No, /NIN to save yourself and not be an MP drain.
No, /party disband if the tank can't hold hate off of you when you're not being stupid about your job abilities and weapon skills. /THF post-66 if you're still having hate problems. SATA Guillotines bring a tear to my eye. The bad, Indian-staring-at-all-the-world's-pollution kind of tear.
Beyond that, Stun is just the icing on the cake, because if you're not doing close to equal (or better) damage than the 'best' DD jobs, then you're probably doing something wrong. Superior damage is the reason you invite a DRK.
If you find a mob that's impossible to hit, switch in more ACC gear. If it's still hard to hit, eat sushi. If it's still hard to hit, you're overcamping. Absorbs have their time and their place, but no absorb on any single mob is going to account for the loss of one of your swings, damage-wise, the exceptions being Abs-STR before a WS, or before you first hit the mob as it's being pulled.
Honestly, most of your post, Youngjin, was a modicum of common sense intermixed with gross amounts of extraneous (or occasionally just plain wrong) information. Given what I've seen on my own server, a lot of DRKs would be better off reading Renzou's and Lord "The City of Dis" Disifer's post before they start to whinge about how "oh, even though I only hit for 70 damage a scythe swing with 30% accuracy, I'm totally on top of things with my stuns and I was even able to sleep that one add for about 5 seconds before it woke up and the BRD had to resleep it, and then I Absorb-VIT'd and liek all the people did twice as much damage YAYZ0RZ LOLDRKZ!!!1!"
EDIT: Keep G. Sword and Scythe capped. You can cap Club and/or Dagger, too, assuming you're filthy rich, and want to go through the trouble of killing things repetitively to skill weapons just so you can be awesome every two hours...Other weapons are optional, and if someone tells you that you're better off using such-and-such weapon over scythe/g.sword/KC at, oh, I don't know, post-60?, I kindly request that you shoot them in their offensive, falsehood-spouting pieholes with a large calibre gun.
EDIT: I use Yag Drinks all the time. It means I can have ACC+5, STR+3, and Store TP+1 on my neck slot while still never running out of MP.
Here, its this guy told me this so its better than that.
Actually, this place has gotten a little better as of late, just comparing the post topics, now, compared to even two-three weeks ago. Moreover, I kind of hate going to KI because EVERY FREAKING PAGE TAKES 10 ******* MINUTES TO LOAD WITH MAH' UBAR CABLEZ INTERNETZ. NO WEBPAGE SHOULD DO THAT, EVER. That, and it sometimes reeks of that "internet troll circle-jerk" that top dogs in certain isolated web communities get going every now and then.
It has some good info if you feel like sorting through inflated egos/inflated chain-signatures...plus I can be a little less nice if I'm there compared to here. Dumb auto-censorship. D: