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#1 Sep 10 2011 at 12:14 AM Rating: Good
I'm pretty sure I'm about five years late on all of this, but I finally moved out of my parents' house. Well, it wasn't entirely my idea, and the timing kinda sucked due to external consequence, but now that I'm through the initial freakout stage (and coming to terms that I'm 1700 miles away from home) I'm really starting to enjoy myself.

In any case, I'm no longer living in North Carolina. I'm now living in Boulder, Colorado, and I think this is the best place in the country I could end up for holistic medicine, which is what I have been attempting to pursue for the past few years.

So when did you move out of the house? And why? Did you finally get sick of your parents? Fall in love with a girl/boy? Help a friend out by rescuing them from an abusive relationship?

Also, long time, no talk, OoT, it's good to post again.
#2 Sep 10 2011 at 12:29 AM Rating: Good
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Quick, go see if there's a brown duck buried on your property.

I moved out when I was 18 or 19, only to move back in for half a year or so when I was 21, then moved back out for good and I've never looked back.
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#3 Sep 10 2011 at 1:04 AM Rating: Excellent
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I was in Dorms during college, but I'd come back to my parents for the summers. After I Graduated I moved to Houston for a job, got my first appartment there where I stayed for 3 years. On a side note, never go to, live in, or visit Houston. Then I spent another 3 years in an appartment in Vancouver after I moved back to this general area, then about a year and a half ago I purchased my first house.

I do regret not getting a house earlier, though with the housing market fluctuations, I neded up buying at pretty near the ideal time apperently, so waiting was probably good in the long run.
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#4 Sep 10 2011 at 1:23 AM Rating: Decent
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The first time: Three days after graduating I moved in with friends in another town, that lasted a few months until they drove me crazy.

The second time: I got an apartment with a coworker, he got married so I got to keep the apartment. That lasted for about 5 years, until my dad died then I moved to San Fransisco. Six months after that my grandmother got sick so I was asked to come home.

Third time: My friend was renting a duplex with some people, they got flooded and had to move so I stayed with them for a week to help. I ended up pretending to be a flood victim myself to get a free 3-month rent deal and a voucher for a furniture store from the Red Cross. (That was what started my life of sin, eventually leading me to work at the **** store).

When/If the Fourth time ever happens, I'll let you know. Anyway grats on your independence.
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#5 Sep 10 2011 at 1:36 AM Rating: Good
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For clarity, though; 8 years later my mom moved in with me and the wife for 6 months, which really doesn't count.
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#6 Sep 10 2011 at 1:46 AM Rating: Good
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First time at 17 which was, well... lets say it was a failure.
Next time was at 22 and so far it's going pretty well and I'm happy to be where I am. And never moving back in with either of my parents, my relationship with both of them is better now than it's ever been.
#7 Sep 10 2011 at 4:43 AM Rating: Good
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I moved out when I was 16yrs old. A friends grandma had a little garage apartment for rent and my home life was ****. I stayed gone up until about 2mo ago. It's been... different living here again. I am not going to be here long though. A friend and I are looking for a house together.
#8 Sep 10 2011 at 5:31 AM Rating: Good
I moved out when I was 21. Truth be told, I'd like to move back in for a year or so and just save up a ton of money so that I could make a fat down payment on a home.
#9 Sep 10 2011 at 5:48 AM Rating: Good
Moving out is a good feeling. I stayed on campus during college, then stayed with my parents for about 3 months before moving out. I stayed in town for medical school but live on the other side of town from them now. Still visit once every week or two though (free meals!).
#10 Sep 10 2011 at 6:40 AM Rating: Excellent
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I moved out the week after my 21st birthday. I had no ******* clue how to do any sort of housework/cleaning/lawncare/etc and it was pretty awful for a while. I remember taking clothes to the washing machine and thinking "what now?" while I stared at it. My house was a wreck for a very long time.
#11 Sep 10 2011 at 8:05 AM Rating: Decent
I moved out when i was 18 years old and lived in above a garage apartment for about 3 years then i ended up buying a house where i live now. I'm thinking about building a house I've got the land for it now, but i just need to have a buyer for this house and get a loan to break ground. When i moved out of my parents house i had my best friend for a roommate so it was alot of fun and i did most of the cleaning when i lived with my parents so it wasn't a big change.
#12 Sep 10 2011 at 1:31 PM Rating: Excellent
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I moved out the week after my 21st birthday. I had no @#%^ing clue how to do any sort of housework/cleaning/lawncare/etc and it was pretty awful for a while. I remember taking clothes to the washing machine and thinking "what now?" while I stared at it. My house was a wreck for a very long time.

