Well, I did regret mentioning my gender the moment I did...I normally do. If you notice, I didn't mention it at all till the third post. Should I have? Probably not, looking back. I only did it because I noticed that people were probably assuming I was male, so I simply wanted to get that out of the way before anyone told me to start, I don't know, bench pressing the computer desk or something. As much as I'd want to, I doubt I could pull that off.
You know why I get defensive? Because this isn't the first, nor will it be the last time, that people accuse someone of "attention whoring" because they mention they're female on a gaming forum. Seriously, I wasn't seeking male attention, just like-minded people to discuss this stuff with. My nerdy friends aren't fitness gurus, and my friends that are into fitness are definitely not nerdy. I don't think seeking a compromise in a gaming forum and looking for feedback from others is such a crime but all right. Also, I described myself as the "assertive *****" because that's what I am, for the most part. I'm not really a *****, but I can be...just as I'm really not girly in the slightest, though I'll admit I have my moments. No one's perfect.
I don't care about rate-downs, I'd rather people tell me to my face if they have a problem with something I'm saying, rather than clicking a little red arrow. You've expressed your problem with me, and that's fine. I've learned my lesson, I'll just forum RP a big burly male from now on and take what advice I can.
Edited for...crap.
Edited, Oct 31st 2007 3:03am by Alixana