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#27 REDACTED, Posted: Apr 16 2010 at 11:44 AM, Rating: Sub-Default, (Expand Post) You should have kicked his sorry butt to the curb 10 years ago! After a year or so of not getting the lifetime goals inline? You should have moved on. Now you have a mess to deal with. I'd say "I want the house now get out of it!" But, its your life. I wish you luck.

#28 Apr 16 2010 at 11:47 AM Rating: Excellent

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You should have kicked his sorry butt to the curb 10 years ago! After a year or so of not getting the lifetime goals inline? You should have moved on. Now you have a mess to deal with. I'd say "I want the house now get out of it!" But, its your life. I wish you luck.

Another post of Tailmon's where she completely missed it all.

Edited, Apr 16th 2010 2:48pm by Uglysasquatch

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Tailmon wrote:

You should have kicked his sorry butt to the curb 10 years ago! After a year or so of not getting the lifetime goals inline? You should have moved on. Now you have a mess to deal with. I'd say "I want the house now get out of it!" But, its your life. I wish you luck.

Yeah, because peoples' goals, wants and needs don't change at all ever, especially not from the time they're 18 until they're 29.

Edited, Apr 16th 2010 1:54pm by Spoonless

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I think it's because this is in the OoT, but I keep seeing the title of this thread as, "I Took a Big **** Yesterday", and honestly, I'd be more interested.

#32 Apr 16 2010 at 12:36 PM Rating: Excellent

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Whoa, Tofu, I should have figured something big was happening from the FB updates! Good on you I says! Yes it'll be tough, but you're definitely doing the right thing, and the road might be long and hard but you've got people who will offer you support every step of the way!

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Spoonless wrote:

Tailmon wrote:

You should have kicked his sorry butt to the curb 10 years ago! After a year or so of not getting the lifetime goals inline? You should have moved on. Now you have a mess to deal with. I'd say "I want the house now get out of it!" But, its your life. I wish you luck.

Yeah, because peoples' goals, wants and needs don't change at all ever, especially not from the time they're 18 until they're 29.

Nope, never.

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It is rare the right thing is the easy thing. Best Tofu.

ps- I did live with an ex fiancee for @6 weeks due to circumstances. He moved into the other bedroom. It was odd. When I stopped be utterly pissed, we were able to have some conversations that did provide some closure. Best thing though was that I didn't marry the guy...

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Congratulations, Tofu.

My husband and I had the baby talk a while ago. It can get rather uncomfortable and awkward. I'm proud of you for not letting him steer your life in ways that you aren't happy with.

And I think you're right. It'll be scary at first to be on your own for the first time in a long time, but then it'll get awesome. Smiley: laugh

It's such a good feeling to know that you can take care of yourself, no matter what.

Good luck, and if you need to vent or get anything off your chest, feel free to PM me.

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I commend you for being forthcoming with him, I do though think you are making a mistake still being there. Wouldn't it be better to at least stay at a friends a few nights a week? For the both of you?

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#37 Apr 16 2010 at 3:39 PM Rating: Excellent

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I'm sure if you asked him to make butt-babies he'd say yes.

Sounds like a reasonable compromise to me.

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Belkira the Tulip wrote:

My husband and I had the baby talk a while ago. It can get rather uncomfortable and awkward.

Is there actually room in you for a baby?

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Belkira the Tulip wrote:

My husband and I had the baby talk a while ago.

Oh yeah? So what's the verdict? Continuing your genetic line sometime in the future?

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Belkira the Tulip wrote:

My husband and I had the baby talk a while ago.

Oh yeah? So what's the verdict? Continuing your genetic line sometime in the future?

I hope the answer is yes.

Since sleeping with Belkira is out of the question I can wait 18 years (16 in Canada) for a daughter to mature.

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You know, Tofu, if you really want to get pregnant a good idea might be to wear a Belkira mask.

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You know, Tofu, if you really want to get pregnant a good idea might be to wear a Belkira mask.

I'd throw some unprotected sex her way.

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Uglysasquatch, Mercenary Major wrote:

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YOU CAN'T CALL SHOTGUN UNTIL YOU CAN SEE THE CAR!

If you know the name of the car you can call shotgun before actually seeing the car.

Edited, Apr 16th 2010 10:57am by Flixa

What the @#%^ kind of shenanigans is this?!

Bullsh*t Shennanigans. Everyone knows the rules of Shotgun and this is not part of it. This is some bullsh*t someone pulled on flixa and he fell for it.

Not as Flixa stated it, no.

