Yeah, you need one compatible with the business of kids. I think Maine Coons are good with that and although they're a bit pricey they're also large enough to kill burglars as well as spiders.
It also helps to make sure the cat has a sufficiently high place to itself where the kids can't reach it.
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"Maine Coons can rival the size of small dogs and are highly intelligent, playful and energetic. They thrive in families that include children and other pets, including dogs. Be aware that they are very dexterous and are capable of using their front paws like raccoons to scoop up food. They like to dunk favorite toys in water bowls. They have been known to stretch up, wrap their front paws on door knobs and open doors. "
source "Maine Coons are known as the "gentle giants" and possess above-average intelligence, making them relatively easy to train. They are known for being loyal to their family and cautious—but not mean—around strangers, but are independent and not clingy. The Maine **** is generally not known for being a "lap cat" but
their gentle disposition makes the breed relaxed around dogs, other cats, and children. They are playful throughout their lives, with males tending to be more clownish and females generally possessing more dignity, yet both are equally affectionate. Many Maine Coons have a fascination with water and some theorize that this personality trait comes from their ancestors, who were aboard ships for much of their lives. Maine Coons are also well known for yowling, chattering, chirping, "talking" (especially "talking back" to their owners), and making other loud vocalizations."
wiki Edit 2: On a sidenote, I've posted 60 times in 2 days now... I think I may be turning into lolgaxe.
Edited, Aug 10th 2013 12:00am by Aethien