Belkira the Tulip wrote:
In all honesty, when I'm in love, the come before me, and I'm more than happy to make sure they're satisfied before I think of myself.
As romantic as you make that sound, it just seems wrong to me. I mean, I understand that you want to make him happy and all, but wouldn't he be happier if you were enjoying yourself to your maximum potential? In my experience it's always just so much better when partners are having sex with one another, rather than to one another, if you know what I mean.
I sort have the same mentality as you, where I aim to please my lover first, but I wouldn't want to it at the detriment of my experience, because I'd like to think that would be a turn off for her, because she'd want me to right there with her.
Probably just me, though. I mean, I'd reckon I'm one of the few guys around who routinely doesn't ejaculate during intercourse, because when she is ready to quit, I'm satisfied. Doesn't mean that if her pUssy was full of acid I'd keep fUcking till she came while ignoring the flesh on my **** sloughing off, though. That's just counter-intuitive to me. It's just not what I want sex with my lover to be. I want it to be an equally enjoyable experience.
or b) the tiniest bit under when it starts to hurt so they can promise maximum pleasure to said wimminz.