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#152 Aug 28 2013 at 2:26 PM Rating: Excellent
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Okay, so here's the thing. Unlike someone believing they can fly, when a trans person says they are a certain gender, they don't just believe it to be true, it actually is true. Gender is not determined by genitals, or x/y chromosomes. It is determined completely independent of sex.


Since when? Smiley: confused

According to The American Heritage Stedman's Medical Dictionary, 'gender' refers to one's sex, based on reproductive organs. I mean, that's why trans people get sex changes, right? If our gender wasn't determined by our genitals, they wouldn't be having the whole gender identity crisis in the first place, would they? You could be a woman with a ***** or a man with a ******. Hell, if you're born a hermaphrodite, you could be both!

What you're saying is that gender is a matter of personal perception. If we accept that then we also have to accept that species is a matter of personal perception. A person could truly believe himself to be a peacock. As it just so happens, that's actually a thing. It's called species dysphoria.
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#153 Aug 28 2013 at 2:34 PM Rating: Excellent
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Part of me suspects if we could make people happy by turning them into peacocks we'd probably do it, science just isn't there yet. Species distinctions can be pretty arbitrary anyway.

Edited, Aug 28th 2013 1:39pm by someproteinguy
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Granted, the stuff you've spewed since you made these comments is even more idiotic, but the point is that regardless of whether or not it is a disorder really doesn't matter for the conversation.

These are people who, generally, have a set of sexual organs that do not match the gender identity they possess. Expression of that gender identity, which is almost universally a transition away from the gender identity they were culturally forced to express while growing up, is the ultimate goal.

For a cis person, you are culturally raised to express your gender identity. For a trans person, you are culturally raised to express a different gender identity. The ultimate goal, here, is to aid someone in transitioning their gender expression to match their gender identity. Normally, this process happens over the course of childhood.

Most trans persons, and a significant portion of the psychologist population, opposed the terminology of GID, as it is not a disorder in the classical sense, and its classification as such brings more harm than simply stigma. But as DSM V was just released, with that terminology unchanged, it's going to continue to be called GID for the forseeable future.

Either way, no licensed psychologist (or one interested in keeping their license) is interested in forcing a trans person into a box. They work with them to teach them to express their gender identity as they see fit, which is something they never learned to do growing up. Some trans persons are interested in fully transitioning to a the feminine end of the gender spectrum. Most hover somewhere in the middle. Many have fluid gender identities that change over time at a pace much more rapid than most.

If a client feels like physical changes are necessary for them to properly express their gender identity, or feel comfortable in their own skin, then they can have access to hormone treatments and SRS.

The point being, therapy isn't about shaming them into anything. It's helping them reach the point of "@#%^ off, I am who I am" with their gender expression that most people manage to achieve through their normal development, as their gender expression isn't so constantly policed.



Are you claiming that every transgender has/had a disorder?

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The disorder is having a body that doesn't match your gender. Hormones help remove that problem by making the body match the mind.


So, you're saying it's a physical disorder and not a mental disorder?

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Got to love the Gbaji/Alma style slippery slope arguments. Are you going to talk about marrying goats and toasters next?


Now you're just making stuff up. Calling every opposing argument a "slippery slope" is a slippery slope in itself. So much so, that I don't even think you even know what it means.
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Rachel9 wrote:
Okay, so here's the thing. Unlike someone believing they can fly, when a trans person says they are a certain gender, they don't just believe it to be true, it actually is true. Gender is not determined by genitals, or x/y chromosomes. It is determined completely independent of sex.


Since when? Smiley: confused
Since always.

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According to The American Heritage Stedman's Medical Dictionary, 'gender' refers to one's sex, based on reproductive organs. I mean, that's why trans people get sex changes, right? If our gender wasn't determined by our genitals, they wouldn't be having the whole gender identity crisis in the first place, would they? You could be a woman with a ***** or a man with a ******. Hell, if you're born a hermaphrodite, you could be both!
It's unfortunate that one word is used to refer to two completely different things, that are in 99% of people identical. Gender can indeed be synonym for sex, but it also has another meaning. In the context of this discussion, it has nothing to do with sex.

