Galkaman has a dateFollow

You always assume too much when I talk about women

It has nothing to do with "smooth moves" and the like. If I'm taking a girl I'm really interested in on a date, the movie is the last stop. Dinner, something active and fun, then the movie. By that point we've really connected and are having a great time.

The kind of girls you're referring to I'd just invite over to my place to watch a movie :P

Don't I wish.


The "active" part of the date usually initiates the touching.. or comes very close to it, so hand holding in the theatre isn't such a big risk and is usually expected.

If I can't read into anything signifying she's not really into me by that point, I don't worry about any physical contact for the rest of the date.

This one's golden. If she arches her back away from you, you know you're done for. If she takes it normally, you know there's room to move forward.

This is always the one I miss out on. East Coasters are really touchy feely anyway, so it doesn't mean much around here. Or there's a lot more women hitting on me than I realize.

All the above. Well, maybe not light groping in the taxi.. I mean, obviously you're in at that point . But anything more than what someone would consider a small amount of any touching on a first, key word being first, date is usually a very good sign. I won't say everyone's like that as you'll always have your oddballs, but it's easily more often than not.

If they show any hint of not appreciating physical contact at any point I'll stop as well. I learned quickly when I first got into the dating scene that there can be a thin line between seeming confident and aggressive.

Aggressive = Bad.

I love being on a first date when the guy was all awkward and wasn't sure how to proceed with touching and going in for the first kiss.

There was one guy that I was with that just went in for the kiss. Because he was so awesome, this didn't put me off.

But my most favorite favorite favorite guy I ever went out with had the bestest smoothest moves ever.

I've seen your picture. You're pretty hot.

I've seen him face to face and I have to agree even though he's not exactly my type.

Dude, you're screwed. Belki wants you taking notes from this thread beforehand, not the date. If you follow the notes, you won't be telling us the story from memory, you can just ask her what to type in the morning.

So you finally got to get it on with your sister? Well done. I know that's a great accomplishment in your trailer-trash circle.

So, I should be yawning putting my arm around her and not putting my arm around her, hitting her in the face, being confident in touching but only if she wants me to be, which is discerned by her putting her hand on her knee or putting her hand on her knee. Then there should be some light groping in the taxi before I gently guide her through the door I'm holding open for her.

Cohesive advice for the WIN!

Hey, it got me a beautiful wife and little girl :P, so yeah I would say yes. despite the fact I am sure you ment that sarcastically

Come on now. We know you're smarter than that. You take out everything Kaain said, and follow the rest of the advice.