(Deima, by the way)
Obviously, I've never posted here before, although I have had an account. I just never found a reason to post until now.
It makes me sick and sad to see all of this verbal vomit being flung back and forth. However, I still feel the need to put in my two cents.
Aphro:
I'm sorry you were removed from the LS. Honestly, though, you were warned multiple times. You could be a really nice guy, but your temper was unrivaled, and bluntly put, unbareable.
When I first met you, I was absolutely disgusted with your display of anger and immaturity. You say "it's just a game" but you yourself, by far, had the worst reactions to the smallest things.
However, once I permanently entered Aurora, I found that you could be quite helpful and thoughtful. Even when you weren't directly aiding anyone, you were giving us tons of entertainment with your accent (no offense).
I actually came to like you, and let go of my first-impression of you, which is really rare, considering how stubborn I am.
Then the LS started doing more endgame content. And we used WAR/NIN tanks, not PLD tanks. I believe this is when the tantrums and the vile language got to its worst.
I remember being at one of the god runs, and my face physically turned red from embarassment at some of the things you said after dying to Genbu. I felt that it was uncalled for, and something others shouldn't have been subject to.
At that point, I had hoped that you were just going through a rough time (everyone knows my mouth gets filthy when I'm stressed ><), but the language and the animosity only worsened. A part of me was sad to see you have to leave, but a stronger part of me was glad to not have to bystand anymore unreasonable verbal attacks.
Even after you were removed from the Linkshell, I had hoped you could leave gracefully, and maybe keep good contacts within the shell. This is why I felt the need to respond here. I was severely dissapointed, and further saddened by your actions against the shell.
I guess my overall point is, you can be a great guy, but in my humble opinion, I think you would do better to keep your temper in check. This isn't just for in-game relations, but also in your daily life. You'll find that if you control your anger better, people will find you more pleasant to be around.
Please take this to heart, and be the Aphro that everyone liked.
Best Wishes,
~Deima