[Lui uses Call Beast. SoapboxSheep appears. Lui gets on top.]
To start, I love you all, and this is not directed as a personal attack to everyone, but my summation of attitudes about peoples' opinions of HNMLS's and response to Hiptaru's decision to make this post.
Hiptaru's application is posted in a public forum at ArchDynamis, anyone can go read it, and his reaction to being denied. It would be pretty obvious to anyone who comes to our forums that this post is a direct reaction to him being declined. The reply is not off-topic, because he is (in my opinion) coming back to his "safe" friends in Allakhazam to back up his opinions so he can feel justified in his reaction. That is not to say there is anything wrong with the people who post on Allakhazam, but a majority of them are not in HNMLS's, and do not understand the processes that a linkshell goes through in accepting members to their fold and maintaining a membership that will ensure the welfare and continuing prosperity of the linkshell. This is probably a really bad example, but it's like when you were a kid and the church told you that all of these things were bad and you shouldn't do them, but when you grow up? You realize that it was an opinion of one person, and you cannot understand the consequences of your actions until you experience them yourself. When I was a low level, I never thought highly of the higher level linkshells because I never thought I would qualify to participate in one. So they're bad bad bad bad bad, but lo and behold, I eventually reached a level where I can make a contribution, and what did I learn? If anything, the people who have reached this level in the game have a devoted respect to it, and most every one of them has a maturity that draws me in. I can't speak for others, but FFXI is a hobby of mine that I like spending time on, and want to be able to mature within it to the best of my ability. I've been on both sides of the coin, and I can say that until you've truly been involved in a HNMLS experience, then you have no right to say anything bad [This of course, will not stop people from saying bad things who do not meet this critiera]. Sure there are the bad eggs out there who aren't understanding enough to cope with this level of playing(anyone remember Calima?), every group of people is going to have them. To the poster who said that applying for linkshell's is stupid, then you must have by some act of God been allowed into a linkshell that magically has a good group of people.
My reaction to Hiptaru's post can be seen in the AD forums. All I can say is that someone who has to seek the opinions of others to know more about themself, probably doesn't know himself well enough to begin with. We all strive to seek who we truly are, but if you listen to what everyone tells you, then you're never going to know who to believe. That is why you must believe in yourself and work for yourself, and remember that the only opinion that matters is your own, as long as you respect the rights of others. It is hard for me to believe that Hiptaru is posting this solely to identify what people think of him. If he wanted to know that, he didn't even need to list the reasons he was declined. Furthermore, I doubt this post is going to have a direct effect on anything he ever does. Just as he will be better to apply to other LS's to further goals, so to will we look to better applicants in the future. It's a two-way street.
[Lui casts Fire IV on the SoapboxSheep]