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What you're saying is that gender is a matter of personal perception. If we accept that then we also have to accept that species is a matter of personal perception.
No we don't. Species is determined by physical characteristics. So is sex. But gender is not.
#156 Aug 28 2013 at 3:37 PM Rating: Default
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Mazra wrote:
Rachel9 wrote:
Okay, so here's the thing. Unlike someone believing they can fly, when a trans person says they are a certain gender, they don't just believe it to be true, it actually is true. Gender is not determined by genitals, or x/y chromosomes. It is determined completely independent of sex.


Since when? Smiley: confused

According to The American Heritage Stedman's Medical Dictionary, 'gender' refers to one's sex, based on reproductive organs. I mean, that's why trans people get sex changes, right? If our gender wasn't determined by our genitals, they wouldn't be having the whole gender identity crisis in the first place, would they? You could be a woman with a ***** or a man with a ******. Hell, if you're born a hermaphrodite, you could be both!

What you're saying is that gender is a matter of personal perception. If we accept that then we also have to accept that species is a matter of personal perception. A person could truly believe himself to be a peacock. As it just so happens, that's actually a thing. It's called species dysphoria.


We went down this road already. Gender is originally defined to be separate from sex. Sex being defined by your genitals and gender by stereotypical actions that correspond to a sex. However, throughout time, the word has been used to mean sex as well. So, now, depending on the context, it can mean both. In any case, it doesn't support Rachel's argument. Regardless if you believe that you are a woman or a man, it doesn't change your sex, neither does mutilating your body. Using the mutually exclusive definition of gender says that Max is a MAN, who has a female gender. He is still a man. So, pretending to be a woman, is no different than a person pretending to be anything else.
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So, you're saying it's a physical disorder and not a mental disorder?
It's not that simple. It's a combination of the two.
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Regardless if you believe that you are a woman or a man, it doesn't change your sex
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neither does mutilating your body.
Well, i don't know. Maybe, maybe not. It's not really relevant either way.

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Using the mutually exclusive definition of gender says that Max is a MAN, who has a female gender. He is still a man. So, pretending to be a woman, is no different than a person pretending to be anything else.
Or rather, she's a woman who has a male sex.
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Using the mutually exclusive definition of gender says that Max is a MAN, who has a female gender. He is still a man. So, pretending to be a woman, is no different than a person pretending to be anything else.
Well not quite, you have a person who's chromosomally male, with a brain that's irreversibly wired as if they were female.

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So, you're saying it's a physical disorder and not a mental disorder?

It's not that simple. It's a combination of the two.
That's my understanding, you have a mind that has the opposite gender differentiation as the genitalia. That difference, and the inability to reconcile it, leads to the mental disorder.

Or something like that...


Edited, Aug 28th 2013 2:53pm by someproteinguy
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Are you claiming that every transgender has/had a disorder?

Judging from the previously linked article, it's a birth defect.
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#161 Aug 28 2013 at 4:04 PM Rating: Decent
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Rachel wrote:
No we don't. Species is determined by physical characteristics. So is sex. But gender is not.


This fact doesn't support your argument. Because gender is not determined by physical characteristics, there is no reason to provide medication to alter your sex, just because you have a different gender.

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Well, i don't know. Maybe, maybe not. It's not really relevant either way.


It doesn't change your sex. So therefore, you can't consider it a "cure" to the problem, if it doesn't actually do what you're proclaiming it to be doing. You're merely making physical alterations to appeal the mind. With that being said, the attention is on the mind, not the body. So, the "basic treatment", i.e. cheapest, is mental therapy.

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Or rather, she's a woman who has a male sex.


As before, you can't change definitions to support your agenda. That statement is misleading, because you're not clearly differentiating sex from gender. The correct answer is that the person is a male sex with a female gender. The sex came first in life, not the gender.

