catwho wrote:
Thanks!
I heard having no kids actually makes the marriage have better odds (provided that is what both halves agreed to before getting married, anyway.) Every time we seriously consider fostering, we end up changing our minds again after spending a day with his niece and nephew (10 and 8, respectively) and reminding ourselves that we're grumpy curmudgeons that hate children.
That really depends. There are people that will stick it out for the sake of the children and other people who split up because they change their minds on the kid issue.
In all honesty, every marriage is different and don't let statistics make you view your marriage a certain way. Ray and I statistically should have been divorced by now but we've hunkered down and gotten through things again and again.