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#52 Nov 05 2007 at 2:24 PM Rating: Decent
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I think it's more that they don't want to ask for things they want or need and be rejected.


I used to be like that, and I didn't realize until I broke up with the various gals that I was getting sooo many hints that I just didn't pick up on.

Pisses me off now that I think about it...


#53 Nov 05 2007 at 2:25 PM Rating: Excellent
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Or by the same token, people can be in a relationship for years and have problems talking about sex. Talking about it is more intimate than doing it?

Well why don't you come on over and we can "talk" about it Smiley: sly












I'm gonna get Samira playing for the home team again!!!


Wait, Samira's gay?
#54 Nov 05 2007 at 2:51 PM Rating: Excellent
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Belkira the Tulip wrote:
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Or by the same token, people can be in a relationship for years and have problems talking about sex. Talking about it is more intimate than doing it?

Well why don't you come on over and we can "talk" about it Smiley: sly


I'm gonna get Samira playing for the home team again!!!


Wait, Samira's gay?


Not that I know of.
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#55 Nov 05 2007 at 2:52 PM Rating: Good
Smiley: confused I swear to God someone said long ago in the Asylum you were a muff diver. Now that you say you're not I'm no longer interested...




















much....sorry
#56 Nov 05 2007 at 2:54 PM Rating: Good
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Wait, Samira's gay?


Not that I know of.


It must be the avatar.
#57 Nov 05 2007 at 3:00 PM Rating: Excellent
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Smiley: confused I swear to God someone said long ago in the Asylum you were a muff diver. Now that you say you're not I'm no longer interested...

much....sorry



Yeeeah, no problem.
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#58 Nov 05 2007 at 3:02 PM Rating: Good
Smiley: frown Bastards.
#59 Nov 05 2007 at 3:46 PM Rating: Good
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Samira wrote:
Belkira the Tulip wrote:
Brill wrote:
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Or by the same token, people can be in a relationship for years and have problems talking about sex. Talking about it is more intimate than doing it?

Well why don't you come on over and we can "talk" about it Smiley: sly


I'm gonna get Samira playing for the home team again!!!


Wait, Samira's gay?


Not that I know of.


So, you thought about it then?
#60 Nov 05 2007 at 3:56 PM Rating: Good
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All in all the main fact is...we've maybe been seeing each other for a month. And it is a long distance relationship...so we've had very limited time 'in-person'. Just to let that be stated.

Further down the road, if he still has this 'issue' though...it will be brought to his attention that while he may be able to label us as 'boyfriends', that I myself cannot. If he cant give me smooches in the privacy of his bedroom...then I know he wont be able to anywhere else.

I'm really a PDA person...that is one of my many downfalls. I like have an arm wrapped around me in movies, I like to hold hands walking down the street, and I have No problem with a kiss in public (non-tongue related...even I have some limits).

I have some strange ideals of romance that I do like to follow...for instance I want to have a commitment ceremony some day, my religion does allow that. I really want someone that wont be afraid to stand up in front of everyone, both our friends and families...and join me in that bond.

O...m...g. This thread is so gay...I do apologize.
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#61 Nov 05 2007 at 3:57 PM Rating: Good
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All in all the main fact is...we've maybe been seeing each other for a month. And it is a long distance relationship...so we've had very limited time 'in-person'. Just to let that be stated.


Ah. I didn't realize it was such a short time. Trotting out the "boyfriend" term made me think it was much longer.

Yeah, I'd give it a little more time. The long distance thing doesn't help much, either.

From now on, I'm going to call you Angel and assume that your beau is Tom Collins.

Edited, Nov 5th 2007 5:58pm by Belkira
#62 Nov 05 2007 at 3:58 PM Rating: Decent
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I really want someone that wont be afraid to stand up in front of everyone, both our friends and families...and join me in that bond.


My wife has a friend named "*****" that you might want to check out...
#63 Nov 05 2007 at 3:59 PM Rating: Excellent
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In front of total strangers wont you kiss me
Flowers for no reason but you miss me
Oh I want to be in love
You're standing on the doorstep in the rain
Cause you couldn't wait to see me once again
Oh I want to be in love

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#64 Nov 05 2007 at 4:04 PM Rating: Good
Have you tried telling him that you don't have much time left? I mean, have you explored the guilt angle yet?

