the issue isn't what methods people use, but what methods they are taught about as children/teens.
Abstinance may be 100% effective at preventing STDs and pregnancy, but a very high rate of those taught abstinance only fail to actually use it. It's an all or nothing solution, and we're talking about teens here. In the heat of the moment, they'll have sex whether they were taught not to all their lives or not. And they'll have zero protection against STDs and pregnancy.
Condoms may not be 100% effective, but they are a realistic solution. Teens who are taught about them are vastly more likely to be prepared. While I'm willing to accept that teens taught about proper condom use are probably more likely to actually engage in sex then those taught abstinance only, the rate of increased sexual activity within that group is more then made up for by increased preparedness.
If 1% of sexually active teens who use condoms are at risk, but 100% of sexually active teens taught abstinance only are at risk, it doesn't take a mathmatical genius to see that you'd only need to have 1% of those taught abstinance only be sexually active for those numbers to equal out. I'm willing to bet anything that more then 1% of teens taught abstinance only are sexually active...
We're talking about teens. Hormones flaring and all that. They will have sex if you give them the opportunity. The guys will pretty much ***** anything that lets them. The girls are a bit more picky, but the first guy that says the right things will get into her pants. If you want to prevent teen STDs and pregnancy, you have to teach them about condom use and safe sex. Doing otherwise is doing a horrible disservice to them IMO.