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That about sums up my life at this point. I think you got it all.

Yes, I am Bi-Polar, although I don't really see what my mental illness has to do with this. I take my medication regularly, go to group therapy and one-on-one, and have been a stable contributing member of society for 6yrs now.

No, I am not going to provide pictures or this tape.

No, I am not a tranny. That is Talimon's gig, not mine. I am all woman and have been since birth.

I am not infertile, I got pregnant once before and that's how I found out having kids would damn near end my life. I cannot physically have kids if I want to keep living.

No, I have not talked to his father. I have been trying to keep as far away from that man as possible since the night it happened. If I come to a point where I feel I can sit down with him and talk about it without flipping out, I will. I am not at that point yet.

I don't crave attention. I come on here to vent about certain aspects of my life, just like everyone else. I come on here to get an outside opinion and advice about things that are going wrong. Not all of my life is about drama and maybe I should get on here and post when things are good to give y'all a better view about me and my life. Take today for instance. Today was a great day. I spent the morning hanging out with friends, spent the afternoon watching movies and cuddling on the couch with my husband, spent the evening visiting with his grandparents that are in town for the weekend. We went out to eat, had a couple of drinks, played board games, and went swimming at their hotel pool. I have more normal days than I don't, it just seems when things are bad they are REALLY bad and that's when I come to y'all.

You're right. That was a generalization. I apologize.

You should do a backflip kick like Martial/Forest Law in Tekken.

Since you said that things have been going downhill and getting worse. I think it's time to have the both of you see a counselor or the therapist. If he's completely unwilling then dump him and move on. Also, your situation remindes me of my oldest sister and what happened to her. Things got strange and Hubby was acting different. When she cornered him he admitted to having an affair at that time. Then she tossed his butt out of the house and divorced him.

De;va I hear you. I haven't got any advice that wouldn't be the pot calling the kettle black. So all I can say is yup, totally creepy. Slimey and icky, and I just hope it's an idea you can focus away from. Father-in-Law was all kinds of inappropriate, and your husband at the least was woefully unempathic.

My commiserations.

I don't think it's all that weird. I would expect the exact same thing from any perverted old man. I've hung around my dad and his friends enough to see the way they look at ladies and it wouldn't be surprising in the least to find out one of them watched a sex tape of their daughter-in-law. The creepo part is that he told and propositioned you.

That should be taken at face value. He's a trashy scumbag. Whether he was drunk or not he has shown the possibility of purposefully destroying immediate family for a chance at *****. If your husband can't or won't have a serious talk with his dad about it he's either ignorant or a coward.

Forcing you to be uncomfortable in your own home over someone like him is unacceptable. Tell your husband it's not an option for it to remain unresolved. Stand up for yourself.

Meh. I doubt he was even paying attention to him.

I'm amazed he doesn't respond to weird questions from you with "This is something from that damn forum again, isn't it?".

That is my hubby... Thankfully he loves me and accepts the OOT... He has his own issues.

I hide the OOT from my friends and family like a raunchy sex tape.

Oh wait.

Which is why people in Western society would be so much better off if poly was more generally accepted. Poly isn't for everybody, but considering the amount of infidelity that occurs, monogamy clearly isn't working for a lot of people either.