People have, even to today, kept bringing "new" things up. Some of these things make sense, some don't.
The translation IS important to the thread. In fact, the Translation is the PURPOSE of this thread. So let's give it again:
Japanese (Romaji): Kharon wa anata wo jitto mitsumeta.
Translation: Kharon stares intently at you.
NA Release: Kharon examines you.
A good number of you have said "If you think it's rude, turn it off." Okay, I think it's rude for people to stare at me, so I should ignore it and pretend it doesn't happen? Well, I happen to consider staring rude, which must simply be the way I was brought up because nobody else finds it rude to be closely examined or stared at by passersby. I'm the deviant here, so I should pretend people don't stare at me just because I find it rude, and should turn off the System Level 1 messages so I can better ignore it.
Please, let me pull a quote from "The Bilingual Website of FFXI". This one happens to be from their etiquette and manners guide, with the English slightly clarified:
Quote:
1. Before You EXAMINE (/check) Someone
If you wish to check the equipment another person is using, please be considerate and ask them in advance if you may check it. They may feel embarassed if they are examined suddenly.
* If you simply wish to know someone's job or what level that person has attained, use the command "/sea all <t>". By doing this, you can see the targetted person's character information, excepting equipment, without making it know that you have done so. This is preferable, as they will not feel embarassed if you check them in this way.
"They may feel embarassed". This is not simply a game, it is a ROLE-PLAYING game. That means that some of the players are totally or mostly in-character while they play, and as such will emulate the emotional responses of their character. If someone is staring at You, how would You respond? You might be embarassed, you might blush, you might be upset at the rudeness of being stared at... there are MANY ways you might react to Me staring at You.
"So turn the filter on to block System Level 1, Kharon."
Wait! Just because I don't like people staring at me doesn't mean I don't want to know about it. Also, you have probably just mispronounced my name, which is a major faux pas, but one I can easily overlook since I can't hear you and thus have no idea that it's happening, and have accepted that people usually mispronounce it. I can get over the fact that being stared at is rude, and simply accept that it happens, but that doesn't mean I've decided to like it.
Checking is a two-edged sword. It can be used to good purposes, such as making sure your Tank isn't in severely gimped armor, or that her sub-job is appropriately leveled. It can also be used to judge, though, and make people feel bad when you say, "Oh, you don't have X item, you should really have it" as has been reported by people in this thread. Some newbies may also use it to find high-level characters and attempt to coerce them into handouts, PL, or whatnot. My BLM/RDM friend goes {/anon} much of the time simply so people don't ask him for a PL or Warp II all of the time.
"Well, if a few players don't like it, tough, they should adapt."
Hang on. Here's a nice idea: Don't /check people unless you have a reason to. A Bazaar is a reason to /check, and so is check PT equipment on a vital character such as your Tank. But we also have a report that a Japanese party NEVER ONCE checked their NA player. They took it on faith that the gear was good enough for the level range, and so they greeted, ate, and fought mobs. Try to keep in mind that these Japanese players were here first, and the North American and European players are the "invaders" into their Vana'diel. They set up a functional economy which we're hard at work destroying, and they laid the groundwork for all of the rules of social interaction within Vana'diel.
To a person within Vana'diel, there is a very real stare every time they are examined, and so to a Role-player and his character that stare is treated as real, and thus rude. If you are not a role-player, that's great, but bear in mind that some of the players are role-players, and some of the players are offended by /check (whether they are role-players or not). It is not society's place to accept the eccentricities of one person, but it IS the place of an individual to respect the desires of those individuals they interact with. So play the game not as a society, but as an individual, and keep that in mind.
~ Kharon the Hunter
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