So I sent a tell to someone who had been offering a Beadeaux coffer key party, Crezto (PLD67). He agrees, and I head out to where they were fighting already, and we fight for like 4-5 hours. The alliance is dwindling, most people have said "10 min" or "3 more fights", and finally a key drop. I predicably lose the lot (congrats, Castortroy), and we decide to push our luck on a few more fights, since many times when it rains keys it pours. Two or three mobs later, while pulling a sapphire, Crezto has a 3-quadav link, and the sapphire casts sleepga. Crezto, after getting slapped awake, uses invincible (good idea), then uses an instant warp scroll, saying he'll be back (questionable idea, and pretty much the point of this post).
Luckily, I hadn't touched any of them, so I disbanded after that, woke up naturally right before the only other living person got hate (Castortroy, the guy who beat me by a solid 600 on the key lot ;;), used a sneak oil, and started running in A direction. Past an afflictor, CastorTroy is next to me and links another 3 quads. I keep running and, to my surprise, hit the qulun dome zone. Castortroy didn't join me there, and i was disbanded so i didn't see what happened. But I assume I was the only survivor of the massacre, as the lowest lvl there.
I managed to get an escape from a VERY COOL (^^) 71RDM/35BLM hanging out in qulun, and logged in pashhow happy not to be dead, and annoyed that it went down this way.
2 questions about etiquette then:
a) should the highest lvl in the group, and a pld, have used invincible purely to save his own *** with a warp scroll?
b) was I wrong for disbanding immediately after 3 people died and running for the zone with sneak up?
either way, i hope i didn't **** him off too much, and if they're heading back, despite this episode, i'd take the offer happily. Such is the desperation of Beadeaux.