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#27 Jan 17 2009 at 6:14 PM Rating: Excellent
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I don't understand why people like to pretend so many of those on welfare are abusing it. Intuitively I would expect the common person to be jealous of the rich and spiteful for possessing what they cannot have while pitying the poor. Instead the wealthy are worshiped so that we can enjoy their gains vicariously while focusing spite on the poor.

Reminds me of episode 12 of Kino no Tabi.
#28 Jan 17 2009 at 6:16 PM Rating: Excellent
That should be in the Anime forum Allegory, JEEBUS.
#29 Jan 17 2009 at 6:16 PM Rating: Decent
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95% of welfare recipients don't deserve it 95% of the time.


And no, I'm not being sarcastic.
Ok, let me get this before Anna does.


Even I wouldn't go so far as to say that.


What if I exclude unemployment as a form of welfare?
#30 Jan 17 2009 at 6:20 PM Rating: Decent
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I don't understand why people like to pretend so many of those on welfare are abusing it. Intuitively I would expect the common person to be jealous of the rich and spiteful for possessing what they cannot have while pitying the poor. Instead the wealthy are worshiped so that we can enjoy their gains vicariously while focusing spite on the poor.

Reminds me of episode 12 of Kino no Tabi.


Allegory, I have always liked you. I know nothing about you. I also know that in this state, I see people on welfare work the system. We survived my hubby being unemployed for a year and having no help. Then I had an unexpected unpaid pregnancy leave. No help for us.

The sad thing is that people abuse the system. Makes it harder for those who don't.
#31 Jan 17 2009 at 6:21 PM Rating: Decent
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The Great BrownDuck wrote:
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95% of welfare recipients don't deserve it 95% of the time.


And no, I'm not being sarcastic.
Ok, let me get this before Anna does.


Even I wouldn't go so far as to say that.


What if I exclude unemployment as a form of welfare?


Are you really telling me you can raise a kid or two on minimum wage?
#32 Jan 17 2009 at 6:22 PM Rating: Good
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Allegory wrote:
I don't understand why people like to pretend so many of those on welfare are abusing it. Intuitively I would expect the common person to be jealous of the rich and spiteful for possessing what they cannot have while pitying the poor. Instead the wealthy are worshiped so that we can enjoy their gains vicariously while focusing spite on the poor.

Reminds me of episode 12 of Kino no Tabi.


I dunno, I grew up below the "poverty" line but above what was needed to get the welfare support in question. My parents sacrificed a lot in order to help me and my brother grow up.

I didn't pity those on welfare, I was angry at them. Seeing my dad work his *** off to support our family of four, yet see families on welfare who's parents didn't have to work, didn't try to work, and they were just as well off as I was in the end.
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#33 Jan 17 2009 at 6:22 PM Rating: Default
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I don't understand why people like to pretend so many of those on welfare are abusing it.


It's not pretend. Try living in a welfare neighborhood for one year, see how you come out feeling about it.
#34 Jan 17 2009 at 6:24 PM Rating: Excellent
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Allegory wrote:
I don't understand why people like to pretend so many of those on welfare are abusing it. Intuitively I would expect the common person to be jealous of the rich and spiteful for possessing what they cannot have while pitying the poor. Instead the wealthy are worshiped so that we can enjoy their gains vicariously while focusing spite on the poor.

Reminds me of episode 12 of Kino no Tabi.


Allegory, I have always liked you. I know nothing about you. I also know that in this state, I see people on welfare work the system. We survived my hubby being unemployed for a year and having no help. Then I had an unexpected unpaid pregnancy leave. No help for us.

The sad thing is that people abuse the system. Makes it harder for those who don't.


People abuse anything they can. Seriously, I like how this is applied to poor people across the board. Anyone that says that a majority of people abuse the welfare system or unemployment benefits is a moran. Instead of throwing ******** figures out, lets see a cite.

Raising a child on minimum wage is nearly impossible.
#35 Jan 17 2009 at 6:24 PM Rating: Decent
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yet see families on welfare who's parents didn't have to work, didn't try to work, and they were just as well off as I was in the end.



Yeah it's amazing what free/nearly free housing and free medical care can do for a family's budget.
#36 Jan 17 2009 at 6:27 PM Rating: Decent
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Instead of throwing bullsh*t figures out, lets see a cite.


It's hard to get figures when stuff is done undocumented and under the table.

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Raising a child on minimum wage is nearly impossible. hard.


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#37 Jan 17 2009 at 6:27 PM Rating: Decent
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The Great BrownDuck wrote:
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yet see families on welfare who's parents didn't have to work, didn't try to work, and they were just as well off as I was in the end.



