selebrin wrote:
You're not in Rose Thorns, are you? That's our situation too.
No. I'm sure it's not an uncommon problem though. I would think especially in guilds like mine which are more casual/social inclined and not necessarily strict as far as raiding goes.
We have a quite a few people in the guild. We have a number of really solid people in the guild. Our hunter, rogue, and mage are on daily nearly without fail and consistently put up solid numbers. Myself and the guild/raid leader are likewise with heals. My wife is a solid tank and is always there. The 2nd tank spot seems to rotate through 3 guildies -who are all decent but none phenomenal- depending on who happens to show up/have decent internet/feels like it. The 3rd heal spot . . I feel kind of bad for her but her connection is atrocious and as a result she underperforms almost consistently and disconnects constantly. But she's nice enough and is always there so she goes.
Because that's how guilds like mine (and maybe yours) go; its more like youth sports where everybody gets to play regardless of performance because we're a team and that's what we do.
The other 2 spots, as I said, go to whatever guildy happens to have signed up -and more importantly showed up- or to a small group of people we know from old guilds, sister guilds, or whatever. Some of them are really good but just on sporadically, others not so much.
Our guild seems to place more emphasis on the idea of going than on actually winning. Which kind of annoys me a bit honestly, but I guess I don't care enough to let it bother me too much. It can be aggravating to run with people you chatter in /g with every day and have them doing 4k or 7k on a raid boss and just knowing that this is simply not going to happen due to badness.
I think guilds which are a lot more "business" oriented probably fare much better in this regard. You try out, you test, those who perform best get the spot. You better show up on time every time or you're out. You have the same team every time barring emergencies, etc. But they don't care about hurt feelings and making friends so much either I wouldn't suppose. This is why I'm not a guild or raid leader though - I'd have an aneurism.