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It's not that simple. It's a combination of the two.

It really is. If the body didn't physically change or differ from the norm, then it isn't physical. Having a different gender from a sex, doesn't mean that anything is inherently wrong with your body.

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Well not quite, you have a person who's chromosomally male, with a brain that's irreversibly wired as if they were female.


How is that different from anything else? If there were a man who was wired to think he were a child and wanted to act as such, people would label him crazy.

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Well not quite, you have a person who's chromosomally male, with a brain that's irreversibly wired as if they were female.


How is that different from anything else? If there were a man who was wired to think he were a child and wanted to act as such, people would label him crazy.
Child parentalization is a real *****, just for the record.
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Rachel9 wrote:
Species is determined by physical characteristics. So is sex. But gender is not.


Then why the need to have a sex change? Why not just go drag? The sex change thing seems to indicate that the trans person is unhappy with his/her sex, in which case we're back to the peacock situation where someone with species dysphoria wants to be turned into something of the avian kind.
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Species is determined by physical characteristics. So is sex. But gender is not.


Then why the need to have a sex change? Why not just go drag? The sex change thing seems to indicate that the trans person is unhappy with his/her sex, in which case we're back to the peacock situation where someone with species dysphoria wants to be turned into something of the avian kind.


Generally speaking, the vast majority of trans individuals don't go through with SRS. Plenty of them don't do it because cost, risk, cons, etc. And plenty of them just don't want it, because the organs aren't something they particularly care about (or they care about the cons far more than the pros).

But there are other considerations. To get the bluntest of them out of the way, in most countries, you cannot change your official gender until after you have had SRS. This is increasingly less common, particularly in the EU, but only one US state allows you to change your gender without SRS. And there's no significant action on that front, that I'm aware of, to change that.

But there's also the fact that we live in a world where most cultures directly link the gender identity to the organs. So trans persons who want to transition more fully, or "pass," often want to go as far as possible with the actual physical transformation. The specific emotional feedback they get from that varies wildly, but if you've been raised in a culture that insists on telling you that your gender is what's between your legs, its not surprising if it would be hard to shake that (even if your actual understanding of gender identity surpasses that idea).

But it's ultimately an extremely personal decision made based off of many rational and emotional factors specific to each individual.
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Mazra wrote:
Rachel9 wrote:
Species is determined by physical characteristics. So is sex. But gender is not.


Then why the need to have a sex change? Why not just go drag?
Most people don't actually get the sex change. Other treatments are usually sufficient.

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The sex change thing seems to indicate that the trans person is unhappy with suicidal because of his/her sex
That's the crux of the problem. It's not that they're sad, it's that they'll often kill themselves. Even if a sex change isn't a preferred solution it can be much better than the alternative. (9.3% rate is what I see, at least for attempted suicide? With some sub-populations being much higher?)

We can't turn people into peacocks.

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someproteinguy wrote:
We can't turn people into peacocks.

We can't turn men into biological women either.
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We can't turn people into peacocks.

We can't turn men into biological women either.
Well I guess not, but we can sure fake it a lot better than a peacock.
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We can't turn people into peacocks.

We can't turn men into biological women either.


But we can address down some of the most socially relevant biological differences between males and females. And since gender is a social construct, that's what matters.
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This is so damn confusing. Especially the gender/sex thing. Like, I can wrap my head around the fact that some people believe themselves to be male when they are, physically, female. I get that. I also get how some might, in the name of philosophy, argue that they are whatever they believe they are, since reality is a matter of perception.

What I don't get is why a person with species dysphoria is different from a person with gender dysphoria.
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What I don't get is why a person with species dysphoria is different from a person with gender dysphoria.
That I don't know. I tried looking up species dysphoria on google scholar to see if there were any papers on causes, but there weren't many from what I can tell. That and I'm not touching the couple I did find, because not comfortable reading a paper on bestiality at work, even if it is a scientific paper. Smiley: rolleyes

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We can't turn people into peacocks.
We can't turn men into biological women either.
Well I guess not, but we can sure fake it a lot better than a peacock.