Scenario: Four people. All have driven to the current location. Someone asks "who's driving?" As soon as a driver volunteers, anyone can call shotgun AT THAT POINT regardless of line-of-sight to said car.

I feel for ya, toohot. Smiley: frown

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As soon as a driver volunteers, anyone can call shotgun AT THAT POINT regardless of line-of-sight to said car.

That's just your friends being nice because LoS to the car for you starts about two feet away from the car. Smiley: frown

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Spoonless wrote:

Friar Bijou wrote:

As soon as a driver volunteers, anyone can call shotgun AT THAT POINT regardless of line-of-sight to said car.

That's just your friends being nice because LoS to the car for you starts about two feet away from the car. Smiley: frown

Goddam you, Picklefork!! Smiley: mad

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Belkira the Tulip wrote:

My husband and I had the baby talk a while ago.

Oh yeah? So what's the verdict? Continuing your genetic line sometime in the future?

Nah. I was a little conflicted, at first, 'cause I always sort of felt like I'd have a kid eventually. But I sort of started realizing that I don't really want to, and I only felt that way because it just seemed like the inevitable product of a marriage. My husband and I... well, we aren't what you'd call "clean people," and our eating habits suck. We love to hang out and drink and play video games until three in the morning, then sleep until noon. A kid just wouldn't fit in. Smiley: lol

I'm ok being selfish on this one. Smiley: nod

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Think of it as raising a kid with a robust immune system. Smiley: laugh

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Belkira the Tulip wrote:

AshOnMyTomatoes wrote:

Belkira the Tulip wrote:

My husband and I had the baby talk a while ago.

Oh yeah? So what's the verdict? Continuing your genetic line sometime in the future?

Nah. I was a little conflicted, at first, 'cause I always sort of felt like I'd have a kid eventually. But I sort of started realizing that I don't really want to, and I only felt that way because it just seemed like the inevitable product of a marriage. My husband and I... well, we aren't what you'd call "clean people," and our eating habits suck. We love to hang out and drink and play video games until three in the morning, then sleep until noon. A kid just wouldn't fit in. Smiley: lol

I'm ok being selfish on this one. Smiley: nod

Not selfish at all. Realistic.

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Samira wrote:

Think of it as raising a kid with a robust immune system. Smiley: laugh

Maybe it'd be a mutant. That'd be kinda awesome....

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Belkira the Tulip wrote:

My husband and I had the baby talk a while ago.

Oh yeah? So what's the verdict? Continuing your genetic line sometime in the future?

Nah. I was a little conflicted, at first, 'cause I always sort of felt like I'd have a kid eventually. But I sort of started realizing that I don't really want to, and I only felt that way because it just seemed like the inevitable product of a marriage. My husband and I... well, we aren't what you'd call "clean people," and our eating habits suck. We love to hang out and drink and play video games until three in the morning, then sleep until noon. A kid just wouldn't fit in. Smiley: lol

I'm ok being selfish on this one. Smiley: nod

Not selfish at all. Realistic.

I did inform my husband today, though, that we'd be getting a puppy eventually. He's not too excited about that. I told him it's better than a kid.

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Belkira the Tulip wrote:

Samira wrote:

Think of it as raising a kid with a robust immune system. Smiley: laugh

Maybe it'd be a mutant. That'd be kinda awesome....

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Belkira the Tulip wrote:

AshOnMyTomatoes wrote:

Belkira the Tulip wrote:

My husband and I had the baby talk a while ago.

Oh yeah? So what's the verdict? Continuing your genetic line sometime in the future?

Nah. I was a little conflicted, at first, 'cause I always sort of felt like I'd have a kid eventually. But I sort of started realizing that I don't really want to, and I only felt that way because it just seemed like the inevitable product of a marriage. My husband and I... well, we aren't what you'd call "clean people," and our eating habits suck. We love to hang out and drink and play video games until three in the morning, then sleep until noon. A kid just wouldn't fit in. Smiley: lol

I'm ok being selfish on this one. Smiley: nod

Not selfish at all. Realistic.

I did inform my husband today, though, that we'd be getting a puppy eventually. He's not too excited about that. I told him it's better than a kid.

Lol I told the hubby we would have plants before kids... And I second Nad on this one, not selfish at all. So many people have kids for the wrong reasons. Not having them or having them for right reasons is pretty good.

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I want to have kids someday so I have somone to pass on my evil empire too. Also to get revenge on the public school system. I told them they would rue that day. RUE IT!!!!

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