Or is that not really something you talk about with your sex partners?
#65 Nov 05 2007 at 4:04 PM Rating: Decent
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Belkira the Tulip wrote:
Princess Dyadem wrote:
All in all the main fact is...we've maybe been seeing each other for a month. And it is a long distance relationship...so we've had very limited time 'in-person'. Just to let that be stated.


Ah. I didn't realize it was such a short time. Trotting out the "boyfriend" term made me think it was much longer.

Yeah, I'd give it a little more time. The long distance thing doesn't help much, either.

From now on, I'm going to call you Angel and assume that your beau is Tom Collins.

Edited, Nov 5th 2007 5:58pm by Belkira


Now I need cry...I do so love that movie.
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#66 Nov 05 2007 at 4:06 PM Rating: Decent
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Have you tried telling him that you don't have much time left? I mean, have you explored the guilt angle yet?

Or is that not really something you talk about with your sex partners?


Yes BT...I only told him though because he has a cat...and he loves his cat so I dont want him to worry about it catching it and dying. (Seriously though, thats actually how we started talking...he's had cancer for 4 years now...and its mostly in remission...but we get to be sick together, how romantic huh?)

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In front of total strangers wont you kiss me
Flowers for no reason but you miss me
Oh I want to be in love
You're standing on the doorstep in the rain
Cause you couldn't wait to see me once again
Oh I want to be in love



...I really like that...so I assume you didnt write it? (I'm kidding...its hard to be nice you know)
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#67 Nov 05 2007 at 4:13 PM Rating: Decent
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I can imagine how you must feel. Incidentally is this you?
#68 Nov 05 2007 at 4:27 PM Rating: Decent
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I can imagine how you must feel. Incidentally is this you?


Sorry but I'm not into beastility ;)
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#69 Nov 05 2007 at 4:28 PM Rating: Good
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Issuldar wrote:
I can imagine how you must feel. Incidentally is this you?


Sorry but I'm not into beastility ;)


Then what does his cat have to worry about?Smiley: confused
#70 Nov 05 2007 at 4:32 PM Rating: Decent
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Grandfather Barkingturtle wrote:
Princess Dyadem wrote:
Issuldar wrote:
I can imagine how you must feel. Incidentally is this you?


Sorry but I'm not into beastility ;)


Then what does his cat have to worry about?Smiley: confused


Because I like to abuse things smaller then me...it makes me feel powerfull. Sometimes those things fight back.
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#71 Nov 05 2007 at 4:41 PM Rating: Excellent
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Princess Dyadem wrote:


Samira wrote:
In front of total strangers wont you kiss me
Flowers for no reason but you miss me
Oh I want to be in love
You're standing on the doorstep in the rain
Cause you couldn't wait to see me once again
Oh I want to be in love



...I really like that...so I assume you didnt write it? (I'm kidding...its hard to be nice you know)


Melissa Ethridge did. I like her a lot, probably because of my latent lesbianism.

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#72 Nov 05 2007 at 5:10 PM Rating: Decent
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Samira wrote:
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Samira wrote:
In front of total strangers wont you kiss me
Flowers for no reason but you miss me
Oh I want to be in love
You're standing on the doorstep in the rain
Cause you couldn't wait to see me once again
Oh I want to be in love



...I really like that...so I assume you didnt write it? (I'm kidding...its hard to be nice you know)


Melissa Ethridge did. I like her a lot, probably because of my latent lesbianism.



What album/song? I have a few of her cd's...I wouldnt mind giving it a listen.
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#73 Nov 05 2007 at 6:08 PM Rating: Decent
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Now that I'm past my ding and this thread is a bit old...

Sloppy make outs for sloppy buttsecks, Let me give you them.
#74 Nov 05 2007 at 6:10 PM Rating: Decent
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Now that I'm past my ding and this thread is a bit old...

Sloppy make outs for sloppy buttsecks, Let me give you them.


There was not any part of that post that didnt excite me.
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#75 Nov 05 2007 at 6:12 PM Rating: Decent
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I do what I can :D. Want some left over cock cake ?
#76 Nov 05 2007 at 6:21 PM Rating: Decent
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I do what I can :D. Want some left over cock cake ?


Once i have room...i just cooked the best chicken. There were no left overs.

Rotissarie Grilled Chicken: Marinated in a vegetable oil mix with a blend of herbs and spices...it was possibly better then kissing.
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Things I sometimes play...

"What do you want to be when you grow up?"
"I want to be a unicorn!"
"Awww, why's that?"........
"So I can stab people with my face."
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