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#252 Jun 24 2011 at 6:34 PM Rating: Good
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The topic of this consideration is to determine if vaginal sex primary function is for reproduction or pleasure.
Did you really just imply someone went off topic in your conversation about sex for pleasure vs sex as a function all while arguing this in a thread about a dude who claims to no longer be gay in a forum called Out Of Topic". I would say that this is the pot calling the kettle black but that is racist.
It's not like the kettle is full of grape kool aid.
But the pot was filled with fried chicken.
Was there room for the watermelon?
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#253 Jun 24 2011 at 6:34 PM Rating: Excellent
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Almalieque wrote:
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Sex is for procreation, that's why it always leads to babies.


Sex is for pleasure, that's why it's always enjoyable with anyone at anytime!!
probability of pleasure from sex > probability of baby from sex


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#254 Jun 24 2011 at 6:35 PM Rating: Default
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Tyrrant wrote:
Almalieque wrote:
The topic of this consideration is to determine if vaginal sex primary function is for reproduction or pleasure.

Did you really just imply someone went off topic in your conversation about sex for pleasure vs sex as a function all while arguing this in a thread about a dude who claims to no longer be gay in a forum called Out Of Topic". I would say that this is the pot calling the kettle black but that is racist.


It's not that it's "off topic", but the fact that it was used misused in the conversation. Besides, I did what I preached. If you have a "problem" with the direction of a topic, you say something immediately, not pages and days after the fact.
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Bardalicious wrote:
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Sex is for procreation, that's why it always leads to babies.


Sex is for pleasure, that's why it's always enjoyable with anyone at anytime!!
probability of pleasure from sex > probability of baby from sex


Sure, but:

Pleasure from sex -> More sex -> More babies from sex -> fulfillment of primary function of sexual organs (reproduction).


You honestly can't see how sexual activity being pleasurable doesn't help make more babies? It doesn't preclude pleasuring yourself in ways which don't result in babies, but it's wrong to say that the fact that sex is pleasurable somehow means that reproduction really isn't the primary function of our sex organs. It is. Doubly so (as I started in on this) from a biological perspective.
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Alas, like every Alma thread before this, and every Alma thread to come, this one must end with me (and eventually, everyone else) being unable to match his stubborness and losing interest.

Ta ta for now.
#259 Jun 24 2011 at 6:49 PM Rating: Good
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You can post that video now.

Cross thread shenanigans.
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Why couldn't you ******* lose interest 2 pages ago? ****
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You can post that video now.

Cross thread shenanigans.
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#262 Jun 24 2011 at 7:02 PM Rating: Default
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Belkira wrote:

Because good sex isn't just about ******. Do you have much sex...?


I'm sorry, I left out this question, I think I left out some others to by mistake.

This is my point, only a woman would ever say that. I have never met or known ANY guy who didn't have sex with someone they didn't love for any other reason but to bust one and/or for +1.
#263 Jun 24 2011 at 7:05 PM Rating: Good
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Spoonless the Silent wrote:
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I like turtles.
You can post that video now.

Cross thread shenanigans.
YouTube integration is almost as dumb an idea as hover-over dropdown menus, IMO.
I just hope that after the beta forum is done and they put it into action live, they separate the option to block it like pictures, avatars, signatures, and such. Currently you can block pictures, avatars, and youtube all together.
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This is my point, only a woman would ever say that. I have never met or known ANY guy who didn't have sex with someone they didn't love for any other reason but to bust one and/or for +1.
You're just not paying attention.
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#265 Jun 24 2011 at 7:39 PM Rating: Good
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God damn it Ugly and you were doing good.
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God damn it Ugly and you were doing good.
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I've learned more than I wanted to know about Alma's lack of a sex life in this thread.

Ugh.
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tl:dr: People can be sick and or handicap. To argue that an organ isn't suppose to be a certain a way is to argue against the aforementioned statement.
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Dumbass.

