I live in Des Moines, Iowa; we missed this storm but generally get a good amount of snow every year.
I honestly don't understand why rear wheel drive vehicles are even sold in the midwest or other places that encounter mild-heavy snow in the winter. It makes no sense.
To those who may not understand:
When you drive a rear wheel drive (back wheels provide the power, front wheels are just "pushed") vehicle and you are driving on a slick surface when your wheels spin on ice/snow the odds are very good that your rear end will be going sideways, causing you to ditch the vehicle or have a collision.
When driving a front wheel drive vehicle on a slick surface when your wheels spin you continue forward in the same direction, turning does nothing but your back end tends to stay behind you instead of beside.
Solutions:
Rear wheel drive: try as hard as you can to never spin out, not even a little bit.
Front wheel drive: left off the accelerator until your wheels again spin at the your rate of momemtum and you will regain control.
This is not to say it works for all conditions; if you're just driving too fast and hit ice and gain control 5 feet from a parked car you're in trouble not just because you hit ice but you were driving too fast for conditions.
Ice is just a harsher condition that loose gravel or sand. (I know some people that have never driven on any of the 3 actually)
Brakes are similar. Gather momentum, slam on your brakes to lock them (only works if you don't have ABS) and no matter what way you turn the wheel your direction does not change. Let off the brakes and you should regain control. Again speed and conditions are a factor. Smooth ice with a layer of snow on top makes for some very bad driving conditions as it can be extremely difficult to keep control.
The less weight you have on your driving wheels you worse off you are. An advantage of front wheel drive is that in most American cars the engine sits right on top of the wheels, adding weight to them directly and giving more control for traction. Rear wheel drive light pick up trucks with no weight in the back can end up being a heck of a lot of fun when spinning in parking lots but can be a major pain to attempt to drive home afterwards due to little traction.
Thanks for listening to my rant and I hope you make it through your crisis with minimal problems.