Aww, that's okay Juggy. I am fully aware that Proudmoore is not for everyone. I'd guess someone from one of the Taint guilds hit on you and it freaked you out? They can be a bit over the top sometimes.
But you didn't need to take me off real id too.
I enjoyed playing with you, and it'd be fun to do heroics together occasionally.
DarkPoet2011 wrote:
Actually Pigtails since your a woman I'll ask you.... IF a man tried to get you help from gaming addiction to the point she was at and he told you that the only way you would stay married if you went to counseling TOGETHER would you run off or would you give the chance?!
If I still loved the guy, and wanted to save my marriage, absolutely. But to be honest, I would never let it get to that point. Sure, there are times I will hold it while I'm playing because I'm busy doing something, but I've never got remotely close to being so absorbed in the game that I forget to use the bathroom, or sleep or eat. That's incredibly ****** up. That really hints that WoW was not the real issue for your wife. There is something else seriously wrong with her if she was able to get that absorbed in it.
My primary has on occasion joked about being a WoW widow. I'll admit, I have from time to time, gotten a bit carried away with how much I play. But that was really due more to depression and **** going on in my life that I just didn't know how to deal with, than the game itself. It's an escape, and sometimes a needed one. But sometimes I do go overboard and if he tells me I'm going overboard, I try very hard to own that and cut back without getting resentful of him. Plus, if he really needs me, I'm there for him. This last weekend I had the opportunity to test out the Star Wars MMO. Literally, 5 minutes after I got a group for the first dungeon after you leave the starting zone, he sent me a text asking if I could come pick him up because he didn't want to sleep alone. I told him I'd just got in a dungeon and would he mind waiting an hour or so. He replied that he wasn't in the right head space to be able to handle coming second to a video game, so I told him I'd be right over. I apologized to the people in my group and left, and got him and brought him back to my place. I may not be perfect, but I am always there for my men and my friends when they need me. If I was in the middle of a raid in WoW, I'd do the same thing.