A. Doctors aren't biologists. Doctors are looking to maximize one specific end--they are NOT considering that end in context of nature at large, nor do they particularly care if the "goodness" of that end is subjective or objective. Furthermore, "health" itself is a HIGHLY subjective term, as all bodies are different, and how healthy a body is depends entirely on the ends you are seeking. Very simple example? In the context of most environments, sickle cell anemia is considered a terrible genetic disorder. In the context of African areas where malaria is widespread, it's considered a genetic boon, as the safeguard against disease is vastly superior to the "defects."



So, are you claiming that sickle cell in Africa isn't bad?


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B. My claim is true for the same reason that it is fallacious to claim that evolution creates "better" organisms. It largely creates organisms more symbiotic with their current ecosystems (in a sense that is highly subjective to what those organisms value for survival). That is all. Evolution might create, in ecosystem A, an immortal organism. But in context of ecosystem B, that organism might have a l day lifespan. And since ecosystem B can be a future situation of ecosystem A...

C. Most importantly, BIOLOGY doesn't have a standard of what's "normal" for humans--that is ENTIRELY a social construct. We consider high/low blood pressure abnormal because we consider a
healthy" blood pressure normal and merely define those other two in relation to it. Sure, we might use biology to give reasons why the normal zone is currently healthy for humans. But that's about all.

Making the claim that heterosexual intercourse is what is "natural" is claiming that biology has an intent for parts, and it doesn't. Humans use their parts according to their social systems, and biology doesn't give a damn what they do. Biology does not accept the idea of PURPOSES. There is no "purpose" for the ***** or ******. There are things they can and cannot do, yes. But biology honestly doesn't give a crap if you use them for heterosexual intercourse or decide to use them exclusively for performance art.

We, as a culture, could very easily decide to never use our genitals for intercourse. Sure, without the aid of science we would die off, but biology doesn't care. There is nothing "unnatural" in using our parts in whatever way we see fit. If it is biologically possible, than it is supported by biology.

D. Biology favors diversity with heed to survival of a species. There are studies that show families with gay aunts/uncles tend to produce more children. So there very well may be an evolutionary "reason" why homosexuality exists.



I'm not arguing on semantics and I think this is exactly what we are doing. At the end of the day, hearts beat, lungs expand, blood flow, etc. None of what you mentioned counters that.


We aren't arguing semantics. This is absolutely central to the understanding of Biology. There is NO WAY an organ is "supposed" to be. There is merely the way an organ IS. How that organ interacts with the body it is a part of is biology. How that organism interacts with the environment/other organisms is biology. The way the organ is is the way it is--there is no "wrong" or no "defects" where biology is concerned.

It's also incredibly important to understand that the notion of "function" is a purely human construct. Nature doesn't give a crap about functions. DO certain things function a certain way? Yes. But nature doesn't care if Ralph's ear functions like his nose. There's nothing "wrong" with that. Nature doesn't judge. It doesn't have a blue print for how things are "supposed" to be.

If your entire argument is based around the idea that the reproductive system is SUPPOSED to be used for X, then this is extremely important. It isn't semantics.

There is NO SUCH THING as a "mistake of nature." If it exists within nature, it's natural. That's really all there is to it. Guys boning guys is perfectly natural. It's only if you believe that nature is serving a higher order (usually god) that you can argue that something is a violation of nature. And that's only because you think that free will interfered with god's will. And, in that case, your argument is theistic, not biological.

And yes, sickle cell anemia is not a bad thing (with specific reference to health as valuable) if you are living in a malaria-infested area of the world without access to medicine.
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Wait, is the g-spot the whole ******, or does the ******** actually serve some biological function?

Edited, Jun 24th 2011 11:17pm by Guenny
#270 Jun 24 2011 at 10:35 PM Rating: Good
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Are you referring specifically to the G-spot or the entire ******?


