Thumbelyna Quick Hands wrote:
My generation in my family has realized the futility of trying to get gifts for every member in our family. It could beyond expensive, even if we just tried to buy $5 gift cards to Starbucks for everyone, that could still easily get to $1,000. So our system has evolved to gifts to immediate family and our grandmother and favored cousins (and you pretty much know who you're going to get gifts from). And smallish gifts to your own godchildren.
And since we always see each other throughout the year, we've been known to just get a "just because" gift as in "Hey, saw this at the mall and thought you'd like it."
It works. So far.
Since there are no young children in my family anymore, we've stopped doing gifts for all the nieces and nephews and Godchildren, and implemented a $10-20 Yankee swap, so each person only has to buy one gift. Of course, this works well because the gatherings are usually under 20 people.
Of course, my grandmother also does a blind Yankee swap with things she's accumulated over the year, such as credit union beach towels, bungee cords, etc. We do the swap like you normally would, but without unwrapping the gifts until after it's over. It's usually a ton of fun.
Edited, Dec 27th 2010 11:49am by Spoonless