Tare wrote:
gbaji wrote:
Let's face it. No one ever had an erotic fantasy about their frumpy highschool English teacher.
Hey! I'm a frumpy English teacher!!
Yeah... But with the right subtle makeup, hair pulled back, glasses, white blouse, dark skirt (with slit), and fishnet stockings, you instantly transform into everyguy's fantasy!
See! You're just a few accessories away... ;)
Seriously though. It's usually more the right attitude then anything else. Women who are comfortable with themselves sexually just hold themselves differently (can't really explain it). Guys aren't nearly as blind as most women think. We can usually tell which women are uptight and which arent (you can substitute "no-sex" and "easy" here if you really want to, but that's not necessarily what guys are looking for). Guys want excitement in their relationships. While the whole "good girl gone wild" idea is nice and all, the reality is that for the most part, if a woman comes off like a dead fish socially, she's probably not suddenly going to turn into a sex kitten in the bedroom, no matter how long the guy dates her, waits for her, and what not.
And no. That does not require that a woman act like (and be!) a ****. Just a bit of attention paid to her appearance, and a hint of mischieviousess in her eyes is enough to get my (and I'd imagine most guys) motor runnning... ;)