And this is why I'm trying so hard to get my son to do more around the house Smiley: lol

I moved out when I was 20. Moved back at 21 for a couple of months, then back out again. And 2 years ago, the husband and I had some financial issues so we had to move in with my parents for about 4 months. That was hell.
#13 Sep 10 2011 at 6:02 PM Rating: Good
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I moved out when I was 24, which is two years ago. I decided it was time to move closer to my school, both to save money and time. I'd already been away from my home for almost two years by then, though, having studied at a boarding school type thing on another island for a year, and served some time in the army on the peninsula.

Never really had any issues with my parents, but what little issues I did have completely evaporated once I started seeing them less often. Plus, I've come to appreciate being able to just do whatever the hell I want, whenever the hell I want. I have no intention of moving back in with the folks unless something bad happens.

I visit them a couple of times a month, though. I live something like 15 miles from them, which is halfway across the island. Small country, etc. 1700 miles is quite a distance, yikes.

Edited, Sep 11th 2011 2:03am by Mazra
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#14 Sep 10 2011 at 7:02 PM Rating: Good
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I never moved out, my parents did. I was 26, it was a year or so ago. Last August if I remember correctly.

Me living with my parents was mutually beneficial. My mother was sick for many years, various cancers, etc. My father worked, but didn't make much, I made almost double him. I paid property taxes, insurance, etc. The house was in my name. Everything my parents made went to medical bills (Specialists don't work the same way as Emergency Rooms).

The doctors finally found out what was wrong with my mom, and she's relatively healthy now. They decided to move out, and after a short stay with me again earlier this year, they now live in an apartment attached to my grandmother's house. My dad's old job is finally starting to get back off the ground again, he worked in a lumber yard that focused on cabinetry and other housing related wood products. So when the housing market crashed, his job went down the drain.

They only live about 4 miles away from me, so I still see them every week, usually have dinner on the weekends. Currently with my basement renovation, my dad is working with me on the weekends to start/finish that. We are working on framing this weekend. I think we'll get the walls framed, and next weekend start working on covering them. It's the one reason my dad kept a relatively low paying job with little benefits. Since he works at a lumberyard, he gets wood and tools to use just about for free. It's going to look nice when we are done.

I've always been close to my parents, never really had an issue with them. My parents were the same way with theirs, and once my father left the Navy, he moved back to his hometown (with us in tow).
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#15 Sep 10 2011 at 7:23 PM Rating: Good
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I've been in dorms for the past 3 years, but now I have an apartment. I was at my parents' for about 3 weeks last month, and it was pure torture. You don't realize how quickly you will get used to managing your own space.
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#16 Sep 10 2011 at 8:19 PM Rating: Good
18, to the dorms. Never spent more than one night at my parent's house after that.
#17 Sep 10 2011 at 8:28 PM Rating: Excellent
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Paradox wrote:
holistic medicine, which is what I have been attempting to pursue for the past few years.
Have fun slowly killing people with your pseudoscience and snake-oils.
#18 Sep 10 2011 at 8:29 PM Rating: Decent
I moved out when I was 17, directly into an apartment with my then fiance / now ex-wife. I learned some pretty hard lessons early on, but if I could do it all again, I wouldn't change a thing.
#19 Sep 10 2011 at 8:37 PM Rating: Good
Bardalicious wrote:
Paradox wrote:
holistic medicine, which is what I have been attempting to pursue for the past few years.
Have fun slowly killing people with your pseudoscience and snake-oils.


