When I join guilds on my alts, I often do so because it's fun. I practically troll them - but I troll them with good information. I've been in guilds where someone was discussing dungeon runs and how their tank sucked because they died. The convo went like this:
DPS: GD, what a nub tank, I just died, he can't keep hate.
Me: Did you focus fire on his target?
DPS: No way, I just AoE sh*t, a DPS's job is to do DAMAGE
Me: How much damage did you do while dead?
DPS: STFU, the healer should have healed me, I was outdamaging the other DPSers.
Me: Did they take aggro though?
DPS: No way, they don't do enough, they're not boss like me
Me: So you didn't focus fire, stole aggro, died, blamed the tank for not keeping hate, the healer for not healing, and the others DPSers for not being as good as you, but ended up most likely with less damage overall?
DPS: F*ck you man.
-You have been kicked out of (Random Guild)-
This actually happened two days ago on my druid alt
. I don't take these conversations very seriously because I tend to have a thick skin; but also I'm kinda careless sometimes. The other day I accidentally angered one of my co-GMs by a thoughtless comment. Had to backpedal quickly.
Geo, I think Raw's point was that if you're not happy with your situation, escaping into videogames is probably not going to make it better. I too think you're a fine poster, and it would be a shame if you left, but if you're not happy with the game there's no reason to keep playing it,
especially if it's getting in the way of other activities which would make you happier IRL. I do disagree with your points that Cataclysm is harder - single-player it hasn't been for me yet, but I'm only level 83. It's possible it gets tougher at 85 or in dungeons (only done BRC and it was pretty equivalent to WotLK), but single-player is fine for me so far. Stick it out, and hopefully it'll get better for you - if not, definitely find something that IS fun
Anyway, back on topic...
I don't mind the "nerf" much. My guild is active, but small, maybe 10 full-timers and 5 casual gamers (I'm one of those), and we're at rank 2 right now. I honestly never even looked at the ranks much - I was more worried about the reputation with the guild, which is taking me FOREVER to accumulate. It still seems like it'll be that way for a bit, but we will progress slowly. The guild is good at putting together guild events, either dungeon runs or achievement runs, so we'll skill up or get the group achievements eventually. I can only see this as being a problem is micro-guilds of less than 5 people, but in that case the guild often won't be using a lot of perks anyway. It might feel like a snub, but it seems pretty fair to me; at least, as fair as you can get.