Wow, BT actually made a serious post that was not laced with borderline pornographic references.
While I am late to the party Dya, let me give you my two cents:
It really depends on the why behind the refusal. Normally, the value placed on a certain act comes from our upbringing. Sometimes a kiss is just the act of sucking face for all the pleasurable experiences. Other times it is reserved for that one special person. From what he said, it seems he is more the latter type.
I'm not sure who's pitching and who's catching on your two-man team so far, but really I'd sit him down and ask for an explanation. He wants you to call him your boyfriend, a normally reserved title for a committed, intimate relationship, then turns around and says he doesn't know you well enough to suck face.
I don't know if anyone here reads
Savage Love, But I'm stealing some common advice of his:
If your Lips-On-****-But-Not-On-Mine boytoy wannabe boyfriend is not giving you the hot cherry stem twisting tonsil hockey your lips and groin want from him, confront him and get it out there. If it really is a massive issue, and it seems it is by your need to post this, then it's time to DTMFA (dump the ************* already) and find some face-sucking from a partner more willing to commit to you.
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