taddpole wrote:
Sure you can solo a bunch of stuff by why? The gear you get from it is outdated anyway. Bottom line the community in this game is lazy as hell they and extremely rude.
Sounds like you're the rude and lazy one. People do play with others but generally, it's a give and take. I can't disagree with anyone who doesn't want to spend hours helping someone who will give up and quit the game/badmouth the community the moment people don't handhold them through to the very best gear.
I've been soloing my thf lately, even soloed BCNM to get a better dagger cause the ones on the AH were not that great. It's a level 60-odd dagger so yeah its "outdated" but for now it's cool to use when I'm out derping around, causing havoc among mobs and generally having a relaxing time. The point of playing a game is to PLAY it.
If you're looking for a game/community where people will power-level you to end game immediately, and outfit you with the best gear on THEIR time you're never going to find one. I've never ever ever played an MMO where people didn't expect you to do your own work before asking for help. In my experience FFXI has a super helpful community, but yeah, there is an expectation that you will do what you can to help others as well.
Example: "Hey what are you two doing in La Thiene"
"Oh we're popping VNMs to unlock our empy WS"
"Mind if I drop in and help out?"
"We're good, but you're welcome to come."
Then wow, all of the sudden you're hanging out with people, while they do their thing. Maybe you're not much help - maybe you are. But while you're there you're part of the game, part of the community, and part of the linkshell - not just some words in a blue box crying for people to carry you. People want to help those who are social and friendly. No wonder you had trouble.