Interestingly, one of the major hospitals around here has a "Mind Body Institute" where holistic medicine is practiced in conjunction with modern medicine. Yoga, massage therapy, even acupuncture. I think they realize if people are willing to pay $$$ for placebos, might as well indulge them so long as they're getting the actual working treatment at the same time.
#20 Sep 10 2011 at 11:27 PM Rating: Decent
Bardalicious wrote:
Paradox wrote:
holistic medicine, which is what I have been attempting to pursue for the past few years.
Have fun slowly killing people with your pseudoscience and snake-oils.


Heh, to clarify and, without getting into a long-winded debate, I don't mean "holistic medicine" in the sense of acupuncture/acupressure, homeostasis etc., I mean herbal remedies.
#21 Sep 10 2011 at 11:48 PM Rating: Good
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21, still live with my grandparents because seeing all of my friends be poor and in debt kind of sucks. So, I'm going to live at home until I finish college, find a decent job and save for as long as I can. They're fairly lenient as long as I'm respectful, and usually out of town on the weekends, anyway, so it's not bad at all.

It's not complete and total freedom, but I honestly like their company. I'm going to miss them. Smiley: frown

Edited, Sep 11th 2011 12:49am by Sweetums
#22 Sep 10 2011 at 11:59 PM Rating: Excellent
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Paradox wrote:
Bardalicious wrote:
Paradox wrote:
holistic medicine, which is what I have been attempting to pursue for the past few years.
Have fun slowly killing people with your pseudoscience and snake-oils.


Heh, to clarify and, without getting into a long-winded debate, I don't mean "holistic medicine" in the sense of acupuncture/acupressure, homeostasis etc., I mean herbal remedies.
So is this using plants with the same active ingredients as pharmaceuticals but with dosages that aren't as precise or controllable, or just a euphemism for marijuana?

Edited, Sep 11th 2011 1:00am by Sweetums
#23 Sep 11 2011 at 12:32 AM Rating: Good
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Paradox wrote:
Bardalicious wrote:
Paradox wrote:
holistic medicine, which is what I have been attempting to pursue for the past few years.
Have fun slowly killing people with your pseudoscience and snake-oils.


Heh, to clarify and, without getting into a long-winded debate, I don't mean "holistic medicine" in the sense of acupuncture/acupressure, homeostasis etc., I mean herbal remedies.
my comment still stands.
#24 Sep 11 2011 at 1:40 AM Rating: Decent
Sweetums wrote:
Paradox wrote:
Bardalicious wrote:
Paradox wrote:
holistic medicine, which is what I have been attempting to pursue for the past few years.
Have fun slowly killing people with your pseudoscience and snake-oils.


Heh, to clarify and, without getting into a long-winded debate, I don't mean "holistic medicine" in the sense of acupuncture/acupressure, homeostasis etc., I mean herbal remedies.
So is this using plants with the same active ingredients as pharmaceuticals but with dosages that aren't as precise or controllable, or just a euphemism for marijuana?

Edited, Sep 11th 2011 1:00am by Sweetums


More of the former than the latter. =p

Not a big fan of marijuana.
#25 Sep 11 2011 at 2:51 AM Rating: Decent
I moved out and in several times between the age of 19 (when I started my first year of college) and 24. When I finally moved out (hopefully for the last time) it was to come back up to finish my degree. I love my mom dearly, but it's definitely rough living with her. She's passive aggressive and controlling. She's gotten better about the controlling issues as I've gotten older, but still not great. Hell, even now that I'm 28 and live on my own, she tries to manipulate me to get me to do what she wants... namely breaking up with my boyfriend, which isn't happening.
#26 Sep 11 2011 at 3:40 AM Rating: Good
February this year. I'm 24.
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