Yeah it's amazing what free/nearly free housing and free medical care can do for a family's budget.


So I suppose you'd rather they joined the strong rank of the 50 million other uninsured in this country? Unemployment wages are taxed, welfare, dunno. One way or another, these people are paying taxes and deserve to have their share of the government pie. They simply utilize a different slice than you do.

Edited, Jan 17th 2009 9:28pm by Paskil
#38 Jan 17 2009 at 6:28 PM Rating: Decent
The weirdest thing about my welfare is this: The government pays for this woman to be my personal assistant, she's paid €17 an hour. They pretty much forced this "service" on me, and now insist on continuing to pay for it. Smiley: oyvey
I had to endure being yelled at by my welfare officer for the better part of an hour when I told her that I really didn't want to rely on this for more than 3 or 4 months.

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#39 Jan 17 2009 at 6:29 PM Rating: Good
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TirithRR wrote:
Paskil wrote:
Instead of throwing bullsh*t figures out, lets see a cite.


It's hard to get figures when stuff is done undocumented and under the table


So stop throwing figures like 25% out. Just because someone is poor doesn't make them lazy or a lesser person.

Edited, Jan 17th 2009 9:29pm by Paskil
#40 Jan 17 2009 at 6:31 PM Rating: Excellent
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Paskil wrote:
So stop throwing figures like 25% out. Just because someone is poor doesn't make them lazy or a lesser person.

Edited, Jan 17th 2009 9:29pm by Paskil
Absolutely not, but it does increase the probability.
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#41 Jan 17 2009 at 6:35 PM Rating: Excellent
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My point is (as I said in an earlier post), every class has its cheaters. There was an article I saw earlier that said something like 78/88 of the top 100 companies here in the states use offshore tax shelters. How come no one here is railing against them? What about the billions that they are evading in taxes?

Lets set up an example here since the US has such ****** maternity leave laws. A single woman has a child. Not sure if anyone in this thread arguing has any idea how expensive childcare is nowadays. Assuming said mother has no parents or friends to care for the kid, how is she supposed to work minimum wage and manage to pay for childcare, rent, food, utilities, transportation, and other expenses?
#42 Jan 17 2009 at 6:36 PM Rating: Decent
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Paskil wrote:
TirithRR wrote:
Paskil wrote:
Instead of throwing bullsh*t figures out, lets see a cite.


It's hard to get figures when stuff is done undocumented and under the table


So stop throwing figures like 25% out. Just because someone is poor doesn't make them lazy or a lesser person.

Edited, Jan 17th 2009 9:29pm by Paskil


You mean the 1 in 4 of the people I personally know I mentioned earlier?

That's an accurate number, they got laid off in the last month, they told me what they were doing. Probably about half of them plow people's driveways. A few are clearing trees, cutting wood.

About 7 cases of "carpal tunnel syndrome" filed when the employees knew they were going to get laid off. (Told by our HR director in a meeting about what we are trying to do to reduce costs and save the company).



Just because you haven't been exposed to these people doesn't mean they don't exist.
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#43 Jan 17 2009 at 6:36 PM Rating: Good
All I know is when the hubby and I needed help the most, we didn't get it. We had decent jobs then and we have even better jobs now. I know what I pay in daycare and can't imagine that the girl at Bath and Body Works (who has preggo at the same time as me) pays too. We could still use help, and we have decent salaries. I feel for those who don't, but they get help.

Edited, Jan 17th 2009 9:36pm by eiran
#44 Jan 17 2009 at 6:37 PM Rating: Good
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TirithRR wrote:
yet see families on welfare who's parents didn't have to work, didn't try to work, and they were just as well off as I was in the end.



Yeah it's amazing what free/nearly free housing and free medical care can do for a family's budget.


So I suppose you'd rather they joined the strong rank of the 50 million other uninsured in this country? Unemployment wages are taxed, welfare, dunno. One way or another, these people are paying taxes and deserve to have their share of the government pie. They simply utilize a different slice than you do.


Welfare income is not taxed. These people pay nothing of their share of debt to society. Look, I'm not fabricating an opinion based on public bias or assumptions - my mother became a welfare junkie shortly after my youngest sister was born. I was 14 at the time, and from the onset, I could see how she and others in our housing project were merely abusing the system because they were lazy / unmotivated. I've seen it all, and my hatred for welfare abuse stems from those personal experiences. I retained a 40 hour a week job from the first week after I turned 16 and moved out on my own at the age of 17 to break away from it all. My own mother was arrested for reselling prescription drugs she obtained for free through the Medicaid system (the catalyst for my sister moving up here, actually).

Welfare, as it exists today, is little more than a social disease.