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Yes, which supports the argument that there is a "time frame" to give birth. As you get older and your sex drive typically decreases, it becomes more dangerous to give birth. This time also takes place during the time of........ *gasp* Menopause... So, it wouldn't even matter anyway, because the likelihood of you getting pregnant significantly decreases.


So I guess you don't realize that around 40 or so, when a woman begins to go into menopause, they have a sex drive that rivals that of an 18 year old boy...?

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That's why food is a good analogy, overweight, unhealthy and food poison. So, how can you all of the sudden determine what's secondary to sex when you just said that they are all of the same. You can't label the good as primary and the bad as secondary.

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And yet, it's still a biological function of our sexual organs. Primary, secondary, tertiary, I don't give a sh*t. If it's a biological function, then it's "normal" by your definition.


Read above.


I have no idea what the above means. It has nothing to do with my point.

If pleasure is a biological function of our sex organs, then it is, using your definition, normal. Therefore, homosexual sex acts are normal.
#271 Jun 24 2011 at 10:39 PM Rating: Good
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Because good sex isn't just about ******. Do you have much sex...?


I'm sorry, I left out this question, I think I left out some others to by mistake.

This is my point, only a woman would ever say that. I have never met or known ANY guy who didn't have sex with someone they didn't love for any other reason but to bust one and/or for +1.


Smiley: facepalm

I obviously have to talk to you like you're a four year old.

Sex isn't just about an ******, but when I say that I don't mean that ****** isn't the eventual goal. It is also about how it feels during sex. I imagine you have met and know plenty of men who have held back an ****** just to make the sex last longer because it feels good. I imagine that doesn't happen when ************ because that's not the point of *************
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[quote]Sex isn't just about an ******, but when I say that I don't mean that ****** isn't the eventual goal. It is also about how it feels during sex. I imagine you have met and know plenty of men who have held back an ****** just to make the sex last longer because it feels good. I imagine that doesn't happen when ************ because that's not the point of *********************

Actually, it's probably extremely common with ************ too--called edging. Basically you go to the point of climax, and stop just before it. By doing that multiple times, your eventual ****** is much larger. Plus, the constant state of arousal makes the whole experience much more pleasurable.

Compliments of wikipedia.

Edited, Jun 25th 2011 1:02am by idiggory
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We aren't arguing semantics. This is absolutely central to the understanding of Biology. There is NO WAY an organ is "supposed" to be. There is merely the way an organ IS. How that organ interacts with the body it is a part of is biology. How that organism interacts with the environment/other organisms is biology. The way the organ is is the way it is--there is no "wrong" or no "defects" where biology is concerned.

It's also incredibly important to understand that the notion of "function" is a purely human construct. Nature doesn't give a crap about functions. DO certain things function a certain way? Yes. But nature doesn't care if Ralph's ear functions like his nose. There's nothing "wrong" with that. Nature doesn't judge. It doesn't have a blue print for how things are "supposed" to be.

If your entire argument is based around the idea that the reproductive system is SUPPOSED to be used for X, then this is extremely important. It isn't semantics.

There is NO SUCH THING as a "mistake of nature." If it exists within nature, it's natural. That's really all there is to it. Guys boning guys is perfectly natural. It's only if you believe that nature is serving a higher order (usually god) that you can argue that something is a violation of nature. And that's only because you think that free will interfered with god's will. And, in that case, your argument is theistic, not biological.

And yes, sickle cell anemia is not a bad thing (with specific reference to health as valuable) if you are living in a malaria-infested area of the world without access to medicine.


If we're not arguing semantics, then you're just flat out wrong. I was giving you a benefit without a doubt that maybe you were referring to something else. Sickness exist. Plain and simple. You can't deny that. Well you can, but you'll look stupid.

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Are you referring specifically to the G-spot or the entire ******?


So, are you going to answer the question or not?

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So I guess you don't realize that around 40 or so, when a woman begins to go into menopause, they have a sex drive that rivals that of an 18 year old boy...?