I dunno... I've seen photos from some of those Furry conventions!

Really, I think the peacock argument isn't a great one but was mainly making the point while giving you crap.
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And since gender is a social construct, that's what matters.

Except that the use of hormones and surgery would imply that it's not purely a social construct they're concerned with. Last big thread, I was pointed to medical guides which said that GID affected people often go through youth thinking that they'll grow the "correct" genitalia or refusing to admit that they have their current set. That's not social, that's a biological mismatch they're feeling. Hell, the linked article posted (I believe by you) stated that the brain develops differently in utero, well before any cultural constructs would apply to it -- again, not social.
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The problem is that you are conflating gender and sex in a way that doesn't actually work psychologically. It's understandable why you'd do so, but it's not historically sound. Western culture has only had two gender identities for quite some time, but other cultures have not. Many Native American cultures had four gender identities, present-day Iran has a sizable third gender identity, many oceanic cultures have 3 or 4, etc.

Essentially, in really basic terms, your gender is the set of cultural traits that you identity with. Our own culture realistically has far more than two gender identities, but we break them down into subgroups within a gender instead of recognizing them as distinct.

The reality is that gender itself is a personal sum of your own cultural understandings and identifications of masculinity and femininity, and most people have various measures of each to their own identity, falling along a spectrum of gender that they define (with heavy cultural influence). Some individuals, who generally use the term of genderqueer, do not have a gender identity that falls along this binary at all (either possessing no gender identity, or possessing one that's not defined by masculinity or femininity).

So a gender dysphoria is a fundamentally cultural issue. Overwhelmingly, trans persons care about their sexual organs because they've been raised culturally to care about their sexual organs in that way. If the genitalia were held to be culturally distinct from your gender (separating sex and gender in a manner that matches the psychological understanding of each), SRS would probably be something very few trans persons cared to pursue.

So, in simplest terms, it's because gender dysphoria is not sex dysphoria, but having the sexual organs that match the cultural bias of gender can be comforting to someone who holds genitalia not culturally associated with their gender.
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So a gender dysphoria is a fundamentally cultural issue.

If this is the case, then it has a cultural, non-medical solution and there is no sense in feeling obligated to give Manning anything. Tell him to buck up and stop worrying about what the big ole world says about his *****. You don't solve cultural issues with medication and surgery.
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It doesn't change your sex. So therefore, you can't consider it a "cure" to the problem, if it doesn't actually do what you're proclaiming it to be doing.
If there was a better, more complete way to change someone's sex, that'd be great, but there's not yet. But we can still get pretty close.

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You're merely making physical alterations to appeal the mind. With that being said, the attention is on the mind, not the body.
That's about right.

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So, the "basic treatment", i.e. cheapest, is mental ********************* i wish i could get therapy for $5/mo. Even with my great insurance, it costs me more than that :(

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The correct answer is that the person is a male sex with a female gender.
Yup, that's what i said.

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How is that different from anything else? If there were a man who was wired to think he were a child and wanted to act as such, people would label him crazy.
Because whether or not someone is a child is not a matter someone can decide themselves. Some things can be decided by each person, and some things cannot. For example, you can decide to like pizza, or that you're gay, or what your favorite color is, or what your gender is (when i say decide, i don't necessarily mean you actually have a choice that can be changed). You cannot decide your age, height, sex, or species.
[quote]Then why the need to have a sex change? Why not just go drag? The sex change thing seems to indicate that the trans person is unhappy with his/her sex,
Other than because it's required to fit into society? I don't know. it's complicated. At least for me, yes, I'm unhappy with my sex. I don't really feel like not trying to change it is an option. I'm not sure i could really explain why.
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not comfortable reading a paper on bestiality at work, even if it is a scientific paper. Smiley: rolleyes


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