so im currently infatuated with this girl who happens to be a bartender..
i hang out with her for most of her shift the 2 days a week she works. were evry friendly always end the night with a hug and a kiss. we play pool together alot when the bar is slow ( which is 99% of the time)
she has a boyfriend but he doesnt pay much attention to her (gave her a freakin' goldfish for xmas) and she doesnt much care for him i think she keeps him around just for the fact of having a boyfriend. 2 weeks or so ago after learning that he was such a loser i asked her:
"i know you have a boyfriend but i know he doesnt treat you right, let me take you out and treat you the way your supposed to be treated"
she responded " i dont know what im going to do, dont take it as a dis though"
since then ive proceeded as ussual with the flirting and the extra attention. giving her a single red rose about 2 saturdays ago ( with plains to give her 2 tommorow) last saturday it was an exceptionally cold day her in NY and the bar's heat wasnt working so it was very cold in the bar. for a while i was holding her in my arms to share body heat. at some point she sat down somewhere behind the bar and ended up sitting in a nice sized puddle of cold water soaking her jeans and underwear. so we went in the kitchen to dry her pants off by standing in front of teh broiler. she asked me to rub her back so i of course obliged, at one point i asked her "is your butt dry yet?" and without thinking reached down and palmed her *** to check. she didnt protest ro say anything at all. eventually we turned the oven off and went back to the bar. the rest of the night proceeded with just random whining about the cold.
then i went back on monday night to hang out with her again and things just proceeded as normal
my question to the board is do yout hink i have a chance with her, if so how would u proceed? or do you think shes just stringing me along for the company and the tips.