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I will spank any and all of my kids if they deserve it. I'm more of a take a way (insert fav thing here) type of person, but there are some cases when a child just needs to be beat. I saw a little kid the other day in the store call his mom a stupid ***** and threw a box at her, she just half way yelled at him and let him run off. BEAT THAT CHILD!!!!

What's the law say about beating somebody to stop them from having kids with Katie?

That aside, I was spanked a few times, but I had to be pretty damn bad to get spanked, or just catch my mom on a really bad day. Being the youngest, and the only boy, I got away with a lot, so much in fact, my sister would bribe me to take the blame for things she did like break a china cup.

My sister and I fessed up to that a few years ago, and my mom spanked us both when she saw us next. Not hard, though it probably was as hard as she did when I was a kid, just hurt less now.

Chances are, if you were one of my good friends, you've been spanked by my mother, she'll spank you for language, for odd things like not wanting to eat, or for having sex with me (right flea?).

what if your kids behave so properly they wont give you any good reason to spank them(after all you intend to educate them in the best way you can, I am sure)? Will you hurt them anyway from time to time to teach them what happens IF they misbehave seriously?

You don't like to hear that I am sure but its a simple pattern of behaviour that if somone decidedes in advance to use *whatever* as part of education that *whatever* WILL BE USED - no matter how the children behave..... sad but true

Wow - that's so insightful. Did you read that out of Redbook or something? You are are assuming that I have no restraint. So, by your reasoning, if I decide to do anything in advance, I have to do it expressly and completely. No devations in my child-rearing techniques, it's all or nothing! Did I say in my original post anywhere that I would only spank my children? No. Is you argument weak? Yes. There's a difference between spanking a child and preconceived all-out child abuse.

No one is suggesting that you should spank you child again and again and apply no other method to "parenting" - in fact, all we are saying is that a spank here and there is sometimes warranted and can be useful. Hey, if you don't want to spank your kids fine, but at least learn to read and comprehend before you try and come back to my ideals. I have never stated anywhere in this thread that spanking will be my only recourse and the only means by which to parent my kids. I said, dumbass, that I wouldn't be averse to using it as a parenting tool, when situations call for it. So before you try and comeback with another you-are-so-mean-only-spanking-your-kids-and-not-discussing argument, re-read the thread and think about it.



And again, I am not talking about hurting them. I got the odd slap here and there as a kid. I am not emotionally damaged. Perhaps you'd care to explain how "discussion" with a 3 year old that's throwing a tantrum in the middle of a store is appropriate. You honestly think a screaming 3 year old will respond with, "Oh, I'm sorry Mommy. I was inconsiderate to your feelings!" I am just saying that a slap on the *** to get a child's attention is faster that having a pow-wow with a child in a situation like that.



Can you read, idiot? I stated very clearly before that I don't support the use of belts etc. in spanking your child. Furthermore, if the spank my son gave was "sans belt", warranted and effective I would have no problem with it. Get your head out of your ***...I am not talking about beating kids senseless. I am talking about a smack on the *** when they misbehave. Talk about blowing it out of proportion.

I was spanked when I deserved it, by hand or wooden spoon. I will have no hesitation in using a spanking on my children when it's deserved. I'm not going to be hitting them hard enough to leave bruises for weeks on end. But it will be hard enough to get their attention, you can be sure of that.

Just talking to a kid when he/she is throwing a tantrum just doesn't cut it. You have got to get their attention, whether it's by a sharp spanking, or by ... lighting off a firecracker. Got to do what you got to do.

It really surprises me how you pychos keep subcribing hurting your children with getting there attention

I just imagine your to-be-son in law gives your daughter later on a little slap from time to time to get her attention while your visiting them.

And when you ask her why she lets her hubby do that she will look very surprised and tell you she deserved it - "remember dad? I always deserved it"

Thats the way psychos breed and educate other pychos.....

Wtf are you talking about? Now, your grasp of written English is not atrocious, but bad enough to make this post utter nonsense. Are you refering to a spousal abuse situation now? How the hell is that at all related? Adults can communicate on a level playing field, whereas children cannot often comprehend adult expectations and understanding. That's why they are the children and we are the adults! Yay! So, no, abusing your adult wife is wrong because you can successfully communicate with your wife and formulate an understanding between eachother based on adult feelings and ideals. Children can be communicated with too - but sometimes, I feel, they require the additional parental tool of a slap on the bottom in order to gain their attention. You do not have to subscribe to this. I did not ask you to and I could really care less what the hell you do with your kids.

I'm beginning to see your logic, Leiany. You think in all or nothing terms. Hit a child once: child abuser forever. Drink a beer: alcohol abuser forever. Smoke a joint: drug abuser. Quite a master of the skills of communication and debate, really, you are. You must be a hoot a parties.

Loose? Learn to spell.

I am not American.



It will not. I am talking about a "spank," ******, not a slap across the face!



Educate by fear and force? You really are the queen of overreaction. I'd really like to see you try and reason with a screaming kid in a crowded store, because I think you're full of ****.




No, I said before that I don't support it. So I wouldn't support it. Period. My children will grow up the same way I did... I had a normal childhood, I got spanked, my parents love me, I love them. All is well.

Now, go away, Leiany. Your argument is weak, your writing is awful and I won't waste my time with it anymore.

I may not be a native english speaker but you obviously know nothing about the basics of psychology.

Behaviour patterns are given from one generation to the next. Children who got "slapped" will slap their children, children who got beaten will beat their children, children who are abused will most likely abuse others when they have grown up.

This pattern tends to get worse over the generations until at the end a serial killer hits the streets.

So all you "I got my punishment, I am super-ok, not deranged or everything - and I will treat my children the same way" - ********* can either support your local morgue on the long run or start treating your children more respectfull and caring than you got treated yourself.

Or are you just a bunch of lazy ******** who have no intention to become "better" than the last generation? If so - say goodbye to your country which will probably evolve backwards with the help of your ilk....

Oh, this will happen, huh? No reason to think it will go any other way, folks. Leiany, knower-of-all-things, has filled in the blanks for us. Explain more of this magical psychology, Leiany!! If this pattern will happen to all kids who get spanked, where are all the serial killers? We should all be serial killers, shouldn't we?

Or, as you put it, "at the end" the result is a serial killer? Does that mean that the last in any given lineage is certain to become a serial killer?

You have got to be kidding.