Reading an article from John Cheese on Cracked.com got me thinking about marriage. Being recently (and voluntarily) single myself, I've been trying to figure out what I want myself to be and what I want in a girlfriend. I've had several relationships, some a few years long, but I've never really come to the moment of thinking "NOW is the right time to pop the question!" Primarily it seems like that's due to dating students; it always seems like marriage is what you do "after school is over," not while it's going on. But do folks here have specific conditions that they had to meet before tying the knot?
The author gave his idea of 5 criteria:
#5. You Don't Have to Impress Each Other
#4. You Have Learned How to Trust
#3. You Become Friends (at Some Point)
#2. Neither of You is in Debt to the Other
#1. You Are Truly Grasping What "Forever" Means
Looking at those I can see how I fell short in my most serious relationships. But then again in my longest relationship I fulfilled all of those and still got dumped well before marriage came about (we were pretty young though; 17-20). It makes me think there are others:
You need to be attracted to the other person
You have to have the same (or at least parallel) goals in life... although that might fall under #5
But not sure what else. So, question to the crowd: how do you know it's right, and did any of these criteria apply to you?
Edit: Article is probably NSFW.
Edited, Sep 22nd 2011 9:44am by LockeColeMA