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I am 41/20/0 specc and i can do good in instances and in arenas but when it comes to soloing pve, pvp, im not that good i am not sure what to do a level 68 war can kill me if hes good enough and i dont want that to happen

With outlands quest gear giving you lots of spell damage plate you should have two distinct sets, one focused on healing for groups, the other on spell damage for soloing.

Would help if you linked your armory so we could see what you have equiped for pve gear as well as for your talents. 41/20 just gives us a general idea. I think I logged out in my pve gear (not fully spell damage yet) if you want to see what I have just click the sig.

Just run around and solo various mobs and quests. With my gear and experience I can easily solo most level 70 elite quests that require 2 or sometimes 3. Hell, as a paladin you can solo the entire dimensius chain which requires 5 people at the end!!

Netherstorm and shadowmoon valley would be where I'd go to practice. Throw up your DND tag and go at it. Ignore all requests for groups, dungeons, etc. until you are confident in your play style and abilities as a paladin.

When soloing (I use ret aura) my general mode of attack is Judgement of Wisdom -> Seal of Vengeance -> Consecrate (Max Rank) -> Seal of the Illidari (quest item) -> Holy Shock -> Judgement of Vengeance at 5 stacks -> Seal of Wisdom and always stunning as needed. By the time I put that second seal of light up my Hammer of Justice can be used but due to the dot ticks I find it better to use SoW and just flash heal twice at the end of the fight. Generally finish the fight with 80% health and 90% mana.