Nope, I didn't, but that further more supports my argument as a "last ditch effort". Get it now or forever hold your peace, because I'm quite sure women over the age of 50 (then latter end of menopause years) are not having the same feelings. Unless you're claiming that seniors are sexually driven, then you have no counter. There's a reason why Viagra exist.

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I have no idea what the above means. It has nothing to do with my point.

If pleasure is a biological function of our sex organs, then it is, using your definition, normal. Therefore, homosexual sex acts are normal.


You contradicted yourself. You first said that STDs are SECOND to sex, so they shouldn't be mentioned, but then you said that it doesn't matter if it's second or third, it's still a function. You claim that because you can receive pleasure from sex, then pleasure is a function of sex. Well, you can also receive STD's from sex. So according to you, the function of sex is STDs.

You fail to differentiate a "function" with a side effect. Everything you do will yield some feeling, rather emotional or physical. So, to act like a function of a particular action is pleasure is just silly. As I said, it feels good to use the restroom. That doesn't mean that pleasure is a function of taking a dump. Cracking my fingers feels good and I'm sure that's not good for me and even more sure that isn't a function of my bones, to be "cracked".

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I obviously have to talk to you like you're a four year old.

Sex isn't just about an ******,


When you are with someone that you don't love or care for (which was stated twice), yes it is. I hate to burst your bubble, but if you put out to a man you hardly know, he's in it for one or two reasons, to bust one or for +1, you pick.

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I imagine you have met and know plenty of men who have held back an ****** just to make the sex last longer because it feels good. I imagine that doesn't happen when ************ because that's not the point of *************


Uh, I stated in the previous page about men holding back.. While having sex does feel good, having sex and stopping before the initial bust is a horrible feeling. I would personally rather not even start if I knew ahead of time that we would stop prematurely. On the other hand, if I'm guaranteed an ******, I really don't care what happens prior to that, assuming it's a person that I don't love or care for.

While no male on this thread may openly admit to it, I'm sure that's common thinking among many men. I'm sure that there are exceptions in each case, but I believe this to be true for the most part.

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I imagine that doesn't happen when ************ because that's not the point of *************


You can come at me like that if you want, but that's reality. Take it or leave it. Women don't always have orgasms, so they don't always base sex on orgasms. Men almost always have orgasms, so not having one is usually not a good thing.

Edited, Jun 25th 2011 3:42pm by Almalieque
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If we're not arguing semantics, then you're just flat out wrong. I was giving you a benefit without a doubt that maybe you were referring to something else. Sickness exist. Plain and simple. You can't deny that. Well you can, but you'll look stupid.


Sickness does exist. My point is that it exists only with reference to a particular value set. And value sets are social constructs. There's nothing objectively bad about illness.

And this is true of all natural things. There is no objective function of the ***** or ******. There is only a massive list of possible functions, and those that we choose to make use of (whether it is a conscious choice or a consequence our biological past).
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Nilatai,

I'm not going to respond to you until you reply to my post, given the fact that my counters to your arguments are there. You're merely trying to cop out of responding to something that you have no answer to instead of admitting that you're wrong. That's cool, but I'm not going to waste my time repeating myself in the process.
Lulz. Actually I went to the pub. It seemed more constructive than countering your "arguments".

And so, I'll go against my better instincts and reply to you now...


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You can't be this incredibly dense. You're using a different definition for the same word and are now trying to counter my argument. There's numerous definitions for these words and I've stated 3 times already that I'm not concerned about the words that you use but the definition.
So your argument is basically semantic? Awesome.

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Your analogy is stupid because with the definition that I'm using, I'm using "normal" based on how our bodies operate. I've stated that already. There's no biological evidence to support that our skin tone should be a certain color. Matter of fact, your skin tone interacts with the environment that you're in. On the other hand, there's nothing but biological evidence that supports that the ***** goes in the ******.
***** also goes in the butt.

