Returning to FFXI and need adviceFollow

Hello, a friend and I are returning to FFXI after about two years off and have no idea what to start with, we both have at least one or two jobs around 90 but otherwise aren't really sure where do get started or what we need to do. Is there anyone out there who is willing to offer some advice or a linkshell to help us get settled back into the game and established in a game community. We are both on the lakshmi server so anyone that could offer some kind of help or advice would be greatly appreciated! Thanks.