I do make an exception for unemployment, with the caveat that only people are laid off for reasons beyond their control deserve it. There are some who get fired for reasons well within their control and choose to milk unemployment for the maximum benefit period before even beginning to seek other employment. These people are no better than the bottom feeders.

Edited, Jan 17th 2009 8:38pm by BrownDuck
#45 Jan 17 2009 at 6:41 PM Rating: Good
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Welfare income is not taxed.
It is up here, but if you were on it all year, you likely fall under the basic tax exempt limit, so you pay nothing.

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Not sure if anyone in this thread arguing has any idea how expensive childcare is nowadays.
I do, but then again, I'm not arguing against welfare.
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#46 Jan 17 2009 at 6:41 PM Rating: Default
If you are on any sort of welfare you should not have a cell phone. If someone bought you the phone as if paying your bill then they should stop and give you grocery money instead. Having a cell phone is not a right, its a privilege.

In a perfect world, someone would go to this cnuts house say "hey, you're on welfare and I have here, a cell phone bill". Then smash the phone in her face and say "not yours" and leave.




#47 Jan 17 2009 at 6:42 PM Rating: Decent
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All I know is when the hubby and I needed help the most, we didn't get it. We had decent jobs then and we have even better jobs now. I know what I pay in daycare and can't imagine that the girl at Bath and Body Works (who has preggo at the same time as me) pays too. We could still use help, and we have decent salaries. I feel for those who don't, but they get help.

Edited, Jan 17th 2009 9:36pm by eiran


And that's unfortunate. Arbitrary ceilings on income allow many to slip through the cracks. Some of these people that are the most in need come from sh*tty backgrounds. They have no education beyond high school (if even that). Sure they should pull themselves up by the bootstraps. Yeah, they should take responsibility for their actions. For many however, it is too late. Because of my stupidity during my teens/early twenties, it is incredibly hard for me to find a job. Having even a blemish on a criminal record or credit history can pretty much get you knocked out of any meaningful interview. Is it fair? No. Does it happen? Yes.

Some people are lazy. Many have no other recourse.

Edit: I've applied for twenty jobs in the last two weeks. Fifteen in the last two weeks of December. I have not received a single call back. I worked at my last job five years.

Edited, Jan 17th 2009 9:44pm by Paskil
#48 Jan 17 2009 at 6:45 PM Rating: Excellent
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Not sure if anyone in this thread arguing has any idea how expensive childcare is nowadays.


I have a better idea than you, probably.

Paskil wrote:
how is she supposed to work minimum wage and manage to pay for childcare, rent, food, utilities, transportation, and other expenses?


The retroactive answer is to not have kids if you can't afford it. For those who end up in the situation unwittingly, I say to them, get a second job, do whatever it takes. The problem with welfare in its current state in the U.S. is that it is not conducive to partial employment - if you have even a part time job, your income often disqualifies you from the most needed help. This system forces people to either quit their job or lose welfare. Guess which choice most people make?

It's a system that breeds slackers and is a drain on society.
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Because of my stupidity during my teens/early twenties, it is incredibly hard for me to find a job.
I don't know how it works down there, but up here, if you have a record and it's a minor thing, after a certain amount of time has passed, you can apply for a pardon and have it removed from your record. You should look into that, you never know.
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#50 Jan 17 2009 at 6:46 PM Rating: Default
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If you are on any sort of welfare you should not have a cell phone. If someone bought you the phone as if paying your bill then they should stop and give you grocery money instead. Having a cell phone is not a right, its a privilege.

In a perfect world, someone would go to this cnuts house say "hey, you're on welfare and I have here, a cell phone bill". Then smash the phone in her face and say "not yours" and leave.






Do you seriously expect anyone to not at least have the bare minimum cell phone (pre-paid). When I hired people, I put their application in the filing cabinet if they didn't have a cell phone on their app.
#51 Jan 17 2009 at 6:48 PM Rating: Decent
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how is she supposed to work minimum wage and manage to pay for childcare, rent, food, utilities, transportation, and other expenses?


The retroactive answer is to not have kids if you can't afford it. For those who end up in the situation unwittingly, I say to them, get a second job, do whatever it takes. The problem with welfare in its current state in the U.S. is that it is not conducive to partial employment - if you have even a part time job, your income often disqualifies you from the most needed help. This system forces people to either quit their job or lose welfare. Guess which choice most people make?

It's a system that breeds slackers and is a drain on society.


How are you supposed to work two jobs and be a single parent? I'm not talking about your situation with your sister either. Working two jobs with an infant?

Edited, Jan 17th 2009 9:49pm by Paskil
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