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Wanna come to a ho-tel party? I admit its pretty damn degenerate. But its all in good sloppy fun. We have a great time. And who are you to judge allmighty saviour? He said he was watching them through the door, whats wrong with umm, say CLOSING the door? Its his room too. and Btw Wrip is a damn good boy and the rest of you suck cept Bart because I love Bart.

Btw, I demand all of you to watch me sex my teddy bear via webcam!

Alright Nuz. I'm not arguing anymore, since you yourself admit it to be somewhat degenerate, I'm simply pointing out something based on what I read that I feel is contrary to what you have just posted.



Now, having lived in a one room dorm room, I took that as, they are having sex, in the same one room as shao and they are right near the only door out of the room, thus making shao to uncomfortable to get up and leave. The way I read the post, I didn't think he was watching through the door, and he himself was in a seperate room. That would just be ******** and I'd agree with everyone, close the door. If you have seperate rooms there is definitly no problem with your roomate getting laid. I lived in a single room dorm, my girlfriend lived in a suite. We just closed the door to her bedroom when other people were around, but if anyone else was in the bedroom (all 3 people shared one bedroom, one study area, one living room and one bathroom) we wouldn't go at it. I was thinking Shao was in a one room situation. The way he posted is pretty inconclusive so I can't say either of us is wrong.

Well, I'm absolutely shocked at YOUR reply.. While I agree that it is disrespecftul that they got it on in front of them, I also find you attacking men as such very disrespectful, too.

Why? Not because I'm just a guy, but comments such as "Guys sleep with girls they don't respect. Is this really how men are?", are a total insult to those who are not like the others..

Do I sleep with girls I don't respect? Hell no.. It's either in a relationship sex, or not at all. A guy thing? Open your eyes, and look and see those who stay away from girls because of stupid *** comments such as those, which make them not even want to try, because they see your comment, and a woman might think they just want sex...

Hell, maybe it's just me, but that **** is very offensive to me, and I think you should think twice before you post some ******** like that..

/end rant..

Love your way with words, though, Bar, lol. No offense to Wrip, I'm friends with you as well.. Have at it some more, people. :P

This Taru is done..

~Nieko

Edited, Fri Jan 13 12:05:00 2006 by Nieko

Edited, Fri Jan 13 12:01:43 2006 by Nieko

Simply because you're female? No.. As I said, Shao should have said/done something. But the fact that you just say guy/men, is an in general term, which would include me because I AM a guy.. Would it not?



My offense is simply that you stated men in general, if you did not see. Perhaps I was a bit over-reactive, and if I was, I do apologize. But being a 'guy different from the rest,' seeing men used in a general term, therefor stating all guys, is a degrading remark on those who try to be different, to show not all men are the same, same as with women, which is why I don't attack a sex/race in general.

I'm not sexist, I'm not racist, and why you'd think I'd call out on this because you're female, is beyond me..

I've had crap like that happen before, and now it tends to **** me off. So, again, sorry if I over-reacted, but I felt it should be known..

~Nieko

I'm shocked at both of you. You realize this is an internet forum about a video game?

Measured responses with empathetic and even {gulp} conciliatory overtures have no place here. Out with you, and your damnable maturity!

Sheesh.

i was actually thinking this... for once, two people settled something in a mature and respectable manner. should be more people like you two out on these forums

Never in my life have I ever had to goto shady extremes to get laid. That doesn't mean sometimes people don't have to. And really was it shady? I mean they are in college. I'm sure he's strapped for cash so he can't afford a motel, maybe he doesn't even have a car. He wants to go back to HIS room with a girl. He probably thinks Shao is sleeping. No big deal. So shao wasn't sleeping, and the guy got laid. Shao ran like a little girl to a message board and posted for the public. I'm sure his ex room mate if he ever had one would be really pleased to see this. Shao would probably have to use his ninja stealth moves to avoid getting a serious ***-whipping.

Bris the term ****-block is a very factual term created by man. It refers to a time when fellow man is blatantly inhibiting anothers chance at getting laid. It happens much more than you would think and is becoming a serious problem. If something is not done about the recent craze in blocking teh **** then many many men will be left with a dirty magazine and some lube.

I'm not going to come out here and say that you're attacking men, or that you're wrong about some of the things that you said.

For this part I ask that those of you who read this do not karma-bomb me. I'm just stating the truth. It may not be what I condone, but it is the truth and I don't feel that I should be rated down for giving an honest summary from a guys stand-point.

It IS a double standard. If a girl brings home a guy, and a situation like Shaos happened. Then the girl would say something no doubt.

