This'll be fun!
First let me say, I love my family no matter what.
My mother is married to a guy who is embarrased by my relatives, he has never quite goten along with my brother, and him and I have literlay goten into a fist fight.
My brother (28) is bringing his ex/girlfriend and her children. She is 45, with a 25 year old son, and a 21 year old daughter. The daughter just happens to like to steal anything she can find.
My Grandma has lost 2 children and a husband, as much as I love her, she has nothing nice to say any more, often conversations with her end up in tears for everyone.
Now, my Aunt and Uncle are alcoholics in the largest sense of the word. For some reason, they decided they want to host Thanksgiving and Christmas this year. In the past few years, we didn't get together, but for some reason my Aunt decided she wanted to play hostess.
For thanksgiving, the food was near horrible, and there was an ash tray next to the turkey. My aunt and uncle were drunk before 1:00 PM. My brother and I spent our time in a section of the hous we nominated as the "Non-Smoking" section. My brothers girlfriends daughter has a 6 month old child, and we thought it best he didn't 2nd hand smoke a few packs on Thanksgiving.
And also, for some reason, I got the opportunity to take my Grandmother home, who then cornered me, and questioned me about the loss of my father and grandfather until I was in tears.
The following week, I found out from my Mother that her Husband was "Hurt" that we didn't spend time with him on thanksgiving, so for Christmas, were expected to cut through the clouds of smoke and spend some time with a guy who we dont like, doesn't like us, in order to make my mother happy.
I would deem this event the Disfunctional-family get together.
But no matter what, it is the holiday season, I do love most of them, and I wouldn't trade the opportunity to be together with them all for anything!
Happy Holidays!