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I can imagine your bruised up kids trying to convince their counselor they really did fall down the stairs.
Yeah...fell...
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I can imagine your bruised up kids trying to convince their counselor they really did fall down the stairs.
Yeah...fell...
We live in Amish country.
Rumspringa.
The Devils Playground.
My hairdresser did hers and never went back.
Correct me if I am wrong, but they are allowed to have their gentleman caller sleep in their bed. This is after they decide to come back.
Rumspringa is the 14yr olds b-day times infinity, but at 16. Les (she called me GucciGirl bcz I would come across the hall after my shift at Zales) said she felt she made the right decision. She has a daughter and can't imagine raising her Amish.
Took me a while to believe her. She is very deadpan like me (I hate people who have to ask if I am joking)
We have a weird cultural blend. In the fog we watch for horse drawn wagons, tractors, sugar beet trucks. At the mall we see Mennonites.
Maybe it seems like my parenting skills are lacking. I don't mind what is thought. I walked barefoot over hot coals and broken glass in Hell to raise my cousin. Changing her sheets, I only did once. Why? Neon, glow in the dark vibrator between the mattress and box spring.
I probably would have called the police on the party. 14 is intolerable for that type of party.
Edited, May 21st 2009 10:55pm by GrowlingBunny
Rumspringa.
The Devils Playground.
My hairdresser did hers and never went back.
Correct me if I am wrong, but they are allowed to have their gentleman caller sleep in their bed. This is after they decide to come back.
Rumspringa is the 14yr olds b-day times infinity, but at 16. Les (she called me GucciGirl bcz I would come across the hall after my shift at Zales) said she felt she made the right decision. She has a daughter and can't imagine raising her Amish.
Took me a while to believe her. She is very deadpan like me (I hate people who have to ask if I am joking)
We have a weird cultural blend. In the fog we watch for horse drawn wagons, tractors, sugar beet trucks. At the mall we see Mennonites.
Maybe it seems like my parenting skills are lacking. I don't mind what is thought. I walked barefoot over hot coals and broken glass in Hell to raise my cousin. Changing her sheets, I only did once. Why? Neon, glow in the dark vibrator between the mattress and box spring.
I probably would have called the police on the party. 14 is intolerable for that type of party.
Edited, May 21st 2009 10:55pm by GrowlingBunny
I'd never push my children down the stairs.
I just wouldn't bother putting stair gates up.
I just wouldn't bother putting stair gates up.
Ah Great Britain, we do horribly irresponsible chav breeding like no one else.
If you feel concern for the child, notify the proper authorities. Not that I'd expect the to respond all that quickly, they're not exactly on the ball right now.
Either way if they did have sex it was statutory rape. I'd say it was your place to report it. I'm not one to stand in the way of underage sex, pretty much everyone I know did it. However, an age gap of eight years that dips below 16 is wrong no matter how you look at it.
Do this child a favour and get her taken away from her mother. We've enough chav scum in this country as it is.
If you feel concern for the child, notify the proper authorities. Not that I'd expect the to respond all that quickly, they're not exactly on the ball right now.
Either way if they did have sex it was statutory rape. I'd say it was your place to report it. I'm not one to stand in the way of underage sex, pretty much everyone I know did it. However, an age gap of eight years that dips below 16 is wrong no matter how you look at it.
Do this child a favour and get her taken away from her mother. We've enough chav scum in this country as it is.
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The worst thing is, the 14 year old used to live up in Scotland with her grandmother because social services at one point decided she was an unfit parent . The daughter was only returned to her mother about 3 months ago. I think they do have social services visits, but I imagine the mother behaves herself then .
I'm wary of reporting it , but I'm definately thinking about doing so anonymously. I know a couple of other people have concerns too, not just about the party, but in general about the behaviour of both the mother and the daughter. I'm going to have a look on the internet and see if there is some way I can get some sex education leaflets posted to the daughter too . The mum doesn't seem to sharp on her sex ed, and that's not going to help the daughter .
I'm wary of reporting it , but I'm definately thinking about doing so anonymously. I know a couple of other people have concerns too, not just about the party, but in general about the behaviour of both the mother and the daughter. I'm going to have a look on the internet and see if there is some way I can get some sex education leaflets posted to the daughter too . The mum doesn't seem to sharp on her sex ed, and that's not going to help the daughter .
Severely uneducated people shouldn't be allowed to breed. This arrangement they have going on isn't healthy for anyone involved. Children need boundaries, otherwise they're little ****** that grow up to be big ******* I have a little cousin who's being spoiled rotton, probably as I write this. He's a total *******, and it's down to the parents. I know if I acted in the manner he does I'd get a good smack.