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Look, it's very simple, no one cares what you do with your organs within reason, but don't come here and pretend that "ear-sex" and "nose-sex" are normal sexual behaviors for humans. Also, just because things become more common in society, doesn't make it "normal" in the context of how our bodies operate. Just because people start doing different stuff with their bodies (i.e. planking), doesn't change any biological evidence of how our bodies operate.
So you're saying that homosexuality isn't "within reason"? That's because you're a bigot. This is why my analogy about skin colour works so well. Someone could say that Dark skin is an unnatural curse from god(Mormans for example do this), it doesn't mean that black people should be treated any differently from whites, even though some people say it's unnatural, and not normal.

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Well, you are completely wrong. That's like saying "food is for pleasure first and nutrition second". Just because you enjoy it, doesn't take away from it's primary function. Haven't you noticed the pattern? Eating food is great, it also provides nutrition. Having sex is great, it provides reproduction. Getting injured hurts, but it tells you that something is wrong with you.
No, having sex is great because it feels good. That's the stimulus we pursue, not to procreate. Otherwise we wouldn't use sex as recreation. You're an idiot if you can't see that's true.

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That's how you learn not to touch fire, the pain. You don't like it, so you stop. Your hunger and thirst is your body telling you to drink and eat. If you removed the sexual cravings and good feelings of sex, do you think people would actually have sex? If you think about it, the concept of sex is pretty disgusting, especially in a "stay a hands length away from me" society. Our urges push us into those activities and the good feelings keeps us involved.
What does this have to do with anything? If we didn't have sex for recreation we'd be driven to have it by some other biological impulse. The fact remains, some people aren't physically attracted to the opposite sex. They have intercourse with those of the same sex. This does not mean that you are allowed to treat them differently because of your own bigoted @#%^ing opinion, you disgusting excuse for a human being.

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Your claim that our organs are for pleasure first is beyond silly. We have natural feelings and urges for food, drinks and pain at/before(?) birth. Sexual urges typically don't occur till around puberty, you know when sexual arousals, menstruation, etc. occurs.

If sex were for pleasure first, then it would be part of our other feelings, such as hunger, thirst, pain, etc. at younger ages and senior ages. The simple fact that those feelings don't even occur till a child is of an older age (when you are able to give birth) and die (when you are no longer able to give birth) is pretty evident that our sexual organs are not for pleasure first.
I don't know if you have children, but males have a compulsion to play with their genitals long before puberty hits. It feels good. I assume you're still a virgin if you don't have kids though, because first and foremost people are driven to have sex for procreation, right?


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You fail at life. I used a different word to try to better explain the specific definition from the original word. Instead of grasping on that definition, you use an entirely different definition from that word. I don't know how to better explain it. I didn't want to use "normal" in the definition of "normal", but you're killing me here.

I'm referencing to "biological standards" as "common". Not, "It's common to use an umbrella in the rain", but "it's common for a fertile woman to get pregnant after sex". One is in reference to our biological body operations and another is reference to social practices. Anything and everything can be "common" under social practices, hence why your race example fails.
There's no such thing as "biological standards" you insatiable cretin.


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No, I didn't. Wait, someone brings up race in EVERY single homosexual argument as if sexuality and skin color are the same thing. Besides presenting an argument I wasn't making, the arguments that are similar and apply for apples do not apply for oranges. Ironic how people will constantly bring up racial arguments in the past but swears like it's no tomorrow that any SSM laws are not precedents to any other marriage laws.


wasn't going to bother with this post, but the last part caught my eye. Here's why SSM won't lead to things like people marrying horses:

Horses can't give consent. Neither can minors or <insert other thing you think would be ikky for people to marry here>. That's why it can't be used as a precedent for any of those things. Idiot. (Now you can answer this which I posted a few pages ago).


edit: Oh and sickle cell anaemia actually helps to protect against malaria, so yes it's a good thing.

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