However it never really bothers guys. For some reason, one that I don't know. It's kinda weird to have my boy getting it on in the same room but it doesn't offend me, or make me want to do something stupid like bang on the wall, or smack her on the rear end. It's like an unspoken guy code. You let them be. Any other guy here who is being honest and isn't going to try and make themselves look better than me will agree.

It's the same double standard that girls sleep or are seen with a few different guys get the label of being easy. However if a guy is sleeping or has been seen with different girls he is smooth. Some things that are offensive and/or morally wrong for girls might not be for guys.

As far as the guys sleeping with girls they don't respect it goes both ways. There are girls that sleep with guys they don't respect. Is it wrong? Who am I to say? It may not be my way of life now but i'm not going to say in the past I haven't slept with someone just to get laid. It happens. You goto a club, a bar, hell bowling. You see a girl, you talk with her, you mutually know it's not going any further than the one night. And you two sleep together. Is it sleazy? That is total opinion. And it's not the fact that I didn't respect her, I did. I just didn't know her and we both wanted to get laid. I didn't force her, or talk her into doing anything. If she would have said no, I'm like like 99.9% of other guys I would have respected her enough to back off.

Bris I've known you for a loooong time. We've been good friends for a loooooong time. I know you would never put yourself in a situation like that, I know you are a strong woman with strong moral values. Just realize that not everyone is like you, and it is totally unfair to judge people by calling them trashy and sleazy just because you don't agree with a situation they were in. I recall us having a conversation way back when about judging people. Where you yelled at me for doing this. Just try to understand that just because someone is living a lifestyle that you don't agree with it's not ok to label them trashy. Especially since you don't know their story.

That's all.

I like how you're talking like one of the celebrities trying to support Global Warming or something like that. Nice melodrama ^^.

FOr the record

I think Harry Potter leans more towards kids movie, but I liked them all either way anyway >.>

I think J.K. Rowling will surprise us a bit with the next one... She's spent the past 6 books adding sublime details in each one that you probably don't remember. I believe in the 7th book she's going to string them all together for a pretty "f'n a" conclusion.

Or she could just do it the cool way and have Voldemort kill Harry and the world enters a thousand year reign of death and destruction.

I see handling this in two ways.

Aggressive: Get up, tell them to find another room and then leave so they can finish, confront him about it the next day/when they're done, then give your oppinion on the matter.

Passive: Lay in bed not moving or get up and sleep in the bathroom or something and then confront him about it the next day. If I were in the situation I'd ask he either give you a warning or shag in the girl's room.

I got a buddy in collage that had that problem, his friend was shagging in the same room as him but Jeff was a reefer head, and his roomie didn't say anything when he smoked in the room. So he used it as a bargaining chip, the roomie doesn't have any late-night booty calls, and Jeff kept his reefer unlit in the room.

Plus Shao hasn't responded because he only gets 2 days of the week to be on. Shao dude you should talk to the System Admin, most the time they'll open the right ports for you. It's mainly to prevent file sharing using the schools storage space whilst on campus.

imo, no book (with the exception of the obvious...by this i mean dr suess obviously kids, and zane obviously adult etc) can really be called either "kids book" or "adult book." they are for those who enjoy reading.

and nuzo, you actually LIKED the movies?? lol, the first and second ones were the only movies that did the book credit, imo. and good lord the goblet of fire movie sucked ***

Shahla you couldn't be farther from the truth about me. I'm anything but stereotypical. I just have a small opinion that sex is private and unless consent is given should remain so- otherwise it's disrespectful and that's never okay. Shao's post made it sound like he didn't welcome this intrusion which would mean consent wasn't given. Hey if Shao didn't care about it and was completely okay with it that's another story. But the fact that he made a post asking for opinions on what to do says he wasn't.



None of my posts were about this. I have not spoken out against one night stands at all; that's something between whoever is involved that is once again a private decision and doesn't involve other people who don't want to be. My posts were about the fact that they were having sex in the same room as Shao when he did not want them to and he was told not to bother them at his own expense bc then he would be a "cockblocker". In fact that is really all I spoke about; none of my posts mention anything else other than the "cockblocker" issue and the fact that his roommate and that girl would have sex right in front of someone who, once again, didn't want them to. If there had been prior consent or Shao didn't care then there would be no issue.

I don't know how I can make myself clearer. Hopefully this is enough to get people off my back about things I wasn't even talking about.



Edited, Wed Jan 18 00:27:03 2006 by Briseia