Seems to me like this mother is trying to be best friends with her kid. Kids don't need friends like that, they need a parent. What the **** is wrong with people these days!
Seems to me like this mother is trying to be best friends with her kid. Kids don't need friends like that, they need a parent. What the **** is wrong with people these days!
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Sneak the child some condoms, it's the least you can do. And seriously consider calling child services.. ~.~
Edited, May 22nd 2009 5:51am by Deadgye
Edited, May 22nd 2009 5:51am by Deadgye
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The way Nil says it, I'm inclined to think this mum is a bit like my dad.
He's 60 now, and on so many levels, he's just still a child. It's not even a matter of intelligence or education. It's a matter of never, ever having taken responsibility for the **** he's done in his life, and spending all his time ******* drinking and watching **** (both of which he started doing together with me when I was 12 -- I sold the booze and avoided the ****). Actually, I think both my parents have done a horrific job in raising a daughter and just had their own ******* agendas of what to do with me.
I mean, maybe this mother genuinely believes she's doing what's best for her child. Or is telling herself so. Or hasn't reached the point where she can be considered an adult (psychologically).
Either way, I'm glad that you are trying to help for the girl's sake and if there is a way to alert social services without endangering yourself or whatever, do it!
He's 60 now, and on so many levels, he's just still a child. It's not even a matter of intelligence or education. It's a matter of never, ever having taken responsibility for the **** he's done in his life, and spending all his time ******* drinking and watching **** (both of which he started doing together with me when I was 12 -- I sold the booze and avoided the ****). Actually, I think both my parents have done a horrific job in raising a daughter and just had their own ******* agendas of what to do with me.
I mean, maybe this mother genuinely believes she's doing what's best for her child. Or is telling herself so. Or hasn't reached the point where she can be considered an adult (psychologically).
Either way, I'm glad that you are trying to help for the girl's sake and if there is a way to alert social services without endangering yourself or whatever, do it!
Crimestoppers is anonymous.
Thats pretty disgusting.
You're a parent first, a role model second and a friend third. Its amazing how many people can't figure that one out.
You're a parent first, a role model second and a friend third. Its amazing how many people can't figure that one out.
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You're a parent first, a role model second and a friend third. Its amazing how many people can't figure that one out.
Agree wholeheartedly with you there - that's the way I'm trying to bring up my daughter. I think a lot of parents want to be best friends with their kids from the start, and it IS important, but its far more important that they grow up safe, healthy, and happy . I didn't regard my mum as a 'friend' when I was younger - its only since having my own daughter that I can appreciate the way she did things, and now, we ARE friends :)
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I don't think that my mom was retarded...but she did do many things that I, myself, may not do for my baby boy when he is older. By the time I was 12 she would let me ride my bike to the bar down the street and I would literally walk through the drive threw. I'd have to ring the bell at the window but they sold me cigarettes from 12-14 doing so. My mom would not drive me there but if I got them myself it wasn't a problem. By 15 I moved out and by 16 if I wanted some Vodka my mother would take my money and get it for me. She always said if I was to do it, I should be at her house or at my own so I'm not out driving while drunk. I still am not sure if that was entirely a good thing or not. I can see a little bit where she is coming from but I just don't think that I would be ok with letting Takeo go in the basement or something and drink with his friends while I'm in the other room. I think I'd whoop him.
The weirdest thing she ever did... I was 12 when I started having sexual relations with my "girlfriends" at the time and she would let them stay the night while I had plenty of fun time in the bedroom learning how to please the other person but not let me bring a boy over and close the door. I was very open with her that year about what I like and what I don't.. I never got that.. She even got mad at me once for watching a porno in my bedroom, WHICH THE DOOR WAS OPEN, with a male friend of mine. She yelled at me to shut the door if we were going to watch something like that because she didn't want my stepdad to see it.
Hmph... Moms.
Edited, May 22nd 2009 8:00am by popcornshowers
The weirdest thing she ever did... I was 12 when I started having sexual relations with my "girlfriends" at the time and she would let them stay the night while I had plenty of fun time in the bedroom learning how to please the other person but not let me bring a boy over and close the door. I was very open with her that year about what I like and what I don't.. I never got that.. She even got mad at me once for watching a porno in my bedroom, WHICH THE DOOR WAS OPEN, with a male friend of mine. She yelled at me to shut the door if we were going to watch something like that because she didn't want my stepdad to see it.
Hmph... Moms.
Edited, May 22nd 2009 8:00am by popcornshowers
popcornshowers wrote:
I was 12 when I started having sexual relations with my "girlfriends" at the time and she would let them stay the night while I had plenty of fun time in the bedroom learning how to please the other person
I came.
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